Boys Night Out...fact or fiction?

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kong1971

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I recently read an article on the internet that said a large percentage of men participated in something they called "boys night out". Basically, what it is is straight men masturbating with one another. I was a little surprised at that. I will confess to "spanking the monkey" with a friend to Hustler as a kid, but I wonder if many straight guys here at [words=http://www.mattersofsize.com/join-now.html]MOS[/words] do this, have done this or would do this. I gather it is pretty common for boys to do this type of thing. My dad got drunk one night and told us about doing it when he was a boy, and my uncle caught me and my buddy one time and just laughed and asked us which one of us won the jack off race, but I did not know it was practiced by adult straight men. I am not tempted, but you guys know I am very open sexually and it did make me curious. Also, would you do Penis Enlargement with another guy? Nothing sexual, but the exercises are kind of boring after awhile and someone to talk to would be cool, so long as they didn't try to "help out". ;)
 
Ill pass on that...guess something bout jacking off wit a friend that makes me uncomfortable.. maybe fucking side by side...but even that is really a stretch
 
Women are pretty open about girl-girl stuff. My wife has mentioned curiosity about it as well as incorporating a little bit of it into our sex lives as far as adult entertainment and teasing and stuff. To be honest, it kind of turns me on to imagine her and another woman, but we are actually very straight-laced aside from talking about stuff and we are just starting to explore other avenues of our sexuality. I have told her about my own curiosity, and she was actually pretty accepting, but she also knows I am way too square to actually do anything, and I really am! I am being pretty open with you guys, so don't make fun of me or flame me...I just think we need some interesting new threads here in the sexuality forum, and I love talking about sex!
 
No, I couldnt do it. In my mind it would defeat the purpose of "jackin off". I mean, when I jack off, I'm thinking about sex with a woman. If I were trying to do that, and the thought that this guy next to me might be thinking about my dick, or something along those lines while I'm doing my thing, I dunno, I think I would become un aroused very quickly.
 
You guys are hilarious! In the public forum everybody is like, "No way! Uh-uh! Not me!" and then I get PMs from dudes who are like "Yeah, I did. I would." Anyway...no big deal. I was just curious. I am in the "I did as a kid but I wouldn't now," category myself. So relax, if a "Hell's Angel looking badass" can admit it publicly (see my pic here http://www.mattersofsize.com/forum/showthread.php?p=80724#post80724 ) ya'll shouldn't be so scared. It's nothing big, and I meant it mostly as a joke. Still, I guess you have to be pretty secure in your masculinity to admit you have done something like that or have thought about it. I been married a long time and have been splitting pussies twice as long as that so it's no thang for me, really. I just got bored reading the 1,230th thrombo post and threw this one up. If you guys think this is too offensive, just have a mod delete the thread. I didn't mean to make anyone uncomfortable.
 
ive done it before, and still would if the guy i do it with didnt get rid of his bunk beds, hes my best mate of all times and the only guy ive ever had sexual thought about, not because i fancy him but because i want to experience gay sex, and hes the only one i trust to do it, hes only 16 aswell
 
I'm not sure, but I don't think you're supposed to be a member of [words=http://www.mattersofsize.com/join-now.html]MOS[/words] unless you're 18. I applaud your honesty, but I think you're busted!
 
stillwantmore said:
No, I couldnt do it. In my mind it would defeat the purpose of "jackin off". I mean, when I jack off, I'm thinking about sex with a woman. If I were trying to do that, and the thought that this guy next to me might be thinking about my dick, or something along those lines while I'm doing my thing, I dunno, I think I would become un aroused very quickly.
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SWM, I thought you were bi? Are you retracting it, or is it more a 80/20 type thing, meaning you're open to it but don't really desire to switch hit? Just curious. I was going through some earlier threads and came across a post by you saying that.

