regardless of size why do women treat u better when u treat them like crap

[MrFreak]

I've been noticing lately tha nice guy approach won't keep a woman interested in you for long regardless if u have a big cock or not... I got a friend who I have ran train with who I've seen for my self has a small cock but he has women spending cash on him constantly chasing after them and he treats dem like shit... its fuckin confusing... me on the other hand I have gotten bigger ova tha past couple yrs of P.E way larger then he is and I try ta b nice and I dnt get dat same reaction... I tell u women are tha wierdest creatures on tha planet how is this possible

 

[Girth Hammer]

Penis size has ZERO to do with it unless you two are fuck buddies.

Some girls are like this cause of low self confidence from their childhood. While I'm not saying be a asshole, You have to let her know your not a pushover. If she even smells a little weakness from you, she will use you & push you to the side.

Also a lot of girls look at guys as projects. They think they can fix/change a guy. If you already came packaged up as a nice guy, She has nothing to fix. Then she gets bored.

And sad but true. Some girls are magnets to drama. She considers "nice" as boring.

And finally, Time to get REAL honest. ALOT if not all girls have no clue what they want in a guy. Ask any girl in a relationship what do you look for in a guy. I can almost promise you the dude she is with IS nothing like what she explained & she will swear up & down she is happy.

 

[kawai123]

Nice guy always finish last but that don't mean that you have to be a jerk.. Don't be too nice and don't be an asshole, just stay somewhere in the middle. Tease them and have fun, most importantly, don't take anything seriously. Girls love to be challenge.. If you give your power away easily then they see you as no challenge and the worst thing you might fall into the "friend zone" category. CONFIDENCE is very essential..

 

[MrFreak]

Well shit I'm bout ta start playin both roles for now on dis dnt make no damn since its like a psychological game with women I noticed back then when I use ta mix it up. Jst for fun the women would think I was crazy but b so addicted to me ha

 

[higherone]

Penis size has ZERO to do with it unless you two are fuck buddies.

Some girls are like this cause of low self confidence from their childhood. While I'm not saying be a asshole, You have to let her know your not a pushover. If she even smells a little weakness from you, she will use you & push you to the side.

Also a lot of girls look at guys as projects. They think they can fix/change a guy. If you already came packaged up as a nice guy, She has nothing to fix. Then she gets bored.

And sad but true. Some girls are magnets to drama. She considers "nice" as boring.

And finally, Time to get REAL honest. ALOT if not all girls have no clue what they want in a guy. Ask any girl in a relationship what do you look for in a guy. I can almost promise you the dude she is with IS nothing like what she explained & she will swear up & down she is happy.

Excellent post, GirthHammer!

 

[DLD]

It is pretty well known that a woman wants what she can't have.

 

[ownd]

Penis size has ZERO to do with it unless you two are fuck buddies.

Some girls are like this cause of low self confidence from their childhood. While I'm not saying be a asshole, You have to let her know your not a pushover. If she even smells a little weakness from you, she will use you & push you to the side.

Also a lot of girls look at guys as projects. They think they can fix/change a guy. If you already came packaged up as a nice guy, She has nothing to fix. Then she gets bored.

And sad but true. Some girls are magnets to drama. She considers "nice" as boring.

And finally, Time to get REAL honest. ALOT if not all girls have no clue what they want in a guy. Ask any girl in a relationship what do you look for in a guy. I can almost promise you the dude she is with IS nothing like what she explained & she will swear up & down she is happy.

Words of genius! this is a picture perfect situation of myself. I dated a girl were i finalyl fell in love, her past ex and her whole family treat her like shit she has so many problems and is attracted to drama, i treated her like a queen, was her only stable thing in life and guess waht she did dumped me and went back with a guy who cheats and beats her lol. Some girls are jus attracted to misery and drama.

I have learned since to just treat them like shit as you say, works great lol. at least for now till i want to settle down again

 

[twins172_up]

i hate to generalize a whole gender but..honestly girth hammer pretty much summed up every different scenario it could be...just like men..women has many layers..can not just label them as one particular thing...but some are just drawn to unhealthy situations...my son mother has been with her current boyfriend for four years and he has been married the whole time, go figure...i don't think women want to be treated bad because they spend a lot of time complaining to people about how bad they are being treated..but when someone tells them to get out they make excuses and want to show the positives of the relationship...men do the same thing but women tend to deal with it more...i would say don't change who you are..but find someone that isn't about bullshit that know when they want in a person and try to give them that...a chick that is going to dog a nice guys isn't worth shit anyway...my opinion

 

[Steady]

It's all based on the dynamics of attraction. Those dynamics are counter-intuitive to what we think they should be.

Go read the book, "No More Mr Nice Guy". Don't let the title fool you - it's not about becoming an asshole. Excellent book in my opinion. He has a website No More Mr Nice Guy that you can check out.

Also, a lot of people will generalize what a woman wants. The fact is, unhealthy people want unhealthy people, and healthy people will be attracted to healthy people. If you find yourself attracting flakes then take a look at yourself. We are the only common denominator in our relationships and they always follow a certain pattern. That's why women who marry/date alcoholics will always find themselves in relationships with that type of man. Even if he doesn't drink he'll still have very similar characteristics - alcohol is a symptom of a deeper internal problem and not the problem itself.

 

[mahoney1234]

No matter what girls will never ever know what they want because what I've come to terms with is they are just difficult and most are far from straight forward. You can give a girl everything they ask for and it just won't be good enough. I play the asshole role and I usually come out winning. Just remember key thing is there are two types of assholes. The asshole no one likes and feels your an asshole, and the asshole everyone likes because your an asshole. When I broke that barrier life just became better.

 

[Jonny5]

OK, I've seen a few girls like this before, and I've seen a few that have been done wrong, been screwed over and cheated on, and want nothing more than to have a LTR w/ a good, stable, secure guy. It's all relative to the maturity of the chick.
Fuck that " treat em like shit, and they'll treat me good" idea.

 

[Rude_God]

I agree with you MrFreak. I always find the nicer I am to girls the less attracted they are to me, while the ones I treat badly end up really falling for me. The thing is, I don't want to treat girls badly, and I always feel guilty when I do, but being nice just seems to not work ?

 

[Wang Chung]

Dont necessarily be an asshole, but be unpredictable, mysterious. And if you think the girl want something to fix, just start off crazy and then let her "fix" you the longer you are together.

 

[Medicating]

If you're too much of asshole, they will find you an asshole and they will stop talking to you. If you are too nice and too clingy, they will say they need space. You need to keep a happy medium. If you get it right, you'll win every argument you have without trying. They will just accept they were wrong, even if they weren't in the wrong. They will always say they 'want to make it up to you' after you tell them they've done something wrong too. If you ignore them, they will try every means of contact to get in touch. These are just a few signs.

 

[keepingitbig]

I don't know. Some women are emotional driven and thrive off drama. Others, don't, but they're rare and not really noticeable these days.

 

[DLD]

Keep yourself just out of their reach, like a bunny chasing a carrot, eventually they will do anything to get your attention and the prize will be yours. I like using the Nash Theorem when thinking about girls, it does apply

 

[MrFreak]

But seriously how long can someone possibly keep up dis niceguy/asshole routine... especially if your in a long term relationship... eventually they wil probably catch on even tho women are wiered they are very smart

 

[Turnover]

Don't expect a good woman worth knowing to chase you, aren't YOU worth more