It's all in the mind

[Bullmoose]

Well gentle ladies, It's all in the mind you know, whether you 5" long or 10" makes no difference to 90% of the women. It's not what you've got, but how you use what have.
Now that seem a funny statement, but being a 35 old female who has had more cock than you could shake a stick at, I know what I am talking about. If your cock is long and thick you have a problem, because you will hurt the women that you are trying screw, On the hand if it is to small, I mean around 3" long and not very thick, she will feel nothing. The Ideal size for 95% of women is around 5-7" long and 3-4" thick.

So you ladies it's not what you've got but how you use it what you have.

MR

 

[wdis3]

I agree with what you say, but I also believe that size matters..

but i think no matter what your size is.. I think w/a little hard work and dedication you can get a size that makes her shout!

 

[ctmwm]

Yes Misty you are correct. Do some searches on that subject. We have had HUGE threads devoted to just that. What it the best all around size.

 

[Bullmoose]

Well my dear boy, I have had all kinds of dicks, large fat one's, long thin one's, but I suppose the best is one about 7 1/2" long and about 5.5 in the girth, that belonged to a fellow from either Barbados, Jacarta, or Jamaica. I met this man in Blackpool which is about 40 miles from I used to live. He was a great fuck, all the women wanted him badly.

 

[wdis3]

Okay so your saying you'd be happy w/my dick?


if size doesnt matter.. lots of girls think im a hottie none want me cuz im an asshole who likes to fight assholes who dis-respct me..


im worried about size so much i wouldnt show mine to a girl..

 

[JJcali]

Ok, I know many many girls have said this that size doesn't matter. But how many girls believe a guy that says if he had to choose a B or C cup for the girl he would choose the B? It seems to work both ways society and our culture makes girls think bigger tits are better why guys think a bigger dick is better.

For a girlfriend, yes I want my dick to be a good size so she gets off and were both happy. Now this mgiht sound a little wierd but for hook ups, one night stands,ect I would rather have a huge dick that would not feel good for the girl than have a smaller dick and get her off. The reasoning...

I could care less if some girl that i don't care that much about really gets off, I'm sure shes had more and maybe better. But when she tells her friends that it wasn't that good becuase my dick was too big? This sounds bad but thats good news for me lol. The other girls will want to know more and I don't think its ever bad knews to get around that your not the best lay becuase you've got a huge dick. That's just my opinion though.

 

[wdis3]

Actually I agree with the guy above.

BUT HONESLTY.

I really dont care about the size of tits..

Its all about that pussy...

 

[irishbull]

I wonder what people really think, you say you would rather have a girl talk about the size of your dick rather than a good night. That is like saying you would rather have a girl say what a nice car you have rather than what a nice guy you are.

Just a thought on the one nightstand (is that safe?) Truth be told, why have sex with her if you don’t want to see what she is really about (jerk off it is safer)? You just said that if you care about them, the sex is better.(I would be aiming for better sex)

I have had few one nightstands, but I have never seen those people again. I don’t know anyone they know, so what do I care if they tell anyone, I have a big cock. In my mind, I would rather FUCK a girl over and over with my mind, making her explode in orgasm after orgasm of the company ( me, the night , the drinks , the ambiance, the water, the boat, the walk on the beach )

Yes I might want to fuck her the first night, but to take it to the next level of knowing what you’re fucking is a lot better. For real, do you really fuck people you don’t want to hang around with in public? That is the only reason I can think of not wanting to wait a couple of dates to see if this person is worth it.

If some one is fucking nasty stupid women, that they wouldn’t be seen with, I think they should not be fucking and help society out.

 

[crazyed27]

Misty- Hell I see your point. But I disagree to some extent. Right now my current girlfriend for 3 years can take all my dick. I'm 8.5 in long and 6inches in girth. She has no problem at all handleing my rod. I beleve she could take 2 to 3 inches more in length and 1 to 2 more in girth.
besides that if your dick is too long you don't have to use the whole thing. You just gotta know how to work it. Also if it is very thick you can use a lot of lube and take it slow at first, before you really start to fucking. lube makes a huge difference in the way a woman can handle a cock. Also it depends on the woman. Some women can barley handle 6 inches, the average cock, while some women can take a full 11 inches inside them. Same goes with the girth of the cock, some women can take it while others just cant.

All in all its how you feel about yourself, if you want a long fat cock then so be it. It is what you want, but know how to use what you got. for me it is a personal thing, I want to look down and see a certain lenght and thickness. When I get there I'll be happy until then I'm not 100% satisisfyied yet.

 

[crazyed27]

I wonder what people really think, you say you would rather have a girl talk about the size of your dick rather than a good night. That is like saying you would rather have a girl say what a nice car you have rather than what a nice guy you are.

Just a thought on the one nightstand (is that safe?) Truth be told, why have sex with her if you don’t want to see what she is really about (jerk off it is safer)? You just said that if you care about them, the sex is better.(I would be aiming for better sex)

I have had few one nightstands, but I have never seen those people again. I don’t know anyone they know, so what do I care if they tell anyone, I have a big cock. In my mind, I would rather FUCK a girl over and over with my mind, making her explode in orgasm after orgasm of the company ( me, the night , the drinks , the ambiance, the water, the boat, the walk on the beach )

Yes I might want to fuck her the first night, but to take it to the next level of knowing what you’re fucking is a lot better. For real, do you really fuck people you don’t want to hang around with in public? That is the only reason I can think of not wanting to wait a couple of dates to see if this person is worth it.

