ladylove,
I have been negligent in welcoming you aboard. Please allow me to remedy that now by welcoming you to [words=http://www.mattersofsize.com/join-now.html]MOS[/words]. It is a lovely thing to have a woman poster willing to brave all this testosterone.
And guys, I just wanted to point out something important here that your posts and ladylove's bear out. Most men have sex , most women make love . We are after sex, they are after romance. We think "hard and fast" or "marathon" (mechanics) and they are thinking about something completely different - the attention, the touching, the tenderness, the connection, the romance (an emotional experience). Sure, they have animal days too - just like we have days we need tenderness. But in general...