keepingitbig
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I didn't read her profile and thought he was a she. But we talked on the phone. What do I do about this? I didn't want to say anything bad and I'm not gay. Should I block the phone number, or what? Confused.
MAXAMEYES;444232 said:Does she still have 'er twig & berries?
If not, why the concern?
If so, and it freaks you, just tell 'im: "No thanks, not my side of the street."
Honesty is quite often refreshing, and appreciated.
keepingitbig;444239 said:Let's just say he or she still has the equipment. Argh. No biggie. Had other females who wanted to go out with me. But damn, you don't get that alot.
doublelongdaddy;444245 said:So just suck her cock really good for her
keepingitbig;444250 said:I'm not against gays, because they have their rights as well. But I'm not doing that. Sorry, bro'.
keepingitbig;444239 said:Let's just say he or she still has the equipment. Argh. No biggie. Had other females who wanted to go out with me. But damn, you don't get that alot.
MAXAMEYES;444232 said:Honesty is quite often refreshing, and appreciated.
MAXAMEYES;444476 said:Hate to sound like the stickler for details that I am...but...
If he still has a penis and testicles then he is still a he no matter how good he looks as a gal. Or what he chooses to call himself.
Post-op, completely different story.
Personally, if the only way I'd ever found out a gal was once a guy was through genetic tests then, to me, it wouldn't matter a damn bit.
But if you can piss yer name in the snow; yer a guy.
I mean, I could put on a tutu and call myself a ballerina... but it'd never be so.
Mostly the back hair would gimme away.
Alex78;444549 said:well to say how to define some women,shemales is tough, i mean some women who have vaginas look manly and have more muscle, some shemales look more female than other girls but have dicks...
You do not want to go home and find her give you...
Turnover;444525 said:Ya Im glad you say it like that bc that is SO SO SO ignorant. First I wanna say the way it feels when you guys talk about transpeople this way would be like if all of you were white and I was black. Do you know not long ago they use to say black People werent Penis EnlargementOPLE? Its the same mentality of people who where absolutely sure the world was flat and the sun revolved around the earth! Its the same mentality as people who swear youre going to burn in hell if you do not accept Jesus Christ as your personal Lord and Savior.
One well known FACT of being trans is you NEVER get in a car or go home with a guy without telling them what you are. That should be in your first few minutes of convo Especially if sex is going to be expected. 2nd of all, there is no ratio of 9/10 that a guy will say oops were sorry we didnt know you were like me down there.
The circumstances are always variable, I have known more men than not and this is my honest experience to say, oh shit your a guy....o well, whats up have a boyfriend.? Its just all of your insecurity and a mans lack of sexual confidence that not only makes him fear it but it also denies him the satisfaction of exploring something pleaurable and completely normal.
You say its not the "usual" but someone like me who is trans nothing is further from the truth. Its you men who are unusual with me....not the other way around. And if you're dumb enough to believe a trans WOMAN is not a she or a trans MAN is not a he then you are absolutely close minded and do not even know what it means to be human. A trans person is TRANS. Like a Zebra is not a horse and and a house cat is not a Lion. Were just like anybody else and its everybody ELSE who makes us not like that.
Alex78;444562 said:actually i think you can be a nasty or mean person to somebody who puts up their image as rogue!
Look at women! one tiny mistake when you talk to her and its all over!
She does not like your view on politics,religion or food and she can spill vine on you call you a cunt and we are supposed to just stand there and look all retarded..
Women tease and make fun of guys size and cause them to go and do [words=http://www.mattersofsize.com/join-now.html]MOS[/words] stuff, spend years to get bigger and when we do they find another thing to poke at...
You do not say fuck off because she is a tranny but because she did not tell you in advance...
keepingitbig;444552 said:I actually talked to this person today and told her. I'm not immature, or will call her/him a freak. just told the person what I'm about and that wouldn't sit well with me and that I like a pure female. He/she got angry and I went off. Hope that settles it. Got a female I'm talking to right now that I want to take out for coffee.
keepingitbig;444568 said:I've been rejected many of times by women, but it made me much more stronger to actually do better in life. It's so far that I've been rejected by women, because of my race ( not using race though, just saying most women will not go out with certain guys of another race ), so I know how it feels.
REDZULU2003;444579 said:I think we can all learn from Turnover on this issue and his posts on this subject has open my mind more on the issue. Keepingitbig, sounded like you handled it alight in the end. For me Penis EnlargementRSONALLY, I'm not into dating or having any sexual liaison with a trans gender person. Sure I may be attracted to one, not knowing they are TG but that doesn't make me ignorant or an ass! That is my choice and I would never be rude or nasty to that person. I would HOPenis Enlargement if I did get in the car with a trans gender that they would be honest upfront about it and so when I got back to my place I wasn't in for a shock because it would not go anywhere, not interested in it. I would ask politely the person leave end off. I think everyone has a right to express themselves and transgender people, transexuals should be able to do this which they do quite openly in the UK as we have areas in many large cities for them to use.
I think that expecting a guy to accept this once he gets home, not knowing the full story and then thinking he has to lay the carpet down and be boyfriends is very selfish. This is then exploiting the rights of the man, that hopefully would have been polite about it but shouldn't have to be expected because of society labels to have a relashionship with someone they had no interest in. I'm only interested in dating and having sex with women who were born as a female, this is NOT being discriminatory to others as I accept them and do not call them but when it comes to someone's personal life and choices it is that .... personal choice.
Crazy Doc;444584 said:Exactly-and if he acts like that, he's a selfish guy not considering anyone's feelings. If she behaves herself with proper ethics, I WOULD say "she". I've had TV friends before, not really a big deal-frankly usually pretty easy to spot. I will admit I saw a TS on Jerry Springer once that made me realize one COULD be fooled, even the voice was very feminine/real... and I was indeed attracted on a purely physical level.
The issue here is ETHICS, that is, what zulu said: DISCLOSURE. No different than anything else. I know all about disclosure, I sell real estate. We don't wait until a few days before closing to tell them the house was on fire and has walls full of mold from the firehose-no we tell them UP FRONT when they walk in the house.
As I said, to me the appropriate time would be once an actual date was set or plans to "go back to her place" etc. At that point she should tell you, and if she doesn't, she's just a selfish HE.
Clear yet????
Turnover;444587 said:That is just being derogatory. Oh I dont like how this black person is acting so Im going to call them a nigger. or a gay person pissed me off so they are a fag. or a woman is a bitch. or anything like it that someone who it is personal to like me is inappropriate! ARE WE CLEAR? You think every comment is about something you say Doc and I skip over most of what you read anyway. You think its ok to degrade someone because you dislike an action they did- THAT IS IMMATURE. Its calling names simple as that. I call people jerks and motherfuckers but to point out someones difference like an overweight person and get mad and start calling them fat and shit...trying to make a pointless point to you though.
This trans woman never showed up to keeps house, never even said she wasnt a T. he read the profile wrong and caught her ON THE PHONE. so what is this all about the lies?
If a real girl says to you "Im a girl" and you say "no your a boy" damn well sure you get slapped. why do you think? its offensive. Same difference and you are just being rude sincerely. Besides Im done with it. I could care less. Why are you even fighting about it. Are you trying to understand what its like to be a tranny OR are you trying to be a know it all or smart ass
MAXAMEYES;444523 said:Sorry, if he still produces sperm, he's still a man. That's just biology.
That's the very definition of male.
We can take on whatever outward appearance we choose and assume whatever label we choose, but facts are still facts.