I almost forgot

[Stumpy1]

Well fellas, I got my first massage ( from a lady), Sunday. Yeah great is what you are thinking, very nice and calm, huh. But not for me, because it felt good, I was booty butt naked under two dark thin covers, and it was very dark in the room. Also the lady was attractive asking me how that feels, so my perveted mind kept trying to awaken my dick you know. At that time I was lying on my stomach. About the time I had to flip over ( she briefly left the room) my cock started to wake. So I didn't want to have her coming back and seeing my rock dick, so I quickly think about baskteball, running, and ect. My dick softens, she comes in and now I am laying on my back. And the whole time I counld'nt enjoy my massage because I'm focusing on keeping my 7.2 inches soft. Well I could of just tried to make a move on her, which could lead to me fucking her or going to jail for sexual harrasment. I told my best friend about my adventure, and he told me he would tried to make a move on her saying, " A man you can't control your dick, if yo dick get excited, than shit, you either outa luck or you can get some pussy; because like I said yo dick has a mind of it's own homeboy." His almost exact words, some wise friend huh.

Have anyone else had this experience? What did you all do in this situation or would have done?

 

[DLD]

Well fellas, I got my first massage ( from a lady), Sunday. Yeah great is what you are thinking, very nice and calm, huh. But not for me, because it felt good, I was booty butt naked under two dark thin covers, and it was very dark in the room. Also the lady was attractive asking me how that feels, so my perveted mind kept trying to awaken my dick you know. At that time I was lying on my stomach. About the time I had to flip over ( she briefly left the room) my cock started to wake. So I didn't want to have her coming back and seeing my rock dick, so I quickly think about baskteball, running, and ect. My dick softens, she comes in and now I am laying on my back. And the whole time I counld'nt enjoy my massage because I'm focusing on keeping my 7.2 inches soft. Well I could of just tried to make a move on her, which could lead to me fucking her or going to jail for sexual harrasment. I told my best friend about my adventure, and he told me he would tried to make a move on her saying, " A man you can't control your dick, if yo dick get excited, than shit, you either outa luck or you can get some pussy; because like I said yo dick has a mind of it's own homeboy." His almost exact words, some wise friend huh.

Have anyone else had this experience? What did you all do in this situation or would have done?

WOW I guess this is much better than my fucked up situation. For some reason, at 39, I only attract girl 21 or younger. The 4 times I was with these girls I would fall VERY SHORT of my duties. I would have killed for an overexcited dick but it was nothing like that. Who knows, maybe it is because I miss Jen but it only happens in these situation where sex became vital to the situation. By myself I am 200% erect but as soon as it becomes a necessity I have a problem performing.

Never had this problem but it has happened over the past 16 months since I have broken up with my girl of 5 years.

I know you guys expect me to have no trouble with these things, BUT I DO. I know that time will heal this but damn, if I could fuck the shit out of a 19 year old at 39, well I would pay for this...Funny, but I get these opportunities daily but my fear of loss of duty prevents me from even trying anymore. Perhaps a break up takes time to heal but shit, these bitches are FLY...Just frustrating.


After the girl fell asleep in my bed I woke with a massive erection and I commenced to trying to wake her with almost a foot of cock. SHe said it too much and I shrunk into flaccid state quickly. Time went on, she left and it was history.

The main reason I envy you is your ability to become aroused by a situation that is incredibly sexy, and this is because I have made it a problem...I have made a connection between my sexuality and the woman of my past. It will happen eventually for me. Your case is an event of jealousy for me, not because of the girl you were with but your ability give her what she needs.

 

[Stumpy1]

Thank god its over lol

 

[Pandora]

WOW I guess this is much better than my fucked up situation. For some reason, at 39, I only attract girl 21 or younger. The 4 times I was with these girls I would fall VERY SHORT of my duties. I would have killed for an overexcited dick but it was nothing like that. Who knows, maybe it is because I miss Jen but it only happens in these situation where sex became vital to the situation. By myself I am 200% erect but as soon as it becomes a necessity I have a problem performing.

Never had this problem but it has happened over the past 16 months since I have broken up with my girl of 5 years.

I know you guys expect me to have no trouble with these things, BUT I DO. I know that time will heal this but damn, if I could fuck the shit out of a 19 year old at 39, well I would pay for this...Funny, but I get these opportunities daily but my fear of loss of duty prevents me from even trying anymore. Perhaps a break up takes time to heal but shit, these bitches are FLY...Just frustrating.


