Thanks heaps for the reply
@oldandlively it is very helpful and what you are saying makes perfect sense.
The foreskin was not retracted, so it sounds like you are right.
It has been a long time since I have revised the videos and from looking at them again now (nice work on the updated video section) I am definitely doing it wrong.
My instincts were to the effect that the foreskin is there to protect, so it would act as a "protective layer of sorts", but instead, I am getting a more of a pull on the skin, and not the shaft as required. So the art here seems to be getting the required grip to create a pull on the shaft, not the skin.
Hopefully, now retrying, I will be able to get it better.
I think due to the fact that I was still getting a pull on the shaft before with the wrapping on the foreskin over the glans and ridge, (but not as much as it would be if set up right), I still thought it was ok. But all the pull should be on the shaft. I will try again many times over the next few weeks and see how I go. I will try and notice and look out for indicators that the pull is occurring in the right area/on the right part - the shaft, and not jsut pulling the skin down.
I have not really done it before with the foreskin pulled back before so will see how I go. Initially I thought that it would be harder due to the glans and ridge being more susceptible to pain - so keeping the foreskin over was just my "instinct" I guess - another wrapping.
I am guessing that everyone who has tried this way - with the foreskin NOT pulled back has encountered this issue and has had to pull it back to work?
Interested to hear what people have experienced.
Many thanks for your help
@oldandlively , will let you know how I go.