Hell Yes! Got My First Compliment/Comment About My Size!

My girlfriend of nearly 3 years has always been nice about making me feel good about my dick but she finally straight up said, "Did you do something to your dick?" I said, "No. Why?" She's like, "Because it's bigger! It's really fat." Not to mention the fact that lately I have been hurting her unintentionally by just pounding the shit out of her and going really deep and having super hard erections. I owe alot of that to the pe stuff I've been doing recently. So thanks, Dld, and everyone else who has given me awesome tips and knowledge about pe on this forum!
 
Congrats! :cool:

..But also figure out how to stroke without hurting her as much or you're going to start bouncing checks in your relationship bank account and she eventually might ask you to do your banking elsewhere.

If she could super-develop her vaginal muscles to squeeze you so hard that you got bruised and raw everytime you had sex it would start to cumulatively effect you like being out in the rain without a hat: interesting and even soothing for a while, and then less-charming, and then eventually it's actively bothering the foolhell out of you and you have to find a hat or get inside because F one more minute of it.

Use different angles and slower speeds, pay attention to how the different depths feel as you're going in and out passed them. She can feel this stuff too. Going at a pounding-the-shit speed misses all that important subtlety. At the other end of the spectrum you have like the singer Sting talking about how he and his wife do these Tantric hours-long rolling orgasms thing while barely moving at all. (One of his daughters tried to bust him out like none of that is true but I suspect him saying that he was going to burn through all $300 million of his money and leave his kids to make their own way might have had something to do with the kid's public bitchiness.;) )

Your larger size should be a benefit to both you and her ... bringing you extra confidence and ability .. but also bring her higher enjoyment, and anticipation .. not of harm but of pleasure. (It being the same larger penis either way, the only difference being a matter of technique and empathy).
 
tb007;604416 said:
My girlfriend of nearly 3 years has always been nice about making me feel good about my dick but she finally straight up said, "Did you do something to your dick?" I said, "No. Why?" She's like, "Because it's bigger! It's really fat." Not to mention the fact that lately I have been hurting her unintentionally by just pounding the shit out of her and going really deep and having super hard erections. I owe alot of that to the pe stuff I've been doing recently. So thanks, Dld, and everyone else who has given me awesome tips and knowledge about pe on this forum!

Excellent Brother! Congratulations, this is what the Brotherhood is all about!
 
Asanon;604431 said:
Congrats! :cool:

..But also figure out how to stroke without hurting her as much or you're going to start bouncing checks in your relationship bank account and she eventually might ask you to do your banking elsewhere.

If she could super-develop her vaginal muscles to squeeze you so hard that you got bruised and raw everytime you had sex it would start to cumulatively effect you like being out in the rain without a hat: interesting and even soothing for a while, and then less-charming, and then eventually it's actively bothering the foolhell out of you and you have to find a hat or get inside because F one more minute of it.

Use different angles and slower speeds, pay attention to how the different depths feel as you're going in and out passed them. She can feel this stuff too. Going at a pounding-the-shit speed misses all that important subtlety. At the other end of the spectrum you have like the singer Sting talking about how he and his wife do these Tantric hours-long rolling orgasms thing while barely moving at all. (One of his daughters tried to bust him out like none of that is true but I suspect him saying that he was going to burn through all $300 million of his money and leave his kids to make their own way might have had something to do with the kid's public bitchiness.;) )

Your larger size should be a benefit to both you and her ... bringing you extra confidence and ability .. but also bring her higher enjoyment, and anticipation .. not of harm but of pleasure. (It being the same larger penis either way, the only difference being a matter of technique and empathy).
Yes... thank you for that. I really just meant that she feels it's a little intense at times. She said, "It hurts but it feels amazing at the same time." And she gets sore for a day or two afterwards. But I assure you I'm not sadistically torturing my girlfriend with sex that she doesn't enjoy. Haha.
 
tb007;604470 said:
Yes... thank you for that. I really just meant that she feels it's a little intense at times. She said, "It hurts but it feels amazing at the same time." And she gets sore for a day or two afterwards. But I assure you I'm not sadistically torturing my girlfriend with sex that she doesn't enjoy. Haha.

