Aimingforthetop;637803 said:
adult entertainment is the most visualized version of sex that we have. And it is purely there for that.
Now i can agree on adult entertainment being very one way (white man. Or black man and small chicks in different colors worshipping these men)
My objection to it. Was the statement that women is now becoming humiliated and dominated because of adult entertainment.
Because i don't believe that is true.
I don't believe fifty shades of gray. Suddenly turned women into machocists.
I believe FSOG made women realize they already had that in them.
I believe equality is a unnatural state.
In my country more and more women is getting high educations.
Do you kbow what a woman who is highly educated wants in a man?
One that is even more educated.
This has led to a big amount of depression through the high class of society. As the women can't seem to find a mate.
So my statement at first.
Women want to feel dominated. Because in the domination there is safety.
And in safety there is room to have children.
It is as simple as that.
My objection with the article was the victimization of the women.
I hear what you're saying, and I agree that Fifty Shades of Gray and all of that did not teach women to like to be dominated. It allowed them to accept that in themselves if that's what they like. That part of the article I did not agree with.
adult entertainment these days though is not adult entertainment of even 10 or 20 years ago. It's not a visualization of sex, especially not the POV videos, but strictly masturbation material. The article singled out (as I am), the mainstream adult entertainment that is not high production or even a movie but is instead just a group of scenes that are as dehumanizing and desensitizing as possible. The whole objective is to get the guy to jerk off and cum. Not only that, but the industry has exploded and clearly manipulates things so that they can get guys hooked as young as possible and then sell them sex toys and other extreme things because they are so screwed up when it comes to the opposite sex. Not only that, but adult entertainment used to actually promote beauty and beautiful women, but now instead the majority of pornstars are average ass girls who have been done up to look better than they are and yet still are not beautiful or anything special, minus some aspects of their body. It promotes body parts to jerk off to, not actual women to fantasize about or even want sexually. The adult entertainment industry is actively trying to turn guys into lifetime addicts and people who go to conventions and are fanboys rather than men. Fanboys of mostly average ass girls, whose only redeeming quality is how slutty they are and the skills they have.
adult entertainment
used to be a visualization of sex, complete with making out and other things you actually do during sex, even as it got a bit more hardcore. Now though, there's none of that because there's no actual movies or plot, no matter how cheesy. It's been mass produced and put into a system similar to a superpowered assembly line. The biggest problem is due to "Reality adult entertainment" in my opinion, which changed adult entertainment from being a movie with a plot or at least something that seemed to take place inside a world you escaped to, to basically an amateur sex tape that is as dehumanizing and desexualized as possible. There's often a cameraman and a stunt cock and poor attempts to make it POV. It's only a visualization of sex if that sex happens to be exclusively with a hooker. It's all business, or if not that then it's guys pretending to "recruit" girls by paying them, pretending that they're amateurs. Either that, or it's like a rap video. Rappers and other people at the top of the food chain in the hood view everything as objects and as commodities they can attain through what they do. It's a big part of their motivation early on. The problem is, all of that is now exploding in mainstream society where people don't get to the top of the food chain by survival of the fittest and by being physically superior or tougher.
The things you hold dear about men and women and passion are being killed in an entire generation of kids and young adults, thanks to current adult entertainment and other things like it. That's what the article is pointing out. Guys don't know how to interact with girls, so girls grow up only knowing how to be that way, the same shit that happens in the ghetto where girls get oversexualized at a crazy young age. It is incredibly unhealthy, and is what spread to adult entertainment and other mainstream society through rap and other depictions of ghetto culture. People think ghetto girls get pregnant young because they're irresponsible. In reality though, it's because they've been taught to have no self worth or self respect and that they're just an object for sex and their role is to booty pop and do whatever they can to get guys to want to fuck them, and that bullshit has spread to mainstream Western society and exploded. Trust me, I grew up in a much more watered down version of that bullshit. I grew up in an old school working class neighborhood so we were raised to respect women and to never raise your hand to one yet every single influence around us taught us to treat girls that were not yet women as sluts and objects for sex, so the influence basically raised us to view any female who was not an elder as objects for sex and sluts to use. There was no "I like you, I like you back" or "I'm attracted to this girl and want to kiss her and be intimate with her and have sex with her". Instead, there was "Yo look at that redhead jawn over there. I'd hit it". It was like we viewed every girl as a free hooker who was only there for us to use however we saw fit. I was lucky enough to get away from that bullshit mindset and mentality as a teenager before it cemented me as being like that.
Don't get me wrong. I absolutely love that girls these days are so much more open and "down for whatever", but they don't have the right mindset when doing that, and that's the problem. They don't do it as independent women getting theirs. They do it as basically sex slaves pretending that being a "feminist" is about giving a guy complete control and being as slutty as possible then claiming to have "gotten yours". Independence is about being in control of the situation and not letting other people dictate what you give them. Fifty Shades of Grey and any legitimate master/slave, dom/sub relationship is about the woman being in control and fully and of her own free will giving you control and accepting a position of sexual submission to you. It is her giving you her trust and putting her pleasure in your hands. That is how any type of sexual activity should be, especially activity that is degrading to the girl who is engaging in it, because if she does not decide of her own free will as an independent individual what she will let the guy do or how much of herself she will give, then she is nothing more than an object to use by whoever wants to, and not by choice. These girls don't understand that though, and it's because the guys have that bullshit ghetto mentality and mindset now, especially in the suburbs.
That is why adult entertainment is what the end of the world looks like.