Virgins

[Janesripper]

Ok guys ill try to make sense with all this,

Well me and my girlfriend are Christains and where both virgins, im doing pe for a goal of 9'' nbp and 6-7'' girth. My girlfriend is asain and a virgin as stated above, she says she is really tight. If i do get to my goal size. What advice can you give me when we have sex on wedding night, I know its going to hurt her and she is going to bleed. But I dont want it to be to extremly painful, plus i know over time, she will get used to it, and her vagina will adapted. Well hopefully this all makes sense rofl and some of u guys can give me some tips. well thanks a million.

 

[Zuul]

Well... I didn't have your problem with either my size or hers. The only thing I can think of is to start off using lubrication-ky jelly or vasoline. Something that will help before the natural juices.

Also, you may want to try massaging her as a form of foreplay. Foreplay can play a very important role in her getting ready for sex. It stimulates parts of her body in the anticipation.

Just be slow, you'll have (hopefully) your whole lives to have sex, don't try to push it too much the first night. Also, you may want to avoid any deep penetration positions at first (I'll let someone else chime in on that stuff).

 

[Janesripper]

Well... I didn't have your problem with either my size or hers. The only thing I can think of is to start off using lubrication-ky jelly or vasoline. Something that will help before the natural juices.

Also, you may want to try massaging her as a form of foreplay. Foreplay can play a very important role in her getting ready for sex. It stimulates parts of her body in the anticipation.

Just be slow, you'll have (hopefully) your whole lives to have sex, don't try to push it too much the first night. Also, you may want to avoid any deep penetration positions at first (I'll let someone else chime in on that stuff).

Thanks Zuul, i really apperciate the adive you have provided, ill make sure i use some of the advie.

 

[against_odds21]

Over 6" on a very tight girl you may not be able to even have sex w/o causing serious injury. One of my g/f's friends lost it to a big guy and she was very tight and she had to go to the hospital, b/c she would not stop bleeding. You could be left out in the cold with a length that big, if that is a realistic goal for you anyways.

 

[Janesripper]

Over 6" on a very tight girl you may not be able to even have sex w/o causing serious injury. One of my g/f's friends lost it to a big guy and she was very tight and she had to go to the hospital, b/c she would not stop bleeding. You could be left out in the cold with a length that big, if that is a realistic goal for you anyways.

well its hard to say how things will turn out. Plus maybe the guy was rough and all that. I think with Zuul advice i think i might be ok, but i appercaite the advice bro.

 

[Baraka]

My advice? A lot of fingering, a lot of massaging and a lot of lube (mix in a lot of spit too, if you want). Most of all, take a lot of time with her- several prep sessions over several days, if necessary. And don't forget what was mentioned in Chasing Amy: constant updates. Make sure that there's two-way communication between you two at all times. Have fun with Jane, but don't "rip 'er" the first time.

Ok guys ill try to make sense with all this,

Well me and my girlfriend are Christains and where both virgins, im doing pe for a goal of 9'' nbp and 6-7'' girth. My girlfriend is asain and a virgin as stated above, she says she is really tight. If i do get to my goal size. What advice can you give me when we have sex on wedding night, I know its going to hurt her and she is going to bleed. But I dont want it to be to extremly painful, plus i know over time, she will get used to it, and her vagina will adapted. Well hopefully this all makes sense rofl and some of u guys can give me some tips. well thanks a million.

 

[Janesripper]

My advice? A lot of fingering, a lot of massaging and a lot of lube (mix in a lot of spit too, if you want). Most of all, take a lot of time with her- several prep sessions over several days, if necessary. And don't forget what was mentioned in Chasing Amy: constant updates. Make sure that there's two-way communication between you two at all times. Have fun with Jane, but don't "rip 'er" the first time.

hahaha, thanks alot bro, im glad you figured out my name, And really good advice, but with the whold lube thing, wont that make alot of mess, like on my hands and stuff?