I would say I am 80/20...Wouldn't actually ever do anything. I think it is from being exposed to adult entertainment at a young age. My dad was a perv, and left his stuff laing around. As I developed, I was all the time going through his dirty mags and watching his movies on the sly, being exposed not just to images of females, but also males.

The image of a male can be arousing to me, but it is only by mental connection. Male parts mentally connecting to the female parts mentally connecting to the male-female sex act because of the adult entertainment thing when I was younger. I don't see a guy and go "Oh, yeah, I want him!" but in my head I go "Wow! He's a stud. I bet he can shag some hussy crazy!" The thought of having sex with another guy is not appealing to me, but I have had MMF experiences and fantasies.

Does all this sound weird?

I think all this comes from being conflicted, because my step-father was extremely homophobic and violent and was always ranting about fags and being all tough and shit. I just feel totally fucked up about half the time because of all this. I mean, look at me, I look like a tough-guy biker and even act like it half the time, I own two businesses now, I can fuckin' pick up the back end of a car, and I'll never stop feeling like a lazy, unsuccessful, limpdick faggot because of how I was raised! Man, people should have to be licensed to have kids!!!
 
kong1971 said:
SWM, I thought you were bi? Are you retracting it, or is it more a 80/20 type thing, meaning you're open to it but don't really desire to switch hit? Just curious. I was going through some earlier threads and came across a post by you saying that.
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I've toyed with the idea in my mind, but no I'm not bi.
 
Kong, I think you and I have a lot in common. The thing about your dad being a perv and having adult entertainment around and the affects it can have you certainly hit home. I think that was the beginning of my insecurity/obsession with my cock as well.

As for the circle jerk thing. I don't know that I would ever do it because of my size issues. If I knew I was going to be the biggest one OR if I knew I could see the other guys but they couldn't see my schlong, I might consider it. I have this weird fascination with seeing other guys, but only for comparitive purposes, not sexually.

But I don't think you're a weirdo, nor does this post make me uncomfortable. I find as I get older, I am more sexually curious and conscious. That said, I am reserved and probably 96% straight. My poor wife though, she gets to hear about 85% of the weird shit that I think about:D Some things (the other 15%), even I am smart enough to keep my mouth shut about.
 
Thanks for being so honest, Tex. I appreciate it.

I don't want to come across the wrong way. I would never actually do anything homosexual. I don't want to have sex with another guy. None of the parts fit right! But I talk to my wife about EVERYTHING and she has always been very open and understanding and I thought all you guys would, too. I mean, it is a anonymous internet forum. It's not like I'm going to see any of you in the real world, except by extreme coincidence.

I mean, I am kinda into MMF sex (as well as FFM) Wife knows. She's into FFM, so it's no big deal either way. I experimented when I was younger. Wife knows. Lots of boys do. Shit, I even told her about screwing one of my female relatives, and she was cool with that, cause the woman was older and knew better and I didn't. Still, I would say I am completely straight with no doubts. I fucking love her, body and soul, and don't feel satisfaction from anything except her! I just think it's stupid to be scared of being yourself. If someone don't like what you think or feel, fuck em!
 
I was at a party a few weeks ago and a couple of guys asked to if i wanted to do this. Of course i was like "no" unless a girl is in the middle =). So I guess they went and watched adult entertainment in his room and masterbated. So I left the party about an hour or so later. I finally heard about what happened in his room a couple days later. I guess about an hour after I left one of the girls did go in there and watched them. She gave a couple of them handjobs and a couple of the guys cummed on her face. Now i wish I would have been there.. =o
 
Well when i was 10 we were just two who showed our dicks, no more then that.

Masturbating with another guy in the room? No freaking way in this centuary, nor the next!
 