I think a certain degree of pain is a turn on to some women.
 
acromegaly;604498 said:
hell yeah dude thats a good feeling :)
It really is. I would love to see the reaction from a girl I've been with before doing pe. But that would mean cheating and I've already done that once with this girl and came clean and I don't want to put either of us through that again. Although... I could always try for a threesome. Haha. We've done that before but it didn't go so well. I apparently was enjoying myself too much with the other girl and my gf freaked out and the whole thing came to a screeching halt. Haha. We've talked about doing it again though so fingers crossed!
 
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tb007;604564 said:
It really is. I would love to see the reaction from a girl I've been with before doing pe. But that would mean cheating and I've already done that once with this girl and came clean and I don't want to put either of us through that again. Although... I could always try for a threesome. Haha. We've done that before but it didn't go so well. I apparently was enjoying myself too much with the other girl and my gf freaked out and the whole thing came to a screeching halt. Haha. We've talked about doing it again though so fingers crossed!

I had a three-some and I could not keep up with both girls, it was kind of awkward:) I used to be in a rock band and I got a lot of girls, after one show I picked up two young chicks and got them to a hotel and then we started to have sex, the hard part was splitting my time between the two. As I was doing one girl the other was just there on the side, it felt very uncomfortable.
 
doublelongdaddy;604607 said:
I had a three-some and I could not keep up with both girls, it was kind of awkward:) I used to be in a rock band and I got a lot of girls, after one show I picked up two young chicks and got them to a hotel and then we started to have sex, the hard part was splitting my time between the two. As I was doing one girl the other was just there on the side, it felt very uncomfortable.
I think the trick to a good threesome is that the girls have to be bi or at least into each other and you have to be into both of them. I have had one other threesome where I was only into one of the girls and that was really awkward. Gotta love that double head though :)
 
Asanon;604431 said:
Congrats! :cool:

..But also figure out how to stroke without hurting her as much or you're going to start bouncing checks in your relationship bank account and she eventually might ask you to do your banking elsewhere.

If she could super-develop her vaginal muscles to squeeze you so hard that you got bruised and raw everytime you had sex it would start to cumulatively effect you like being out in the rain without a hat: interesting and even soothing for a while, and then less-charming, and then eventually it's actively bothering the foolhell out of you and you have to find a hat or get inside because F one more minute of it.

Use different angles and slower speeds, pay attention to how the different depths feel as you're going in and out passed them. She can feel this stuff too. Going at a pounding-the-shit speed misses all that important subtlety. At the other end of the spectrum you have like the singer Sting talking about how he and his wife do these Tantric hours-long rolling orgasms thing while barely moving at all. (One of his daughters tried to bust him out like none of that is true but I suspect him saying that he was going to burn through all $300 million of his money and leave his kids to make their own way might have had something to do with the kid's public bitchiness.;) )

Your larger size should be a benefit to both you and her ... bringing you extra confidence and ability .. but also bring her higher enjoyment, and anticipation .. not of harm but of pleasure. (It being the same larger penis either way, the only difference being a matter of technique and empathy).

This should be in every [words=http://buymos.pebible.hop.clickbank.net]PE Bible[/words]. Very sensible, at last. :)

By the way tb007, congratulations. When your girl finally acknowledges the gains, it makes it all worth while. :)
 
tb007;604620 said:
I think the trick to a good threesome is that the girls have to be bi or at least into each other and you have to be into both of them. I have had one other threesome where I was only into one of the girls and that was really awkward. Gotta love that double head though :)

Yeah, that is exactly what it was, when I was doing one the other just sat there looking sad waiting for her turn. One girl was black and the other was white so for me it would have been an incredible experience if they were into each other. I would do it again though:)
 
tb007;604564 said:
It really is. I would love to see the reaction from a girl I've been with before doing pe. But that would mean cheating and I've already done that once with this girl and came clean and I don't want to put either of us through that again. Although... I could always try for a threesome. Haha. We've done that before but it didn't go so well. I apparently was enjoying myself too much with the other girl and my gf freaked out and the whole thing came to a screeching halt. Haha. We've talked about doing it again though so fingers crossed!
Don't cheat just because you got a bigger dick... Go show it off on omegle or something
 
tb007;604470 said:
Yes... thank you for that. I really just meant that she feels it's a little intense at times. She said, "It hurts but it feels amazing at the same time." And she gets sore for a day or two afterwards. But I assure you I'm not sadistically torturing my girlfriend with sex that she doesn't enjoy. Haha.