 

[AlbertaBeef]

You need very little to start with especially if you are just messaging. Try what they call a Sensate Message where you are essentially exploring each other, you are not trying to turn her on more yourself and same with her when it's her turn. If you decide you are ready for penetration and you both are relaxed and in tune with each other you just have to enter her slowly, only the glans at first and don't force it as much as you want to. Of course what was mentioned about communicating is critical. This is cool as a christian myself I respect your virginity as you can give it to anyone if you want but you can never get it back.

 

[esteban]

I was with a virgin (I was at the time as well), and she was rather tight when we started, like I could barely get one finger in, my pinky fit fine, but my index finger was a bit tight. But by the time it came to actual intercourse (probably a few weeks later), her body adjusted fine to it. I wasn't that girth, but she didn't experience any pain at all, so I think the same thing applies. I know, you might not have ANY chances before the actual first time if you're both sticking to the virgin till your married choice...but same rule applies, go slow.

 

[Baraka]

Uh, yeah! But then again, so would blood. Your choice.

hahaha, thanks alot bro, im glad you figured out my name, And really good advice, but with the whold lube thing, wont that make alot of mess, like on my hands and stuff?

 

[9cyclops9]

Good to see another Christian!! And one that's actually sticking to the virgin thing!

I'm in the same boat as you, I'll be marrying my fiance next June ('06), and she's worried about the first time (naturally). I'm keeping my goal girth at 6" or maybe even 5.75" just to be safe. I can always go for more later if I decide I need to. Of course I can't help you with how to make it more bearable for her the first time, but what the other guys have said sounds reasonable (I might make sure to pick up some lube on my wedding day just in case).

Mainly just wanted to chime in and say you're not alone here. It's tough to do, but stick with it man. If you EVER need to talk to another Christian hit me up on AIM. It's in my profile.

 

[Janesripper]

Good to see another Christian!! And one that's actually sticking to the virgin thing!

I'm in the same boat as you, I'll be marrying my fiance next June ('06), and she's worried about the first time (naturally). I'm keeping my goal girth at 6" or maybe even 5.75" just to be safe. I can always go for more later if I decide I need to. Of course I can't help you with how to make it more bearable for her the first time, but what the other guys have said sounds reasonable (I might make sure to pick up some lube on my wedding day just in case).

Mainly just wanted to chime in and say you're not alone here. It's tough to do, but stick with it man. If you EVER need to talk to another Christian hit me up on AIM. It's in my profile.

thanks alot bro , ill make sure i keep in touch with you.

 

[Janesripper]

Thanks Guys for all you help and stuff. it means alot to me.

 

[prince Albert]

To be honest mate i think you need a reality check,you have never had sex with a women and your talking about having sex with a virgin with a girth size of 6-7 inches and 9 nbpl,if you are lucky enough to reach that size then you will cause her alot of pain and may even put her off sex.

Ive been with my missus for over 10 year and she has had two kids and at just short of 6 inch girth and 7.5 nbpl she says it feels big and sometimes complains it hurts goes to deep and often feels sore after sex even with the use of lube.

What is the reason for waiting to have sex with your girl,if you are planning to marry her anyway why wait.

 

[esteban]

What is the reason for waiting to have sex with your girl,if you are planning to marry her anyway why wait.

If it is how he says, I'm sure his reasons are purely religious. I am Christian...Catholic even, but I am under the 'to each his own' philosophy. So I can understand his reasoning...if thats what he wants, then more power to him. And...definitely good work on finding a virgin. rofl Not easy at all to do anymore, depending on where you look in my opinion. But like he said, 6-7 inches girth might be pushing it. If this is the girl you plan on spending your life with, and she's tight, then there's not much need to push the girth issue. I am never one to try to discourage someone from attempting to reach their goals...but re-evaluating them might not be a bad idea. Your choice.

 

[Janesripper]

If it is how he says, I'm sure his reasons are purely religious. I am Christian...Catholic even, but I am under the 'to each his own' philosophy. So I can understand his reasoning...if thats what he wants, then more power to him. And...definitely good work on finding a virgin. rofl Not easy at all to do anymore, depending on where you look in my opinion. But like he said, 6-7 inches girth might be pushing it. If this is the girl you plan on spending your life with, and she's tight, then there's not much need to push the girth issue. I am never one to try to discourage someone from attempting to reach their goals...but re-evaluating them might not be a bad idea. Your choice.