TizZle said:
I was at a party a few weeks ago and a couple of guys asked to if i wanted to do this. Of course i was like "no" unless a girl is in the middle =). So I guess they went and watched <A TITLE="Click for more information about adult entertainment" STYLE="text-decoration: none; border-bottom: medium solid green;" HREF="http://search.targetwords.com/u.search?x=5977|1||||adult entertainment|AA1VDw">adult entertainment</A> in his room and masterbated. So I left the party about an hour or so later. I finally heard about what happened in his room a couple days later. I guess about an hour after I left one of the girls did go in there and watched them. She gave a couple of them handjobs and a couple of the guys cummed on her face. Now i wish I would have been there.. =o
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OMG! Tizzle! Shit man, if you hadn't been scared you wouldn't have missed out!
 
Kong, I think you are WAY cool to have started this discussion.

I've begun to believe that there are no homosexual men, just homosexual acts and that sexual acts shouldn't define the whole man. Of course, I may revise this thought, but it's worth considering.

You 're really lucky to have a partner with whom you can talk openly about these issues. She sounds terrific.
 
Yeah i could definatly never jerk off in a room full of other guys jerking off. The site of another guy jerking off with no girl around would instant kill my erection,even if we were watching adult entertainment. Im 19 so yes ive done the buying adult entertainment, one guy go in a room beat off then let the next guy have his turn. Also in highschool me and my friends would not have many places to have sex so a lot of times there would be about 3 couples in different corners getting it on, you were jsut not supposed to look. The closest thing to soemthing liek boys night out was me and my friend hooking up with 2 girls then kind of switching off in the middle. Some people may think thats a little gross, but hey its fun times and i ended up with the 2 girls at the end so i was happy.
But whatever works for people is cool.
 
I have never ever done this nor would i want to, but....

i knew some guys when i was in school who would play the mars bar game. a couple of guys would sit in a circle with the mars bar in the middle of them, unwrapped. they would all frantically try to jack off onto the mars bar, and the slowest to climax had to eat it.

At the time i was told this i thought "why would you want to do that?". 12 years later i still think the same, where's the f*cking upside?
LOL
 
levista said:
At the time i was told this i thought "why would you want to do that?". 12 years later i still think the same, where's the f*cking upside?
LOL
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Ha! The point is to NOT be the last.
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kong1971 said:
OMG! Tizzle! Shit man, if you hadn't been scared you wouldn't have missed out!
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Actually that's kind of true in a sense i thought it was just a little weird because i've never heard of people doing that before. It was around 3am and my ride was getting ready to leave so i didn't have a chance to stay and jump in on the action. They didn't get that girl in there till 4am or so. I pretty much kicked myself when i heard about it because this girl is pretty hot. Damn the Luck !
 
I've never heard of this phenomenon. It's hard for me to believe it's real, because it has no appeal to me whatsoever. I am 100% straight. I am curious about penis size simply to understand my place in this world. I would also perform a Penis Enlargement technique or observe one, in person, for the purpose of learning/teaching something. That being said, "working out" with a Penis Enlargement partner has no appeal to me at all. I don't think any of this makes me homosexual or homophobic, or whatever.
 
kong1971 said:
I think all this comes from being conflicted, because my step-father was extremely homophobic and violent and was always ranting about fags and being all tough and shit. I just feel totally fucked up about half the time because of all this. I mean, look at me, I look like a tough-guy biker and even act like it half the time, I own two businesses now, I can fuckin' pick up the back end of a car, and I'll never stop feeling like a lazy, unsuccessful, limpdick faggot because of how I was raised! Man, people should have to be licensed to have kids!!!
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I grew up around this kind of thinking, though my father wasn't really influential about it, other than his religious beliefs teaching me it was morally wrong. My friends and people I were around made many slurs against homosexuals, though I never heard my father say any.

Kong, fuck it. That was then. This is now. You have a limited amount of life in this world. You have a dick that is big and getting bigger. You have a wife you love very much. You have two businesses. I have no idea what kind of businesses they are or what kind of personal and financial rewards they have brought to you, but most people do not have this kind of success. Don't dwell on the past when you've got so much going for you right now.
 
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