After the girl fell asleep in my bed I woke with a massive erection and I commenced to trying to wake her with almost a foot of cock. SHe said it too much and I shrunk into flaccid state quickly. Time went on, she left and it was history.

The main reason I envy you is your ability to become aroused by a situation that is incredibly sexy, and this is because I have made it a problem...I have made a connection between my sexuality and the woman of my past. It will happen eventually for me. Your case is an event of jealousy for me, not because of the girl you were with but your ability give her what she needs.

I think you should pop some viagra and go shoot some adult entertainment with The Bangbros.

 

[DLD]

I think you should pop some viagra and go shoot some adult entertainment with The Bangbros.

Someday maybe, but today I need to deal with my past.

 

[goinfor11x7]

I think all men suffer from performance anxiety at one time or another. Under certain conditions, willy wilts, that's all. And I don't think it has a lot to do with your age. It just happens.

 

[hooray4boobies]

i think i suffer similar experiences DLD,if i understand you right.
i find that i have turned down a few situations where i cud have gotten laid,because for some unknown reason/circumstances,i get the feeling im not gonna be able to get wood.
now i get erections constantly through the day like normal,but sometimes when it comes to performing, lil friend downstairs dont wanna play(or at least feels like it wont).
i suppose if next time this feeling and situation arrises,i just think 'fuck it',an go for it,and if it were to turn out to be a success,then i guess this it would be confidence problem solved.but until then theres always gonna be anagging doubt.

suppose we all have to jump in the deep end eventually, 'sink or swim'an all that.

 

[Juggers]

Well I am 20, and still a virgin. I don't know why but I can't get my self to do it with a chick, no matter how hot they are. I was with someone and she pulled me on her (it was only supposed to be a nap). She pretty much took my shorts off with her legs(I don't know how), and took my wang and well, pleasured herself, I couldn't get hard for the likes of me...at all...and she knew that I was a virgin (she was not, even had a kid). She told me if it were up to her she would have sex 3 times a day or more..I had no idea girls were like that (at 19 even).

In short, I have a problem getting rock when I'm with a chick and just don't feel turned on in the act. It's weird. Haven't heard from her in a while...Guess she just wanted sex which blows my dumb mind to pieces.

 

[Stumpy1]

Well I am 20, and still a virgin. I don't know why but I can't get my self to do it with a chick, no matter how hot they are. I was with someone and she pulled me on her (it was only supposed to be a nap). She pretty much took my shorts off with her legs(I don't know how), and took my wang and well, pleasured herself, I couldn't get hard for the likes of me...at all...and she knew that I was a virgin (she was not, even had a kid). She told me if it were up to her she would have sex 3 times a day or more..I had no idea girls were like that (at 19 even).

In short, I have a problem getting rock when I'm with a chick and just don't feel turned on in the act. It's weird. Haven't heard from her in a while...Guess she just wanted sex which blows my dumb mind to pieces.

Damn, thats messed up man, next time think about the best porno you ever saw.

 

[ithiel]

Well I am 20, and still a virgin. I don't know why but I can't get my self to do it with a chick, no matter how hot they are. I was with someone and she pulled me on her (it was only supposed to be a nap). She pretty much took my shorts off with her legs(I don't know how), and took my wang and well, pleasured herself, I couldn't get hard for the likes of me...at all...and she knew that I was a virgin (she was not, even had a kid). She told me if it were up to her she would have sex 3 times a day or more..I had no idea girls were like that (at 19 even).

In short, I have a problem getting rock when I'm with a chick and just don't feel turned on in the act. It's weird. Haven't heard from her in a while...Guess she just wanted sex which blows my dumb mind to pieces.

yea you best believe that. My old wifey, we done it 5 times a day in the beginning.

 

[10inchadvantage]

I have been really nervous around a girl the first time I ever messed around with a girl, and I could not get hard to save my life. She even ended up insulting me. But it's whatever, I didn't feel comfortable around her so it's her fault, not mine.

I don't think I could just have a one night stand with some girl just because I really need to know them pretty good before I feel safe around them, and only then will my penis perform.

Shit, it took a while with my girlfriend before I could get 100% hard with her. I don't see how adult entertainment stars do it, and if they do it naturally, then more power to them. I think this leads to girls have unrealistic expectations about men, as they see adult entertainment and think men just get hard whenever they see some tits and ass. That's usually not the case, as I have witnesses in real life.