lol i think he pictured you just straight up causing her physical pain and not caring. my fwb loves it hard and loves being sore for days after. keeps her turned on

doublelongdaddy;604476 said:
I think a certain degree of pain is a turn on to some women.
 
dmoney101;604888 said:
Or join a nudist colony

This would be an even better option than omegle, since some people think of cybersex as cheating too.
On the other hand, in a nudist colony it might not be to safe or condoned to show off a huge boner. :P
 
filmfreak;604949 said:
Congrats tb007! Always great to get a compliment like that from your girl. What are your stats now?
Nothing too impressive really. 6.5 x 5.5 strict nbp. But I started at 5.9 x 4.75-5.
 
doublelongdaddy;604817 said:
Yeah, that is exactly what it was, when I was doing one the other just sat there looking sad waiting for her turn. One girl was black and the other was white so for me it would have been an incredible experience if they were into each other. I would do it again though:)
A little vanilla/chocolate swirl action. I could totally get down with that as long as both the girls were hot and into each other, obviously.
 
tb007;604984 said:
Nothing too impressive really. 6.5 x 5.5 strict nbp. But I started at 5.9 x 4.75-5.

Not only 6.5" is already above the average, it also is a great increase from 5.9". Don't be too demanding on your gains, what you've accomplished so far IS impressive. :)
What are your goals, and how long have you been doing PE?
 
savageblue;604986 said:
Not only 6.5" is already above the average, it also is a great increase from 5.9". Don't be too demanding on your gains, what you've accomplished so far IS impressive. :)
What are your goals, and how long have you been doing PE?
I would feel like a freaking phallic totem of masculinity if I could reach just 7 x 5.75-6. That would only be a 1.1 inch gain in length so I feel it is definitely do-able. If (and when) I hit that I will make a new goal.
 
tb007;604987 said:
I'm not going to. I was just saying, I'd love to see reactions from some former flames.

I think all of us feel this way, almost a revenge for them not sticking around for the miracle.
 
doublelongdaddy;605008 said:
I think all of us feel this way, almost a revenge for them not sticking around for the miracle.
I wasn't even really thinking that. I meant I'd love to see reactions from girls who even enjoyed my 6 incher. But yeah, and from ones who weren't all that impressed before.
 
tb007;604988 said:
I would feel like a freaking phallic totem of masculinity if I could reach just 7 x 5.75-6. That would only be a 1.1 inch gain in length so I feel it is definitely do-able. If (and when) I hit that I will make a new goal.

I'd say that is perfectly doable, all it takes is time, consistency and patience. You will get there. :)
 
tb007;604416 said:
My girlfriend of nearly 3 years has always been nice about making me feel good about my dick but she finally straight up said, "Did you do something to your dick?" I said, "No. Why?" She's like, "Because it's bigger! It's really fat." Not to mention the fact that lately I have been hurting her unintentionally by just pounding the shit out of her and going really deep and having super hard erections. I owe alot of that to the pe stuff I've been doing recently. So thanks, Dld, and everyone else who has given me awesome tips and knowledge about pe on this forum!
Dude im happy to see posts like this. Just just started PE with an air pump and so far im pretty happy and excited. Thought all this pe stuff was bullshit. I cant wait for my first compliment and post it. Like ypu my gf pretty much says I have a perfect penis but I beg to differ at not even 6 inch hard.
 
toeknee1987;636272 said:
Dude im happy to see posts like this. Just just started PE with an air pump and so far im pretty happy and excited. Thought all this pe stuff was bullshit. I cant wait for my first compliment and post it. Like ypu my gf pretty much says I have a perfect penis but I beg to differ at not even 6 inch hard.

