erection anxiety

[Knight owl]

I met a girl recently. we have had the opportunity to get intimant several times but everytime we have tried I do not get an erection. I do not have trouble getting an erection except for the 3 times we tried in bed. she turns me on like crazy I think I'm just nervous. I thought about buying some extenze or 1 of those pills from the store. I remember is that viagara can be ordered from another website. she has been a very sweet about it and says it's okay. I am afraid she will think of that its always like this and even then will I be a good enough lover. some what it affects me mentally and is also strongly effects me emotionally. that's how I found this website. I will keep reading but it feels like there's nothing I can do I am just going to keep on working at it. she says when I finally do you f*** her it's going to be special.

 

[neckercube]

Similar thing happened to me. It was weird because I had an erection just earlier but when it was time to show, my penis wouldn't have any of it.
I have other anxieties that are problems for me but this one surprised me.
Thankfully, they were pretty understanding of it as well.

 

[Exiled15]

whiskey dick??????? id completely fixate my mind on exacty what would we turn me on the most like when watching a adult entertainment.... or a trick that Ive always used in one of these situations is to eat the girl out while stimulating myself!!!!

 

[Girth Hammer]

Relax, just relax MAN!

I had the same problem and sadly as hot as she was to me, she was a tad insecure and thought I couldnt keep a boner cause of her. Knew i had to fix this quick. To cut a long story short, the only way I could relax was A TON of foreplay. Warm that oven up before you put the turkey in :blush:

Sex late at night is also relaxing (to me at least). I dont know if its from you natural calming down since your use to going to sleep but it works.

 

[Girth Hammer]

oh yeah, I tried extenze.....its a hit and miss with most guys. it made me sweat my ass off. Other than that, not a damn thing. I gave the rest to my buddy, he said it was GREAT......for about a week....Hit and miss pill.

 

[MAXAMEYES]

I totally agree with Girth Hammer about the foreplay. Wa-a-a-a-y back when I had just about no experience at all with women (well, actually GIRLS at that point) I discovered that I had a passion for licking pussy. Luckily that led to lots of opportunities for practice.

And the more I licked the more aroused I got; the taste, the fragrance, the sounds, her ass bouncing with shuddering orgasm after orgasm.
Jeezuss fuck I couldn't have gotten harder if I was made outta stainless steel!

Every woman on the planet LOVES a good pussy likkin'. And as you get lost in the wonderful, flavorful playground that is multiple orgasms I'll just about guarantee that the last concern on your mind will be erection quality.

Relax, enjoy the ride; get your brain out of the way and let your mind take over and let nature do her thang.

 

[addingINCHES]

I met a girl recently. we have had the opportunity to get intimant several times but everytime we have tried I do not get an erection. I do not have trouble getting an erection except for the 3 times we tried in bed. she turns me on like crazy I think I'm just nervous. I thought about buying some extenze or 1 of those pills from the store. I remember is that viagara can be ordered from another website. she has been a very sweet about it and says it's okay. I am afraid she will think of that its always like this and even then will I be a good enough lover. some what it affects me mentally and is also strongly effects me emotionally. that's how I found this website. I will keep reading but it feels like there's nothing I can do I am just going to keep on working at it. she says when I finally do you f*** her it's going to be special.

Are you sexually experienced? If not then the erection problem is due to your nervousness. When you feel the pressure to perform well you will send your body to fight or flight mode. My advice is to be in the moment during foreplay. Don't think about anything, just her body. Erections should come passively you will not be able to get it up if you jerk yourself. Just be in the moment.

 

[tizalee]

Today many men are facing the erection problems that can be caused by stress, alcohol or other reasons. I have problems getting an erection for partner sex and for masturbation. It is difficult to concentrate now. All is because of my anxiety from work. So i enjoy a relaxing massage together.