I totally understand, and i have eveluated it, im going to stick with 6'' in girth, cuz im already 5.5'' so a half inch wouldnt make that much of a difference , but i totally understand what your saying. And for Prince albert, it is purely mine and her religous beliefs, plus its going to be a very special thing, and the anticeapaction of waiting will just make sex that much more amazing for us. But like i said i really apperciate your guys help with this whole topic, plus i think the thread zuul posted about the cervix thing. explains alot of stuff. Well conitune posting stuff. thanks guys

 

[Janesripper]

this it the thread im talking about and it was posted by millionan, sorry
http://www.mattersofsize.com/forum/showthread.php?t=17272

 

[penguinsfan]

This is cool as a christian myself I respect your virginity as you can give it to anyone if you want but you can never get it back.

A Canadian Christian? I hear they've become more and more rare over the last couple of generations.

 

[penguinsfan]

To be honest mate i think you need a reality check,you have never had sex with a women and your talking about having sex with a virgin with a girth size of 6-7 inches and 9 nbpl,if you are lucky enough to reach that size then you will cause her alot of pain and may even put her off sex.

I second this. Dude, you're talking about a really big cock with those dimensions. To say it won't be necessary is an understatement. That is plenty enough for most any woman, because I wouldn't want to hit anything that considered that inadequate. For a tight, first-timer that thing is going to feel like a dock post. What are your current measurements if I might ask?

 

[BosheR]

I have a friend who has had dick before and had a really big dick.
Probabally not as big as THAT, and not want to continue cause it hurt so much.

For real. yeah a bigger dick is better.
But TOO big is just not good for most girls.

7 inch of girth is monster big. U will be pushing all of her skin inwards. 6 inch is very big to be fair.

Back when I had a 6.2 inch 5inch of girth I had a virgin asian girl bleeding all over my bed. She just about got through it. I was going slow.

I'm pretty serious about this Penis Enlargement thing. But I'm taking it too 8inch at the max.
My girlfriend put it like this about getting THAT big.

Get that big and I'll find a normal person. she said she had someone with a lot of girth and said it took 3 days to recover from bruising and found it wasnt pleasurable.

Basically. all I'm saying is. I think 9inch 7inch girth is going to really really hurt your wife and you might be making a mistake getting that big straight away.

Think about it for the sake of u both.

8inch 6inch girth is the BIGGEST you'd want to get on a virgin. If 6.2inch was causing blood everywhere. All over my lower stomach think what 9inch will do. THAT SIZE WILL HURT HER A LOT. Just a warning

 

[jakb]

I have a friend who has had dick before and had a really big dick.
Probabally not as big as THAT, and not want to continue cause it hurt so much.

For real. yeah a bigger dick is better.
But TOO big is just not good for most girls.

7 inch of girth is monster big. U will be pushing all of her skin inwards. 6 inch is very big to be fair.

Back when I had a 6.2 inch 5inch of girth I had a virgin asian girl bleeding all over my bed. She just about got through it. I was going slow.

I'm pretty serious about this Penis Enlargement thing. But I'm taking it too 8inch at the max.
My girlfriend put it like this about getting THAT big.

Get that big and I'll find a normal person. she said she had someone with a lot of girth and said it took 3 days to recover from bruising and found it wasnt pleasurable.

Basically. all I'm saying is. I think 9inch 7inch girth is going to really really hurt your wife and you might be making a mistake getting that big straight away.

Think about it for the sake of u both.

8inch 6inch girth is the BIGGEST you'd want to get on a virgin. If 6.2inch was causing blood everywhere. All over my lower stomach think what 9inch will do. THAT SIZE WILL HURT HER A LOT. Just a warning

Have to agree with this post. A 6inch girth is hard for ALOT of girls to take and this isnt their first time. Getting bigger is great but...