Before my missus and i moved in together i never told her about pe, it was a relief to her when i finally said something, she thought her pussy was shrinking but was too scared to say anything haha! 😂😂
 
I love those kinds of reactions. Especially after a few months of progress and hearing "size doesn't matter". You learn, without a doubt, size does definitely matter, and they have to eat their words. Such a great moment when a girl is forced to admit it because you need to know if you should stop to let the gains go or cement them forever.

" should I stop so some of it goes away? "
"No!"
"But I thought it didn't matter?"
*blushing*

Good stuff
 
..Lost track of this thread or might have added this last september.

I'm about to lay out some heavy kung fu. -- Always try to be considerate of how the participants will feel afterwards .. like it was win/win/win and they'd do it again.

Multiple posters:

"I had a three-some and I could not keep up with both girls, it was kind of awkward ... the hard part was splitting my time between the two. As I was doing one girl the other was just there on the side"

"I think the trick to a good threesome is that the girls have to be bi or at least into each other and you have to be into both of them. I have had one other threesome where I was only into one of the girls and that was really awkward"

"that is exactly what it was, when I was doing one the other just sat there looking sad waiting for her turn."

Yeah, it'd be a drag if the second (etc) chick felt like they were not even a voyeur but instead like they were just waiting in a queue.

Most things become more acceptable once everyone is hot and bothered, .. kissing them both really close to each other and then turning them to each other to continue it girl-to-girl can be a way to break that ice. Taking their hand and putting it on the other chick .. and then telling her [approving of] how hawt that is.. that kind of thing.

Most chick's sexuality is a moving target and they'll do pretty much anything if they either feel, or later as an anti-slut defense can act like, they were "caught up in the moment" and "swept away" etc..

(People can't read your mind, always give impressed approval for things that you liked and want to see more of. Approval [not just Appreciation but Sanction .. Authoritative Permission] is a disintegrator ray for chick's mary-nun barriers.)

But the trick to getting uptight chicks to not just sit around acting bored or weird as an observer is to literally make them part of the action. -- The decisions that you would normally make [as to what goes where and in/on whom] ... let the chicks get in on that action. Then the chick that you're -not- doing at that particular moment gets to say what it is that you're doing to the chick that you -are- doing at that moment. The off-chick isn't bored any longer because you've just made her into a porno director and put her in control not only of your dick but where the other chick should be getting it. :cool:

This also tends to cause an escalation as it becomes subsequent turns .. so now they're trying to one-up each other in what they suggest, and trying not to chicken out before the other girl does, so pretty soon you're freely doing stuff to both of them that might have previously taken quite a bit of convincing.

And then after a bit when one of them says something that either gender could do (mouth, tongue, fingers) that it'd be hot to see her do instead of you, you can always say .. 'you do that one while I do X' and now you're both doing the receiving girl .. because of the not chickening out, and the escalation, and the getting 'swept away' dynamics.

With this you're taking the concept of boundaries and logistics and pacing [in the enjoyability sense that everyone is entertained] .. all of the work .. and having the chicks readily trash them, plan them, self-enjoy them, for you .. so you get to a have a blast and essentially 'just' move your hips and agree that what they each say to do next is a brilliant, and yet perfectly normal non-judge-able, idea. ;)

Enjoy!

ps ..
If some 'PUA' steals this like it's theirs and I find out ... I'll bust them out on it. Show some respect and attribute it.
 
If I'm in my usual mediocre shape I can handle a threesome. It's a situation you can expect to need to take full control of the action. You're going to have to multitask foreplay, making out and oral while you're having sex. I usually do parts of that anyway. Overstimulating a girl is not a monumental task when you know where all the buttons are. It would definitely be better for either girl if it were 1 on 1 though.

I say all that nonchalantly but yea, it'd be draining and ridiculously hard. Not impossible but a serious challenge that I'd encourage anyone to take on. Very few have ridden the two headed dragon and lived to tell any stories of pride. The first step is to be a giver and never relent. The rest is physical and mental fortitude that you can't really be sure you possess until you put yourself to that test. I'd need to train like rocky Balboa before I would even consider it.

How does that even happen without adult entertainment drugs or alcohol?
 
Longth;636296 said:
" should I stop so some of it goes away? "
"No!"
"But I thought it didn't matter?"
*blushing*

Good stuff

So freaking true!
 
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