Have I been gifted another chance???

Lookn4girth;749773 said:
Take a minute and read your post and tell us what you did wrong in that exchange. Not coming down on you but in order to learn you must first be able to recognize your mistakes and then correct them
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Very true! And this is tough love but it needs to be used sometimes.
 
Such interesting philosophy about men and women loving differently, such an expansive thought, it truly has opened my eyes and I’ll always be greatful for it all!

Well, I’m regard to my post, I’ve been soft and shown her a weakness that I’m prepared to accept her however she sees me and am grateful for that no matter what it may be. Something like that?
 
Stripeee;749826 said:
Well, I’m regard to my post, I’ve been soft and shown her a weakness that I’m prepared to accept her however she sees me and am grateful for that no matter what it may be. Something like that?
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If all you feel you deserve is scraps from some girl that doesn't give a crap about you, sobeit. Clearly we have self-esteem issues if you're willing to be treated in this way AND continue to engage. good luck
 
don't want to be a soft puppy always chasing for some attention. need to stop trying as hard and appear less needy, more mysterious you could say.
 
Stripeee;749887 said:
don't want to be a soft puppy always chasing for some attention. need to stop trying as hard and appear less needy, more mysterious you could say.
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That is what you are aiming for. The more you appear not to give a rats ass what she thinks or does, the more interesting you will become to her. It is possible that the tide turns at that point and she becomes the one wearing the leash
 
Stripeee;749887 said:
don't want to be a soft puppy always chasing for some attention. need to stop trying as hard and appear less needy, more mysterious you could say.
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Bingo, you hit it right on the head! Women see a needy man as an unconfident man, something most women avoid. Mystery and confidence will always get the girl.
 
Stripeee;750012 said:
i'm slowly taking all this on board now I've had many failures...just need to put it in to practice more n more
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You posted in another thread that you have had several opportunities for sex but could not because of your surgery. Is this a result of you practicing some of the tactics suggested?
 
Stripeee;750012 said:
i'm slowly taking all this on board now I've had many failures...just need to put it in to practice more n more
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Tackle one thing at a time, there is no rush to learning life lessons!
 
Very wise as always DLD! umm pretty much l4g, just been keeping messages short n sweet, some longer more intimate messages later on 😉 and taking breaks in between to keep the excitement there kinda
 
Stripeee;750131 said:
Very wise as always DLD! umm pretty much l4g, just been keeping messages short n sweet, some longer more intimate messages later on 😉 and taking breaks in between to keep the excitement there kinda
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Keep it safe but keep it progressing into more intensity with each day. I am happy I could help.
 
Stripeee;750131 said:
Very wise as always DLD! umm pretty much l4g, just been keeping messages short n sweet, some longer more intimate messages later on 😉 and taking breaks in between to keep the excitement there kinda
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You are on the right track Strip. The only thing I would do different is let the girl be the one that initiates the more intimate messages. You keep your responses less intimate for as long as possible and this is when you will see how it looks from the other side
 
Hmm ok that’s interesting, when the girl starts to put winking faces n uses innuendos etc that’s when I start to return if that makes sense
 
escalating into sexual banter takes a deft hand...keep it on the fun/funny side and you'll usually be fine but watch-out for land mines and shit tests
 
Big Schwanz Acht;750184 said:
escalating into sexual banter takes a deft hand...keep it on the fun/funny side and you'll usually be fine but watch-out for land mines and shit tests
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Shit tests? What is that?
 
doublelongdaddy;750217 said:
Shit tests? What is that?
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oh my, you've been celibate far too long, my friend :)

women are constantly 'shit-testing' men (their SO/BF/Hubby) to make certain they haven't been 'duped' by some poseur. These tests range from the benign to the out-right combative, just to ratify that you're 'man material'. Depending on your 'relationship' investment, failure can result in the erosion of her respect for you and ultimate demise of the union.

I believe we, as men, have a sense of 'plateau' once we've solidified with the woman of our choice, where women see that plateau as more of a 'stair-step'. As long as you're maintaining your 'game' and passing her tests, you'll still be considered 'respectable' in her eyes, but if you start slipping or being lazy, she'll be off looking for the 'bigger/better' deal.
 