If some one is fucking nasty stupid women, that they wouldn’t be seen with, I think they should not be fucking and help society out.

I see what your saying, but IMO it depends on how horney you are??? Right!

 

[Adolf Hilter]

Hey ther Crazyed 27, I think that Miss Misty is right in her analsys. It's not what you have got but how you use it.

 

[jordannnn21]

I'd say that size IS IMPORTANT to 90% of all women, maybe not incredibly important, but important none the less. I mean, surely every girl has a preference (even if they prefer them small.) Just like I prefer girls with a tight pussy, while someone who is hung like a woolly mammoth might prefer a girl to be loose so he can pound her proper like. I'll still have sex with a girl who is loose, but that's because I enjoy sex and there are other more important factors like appearance. But it does have some signifacance if I'm getting into a relationship.

So when a girl says "it's not you've got, but how you use what you have" I believe them. But what they forget to say is "But if it was bigger I certainly wouldn't complain."
Just like how most guys (I think) would not complain if their wife/girfriend were tighter. But I guess it all has to do with somones personal preferance.

 

[Gimme9]

I was talking to a female friend one time, and we got around to sex, talking about her ex she said the sex was awesome, lasted a long time, knew what he was doing, etc, she mentioned his size ONCE, she talked about his skill all the rest of the converstion, near the end i brought his size up again and she just looked at me and said; "It doesn't matter, if the sex is great would it matter to you if a woman was loose or tight?" Well, I couldn't argue with that, truth be told I've had a woman so tight i was physically incapable of getting a second finger in her and a couple women i cuold've fisted - and i have BIG hands i prefer looser women as i can last longer and have room to manuever!!, that tight chick was a straight in straight out motion anything else HURT anyway. . .
after our talk I kept thinking about how my size has always bothered me (you ARE reading this here after all!!), and how a woman must feel about my size. and i came to this conclusion - think about this . . .
you meet a cute chick, she's ok, not really your type but your available, horny, and she's playing you well, teasing, flirting, etc. she's really into you, so off you go to your playground or hers, and she's a bit loose, maybe her tit's are small or sag a bit more than you like, maybe she's got a flat ass, or slightly thick legs, whatever! The point is she's ok - she's just NEVER going to hear a guy HONESTLY tell her she's SO HOT!, or smokin! whatever, off go the clothes, and she fucks you like a starved dog hits serloin! on top, bottom, side, she bounces and screams, practically throws you off her she thrust back so intensely. Awesome hot sex for as long as you can handle.
And two nights later your in the same bar and the chick she was hanging with - you remember the one - the SO HOT I"M GONNA CUM JUST LOOKING AT HER chick, comes up to you and says "i heard about you stud blah blah blah" and off you go. And she's just as hot as you were thinking about while you pounded her ok friend firm tits the perfect size and shape the waist the hips and those damned LEGS!, your messing around and as you start working her puss you think you might have to go to the car to get a prybar just to spread her lips!! after the fingers you do some tongue, you best routine - you want to REALLY impress her. and your on her and working away, and a while later you collapse spent. and she NEVER MOVED, never MADE A SOUND, you could've heard a mouse sneaking around the next room for all the loise she made! and if she wasn't still warm you'd be checking her pulse.
the next night there's a message on your machine from each of them - who are YOU gonna call?
Well I'm sorry, I hope the hottie has a nice personality, cuz the ok chicks gonna be busy keeping MY neighbors awake!!

 

[homeslice1325]

I'd say that size IS IMPORTANT to 90% of all women, maybe not incredibly important, but important none the less. I mean, surely every girl has a preference (even if they prefer them small.) Just like I prefer girls with a tight pussy, while someone who is hung like a woolly mammoth might prefer a girl to be loose so he can pound her proper like. I'll still have sex with a girl who is loose, but that's because I enjoy sex and there are other more important factors like appearance. But it does have some signifacance if I'm getting into a relationship.

So when a girl says "it's not you've got, but how you use what you have" I believe them. But what they forget to say is "But if it was bigger I certainly wouldn't complain."
Just like how most guys (I think) would not complain if their wife/girfriend were tighter. But I guess it all has to do with somones personal preferance.

excellent post man, i couldn't agree with you more. the size is not everything, but it is also not nothing. it doesn't make or break you, but it sure wouldn't hurt you to be a bit bigger. and plus if a bigger dick is going to boost your convidence, that confidence will probably make you perform better in bed. i also agree with the fact that if the ok girl is a far far better fuck than the gorgeous one, stick with the fun one. i been with both kinds, and you just gotta go for the better fuck FOR YOU

 

[ElGeorgio]

Well boy's you have given old Misty something to think about. Maybe size is important to some degree. But remember boy's it's not what you've got but how well you can use what you have. What's the use of having a 10" dick if all you can do is stick the end in then blow your wad. It's much better from the women's point, if the man can stick it in and keep it in for about 20 minuets or so, before he blows his wad. Remember lads that most of the nerve endings in a women's twat is in and around the walls of that pussy, and not in the depth of that pussy.