Stripeee;750337 said:
Explain?
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have several (or more) women that you're communicating with. don't automatically respond. be 'in demand'. leave her 'hangin', but you have to be interesting to pull this off. make her want you and what you're into...remember, it's your world and she's only an invitee. As long as she sees you as a high-value man, she'll remain interested
 
That’s what I’m doing actually, an uncle gave that advice to. I like having a few plates spinning as it keeps my mind Engaged. I find that if I’m talking to just one person I get bored as I’m waiting for a response half the day, this is how look needy.
 
Big Schwanz Acht;750339 said:
have several (or more) women that you're communicating with. don't automatically respond. be 'in demand'. leave her 'hangin', but you have to be interesting to pull this off. make her want you and what you're into...remember, it's your world and she's only an invitee. As long as she sees you as a high-value man, she'll remain interested
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BSA knows how to all the honey's!
 
Stripeee;750416 said:
He’s a man of incredible knowledge and guile put it that way 😉
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The only one who rivals his intelligence is Threak :) The only one to eclipse his knowledge is Template :) :) :)
 
Stripeee;750495 said:
Don’t believe I’ve had the fortune of meeting this legend
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Templ' is/was temperamental and often volatile, so much so he was banned for life. He and I had our tussles, but I always came-away with more knowledge than I began with (but it sometimes took a while for his 'sting' to diminish before I could accept what he was trying to impart).
 
Big Schwanz Acht;750496 said:
Templ' is/was temperamental and often volatile, so much so he was banned for life. He and I had our tussles, but I always came-away with more knowledge than I began with (but it sometimes took a while for his 'sting' to diminish before I could accept what he was trying to impart).
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Indeed he was! He will be back under some new name and his cards will show. Just a matter of time :O
 
doublelongdaddy;750572 said:
Indeed he was! He will be back under some new name and his cards will show. Just a matter of time :O
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You think so? I was around as well when he was... and he was a pain lots of times^^'
 
Munto;750618 said:
You think so? I was around as well when he was... and he was a pain lots of times^^'
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I think I'm going to have to re-analyze why I found Templ' compelling and irreverent...everyone else found him to be a complete PITA and were too happy to see him banned
 
Munto;750618 said:
You think so? I was around as well when he was... and he was a pain lots of times^^'
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Indeed he was a pain but he also had incredible knowledge and input. I was very sad to have to ban him as I loved his style and his education in PE but his crass behavior went too far too many times. I hope he does come back and be a good boy!!
 
doublelongdaddy;750698 said:
Indeed he was a pain but he also had incredible knowledge and input. I was very sad to have to ban him as I loved his style and his education in PE but his crass behavior went too far too many times. I hope he does come back and be a good boy!!
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Well, you banned him, so he shouldn't be allowed to come back, right?
And did he ever log his progress or show gains?
 
Munto;750717 said:
Well, you banned him, so he shouldn't be allowed to come back, right?
And did he ever log his progress or show gains?
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He can come back under a new name at any time. His IP address can be altered and filtered to refresh as a different address. When he comes you know it, his personality comes through almost immediately. He does have a lot of very good information on the forum that he has written. Not sure about pictures.
 
doublelongdaddy;750803 said:
He can come back under a new name at any time. His IP address can be altered and filtered to refresh as a different address. When he comes you know it, his personality comes through almost immediately. He does have a lot of very good information on the forum that he has written. Not sure about pictures.
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That's true!
Pictures aren't as important, would love to see his work for proof
 
Munto;750978 said:
That's true!
Pictures aren't as important, would love to see his work for proof
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Great work, excellent potential and extremely bright. He just could not play by the rules and believe me I gave him many, many chances and he just could not get it so I had no choice but to let him go. As I said, if he came back with a humble heart I would forgive and forget and let him give it another go. Let is see what the future holds, I never give up on a Brother.
 
hey guys! i'm off out this saturday night, to a popular nearby city which has a lot of students and other young people...any advice for picking up girls guys? pick up lines and tactics etc.
 
the best pick-up line isn't one. just be as engaging as possible, don't feel like you can't talk to multiple women/groups throughout the night and make every attempt to be genuinely interesting/compelling
 
Lookn4girth;751446 said:
Remember the Dos Equis commercials. Be the most interesting man in the world
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Mystery is one of the best ways to attract women! A dark, mysterious man, what is his secret? They will always be hooked on that!
 
BIGDADDYBOOTYBREAKER said:
Unless she is a 21 year old colombian that brazilian waxes and does crossfit. Also got her boobs done and injected her butt with her own stomach fat.

If thats the case, consider yourself lucky my friend.
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