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Hi guys,

I am 33 years old and I have been watching adult entertainment since I am about 14-15 years old. Since then I am hooked. The only good thing I see about adult entertainment is that it can give us some good ideas for sexual moves. That's pretty much it. The rest is only negative.

I believe adult entertainment is bad for many reasons, but the main one is that I believe it leads to erectile dysfunction and the need for more and more hardcore stuff to get the same excitement. At least, that's what happened to me. At first, I just needed to see a pair of boobs to get a boner. Now, I need some extremely hardcore stuff. Lately, I have been watching a lot of ''shemale adult entertainment''. I know I'm disgusting...

I believe that if I am able to stop watching adult entertainment for long enough, those disgusting thoughts might leave my brain, or at least be less present, and my natural desires will come back.

I am aiming for 100 days. Why 100 days? First, because it is a beautiful number. Second, because they say it takes about 21 to 45 days to form new habit. So if can last 100 days, my new habit should be well ingrained.

The best I have done so far is just a little more than 50 days.

May God bless me.
 
Good luck man I've done a similar thing in the past and it changed my life I went 3 months no adult entertainment no fap

1st few days where tuff but once you get rolling your going to be fine
 
DreadMan;739088 said:
Good luck man I've done a similar thing in the past and it changed my life I went 3 months no adult entertainment no fap

1st few days where tuff but once you get rolling your going to be fine
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Thanks for your message man DeadMan. Very encouraging.
 
Keep it up man! Glad you decided you wanted to quit and made a choice to post and ask for support. Congrats man and keep going with it. I know DLD will be along for the support. Just try to resist those urges with other things.. idk length work, girth since your horny, workout, idk man either way try to fill the voids until it because no problem.
 
BigDaddyCool;739067 said:
Hi guys,

I am 33 years old and I have been watching adult entertainment since I am about 14-15 years old. Since then I am hooked. The only good thing I see about adult entertainment is that it can give us some good ideas for sexual moves. That's pretty much it. The rest is only negative.

I believe adult entertainment is bad for many reasons, but the main one is that I believe it leads to erectile dysfunction and the need for more and more hardcore stuff to get the same excitement. At least, that's what happened to me. At first, I just needed to see a pair of boobs to get a boner. Now, I need some extremely hardcore stuff. Lately, I have been watching a lot of ''shemale adult entertainment''. I know I'm disgusting...

I believe that if I am able to stop watching adult entertainment for long enough, those disgusting thoughts might leave my brain, or at least be less present, and my natural desires will come back.

I am aiming for 100 days. Why 100 days? First, because it is a beautiful number. Second, because they say it takes about 21 to 45 days to form new habit. So if can last 100 days, my new habit should be well ingrained.

The best I have done so far is just a little more than 50 days.

May God bless me.
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God has blessed you and He has filled you with His spirit and this is the reason adult entertainment does not jive with you anymore. I have lost track of my time but I can tell you this, when I mess up now I feel terrible, there is no joy! A short lived instant gratification to only end up feeling like crap. Once the Lord is dwelling within us it no longer feels good to do bad. 100 days is a great challenge and if you already did 50 days I think this will be easy. If you need any support or help please let me know as I can relate to you. I will include you in all of my prayers!
 
doublelongdaddy;739239 said:
Once the Lord is dwelling within us it no longer feels good to do bad.
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Amen brother!

Do you also try to avoid adult entertainment? I thought you recommended to watch adult entertainment for some of the PE exercises...
 
BigDaddyCool;739742 said:
Amen brother!

Do you also try to avoid adult entertainment? I thought you recommended to watch adult entertainment for some of the PE exercises...
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Last night I became week and ended up watching adult entertainment and letting one out. I hate adult entertainment and I hate masturbation, it makes me sick and when I do the very thing I hate to do it is no longer me doing it but the sin inside of me. I have no laws I am under so I do not have a "though shall not wack off" or "Though shall not watch adult entertainment" In both cases I am putting a law above me and laws are meant to break and we do. So I live by the Grace of Jesus Christ and in Him I am blameless, I am righteous, I am holy! Once law is removed Grace abounds and sin no longer feels good, it feels like I feel today, disgusted. Thank God for the Blood of Christ who has "forgiven all of my sins as far as east is to west" and "He remembers them no more" Jesus died for our sins, past, present and future Once and for All! This is one of the biggest helps for me when I am doing well or struggling. Knowing Jesus is in my Heart I can always jump into His arms and He loves me and "will not allow anyone to snatch me from His hands" As Christians we are dead to the law (sin) and we are alive in Christ. And it is by the Grace of God that we renew our minds and become better people.

So, I do not avoid adult entertainment, it is simply something that does not work with my status in Christ. Masturbation, which is in no way bad on its own, but without adult entertainment, what is the point? Masturbation and adult entertainment are part of my old software, my go to when I felt bad or needed relief. (analogy) The new software is still kicking in and just like a new system on a computer I am not completely comfortable with the new software so occasionally I fall back into the old. Last night was no exception. I had a very frustrating two days, I was delirious and medicated, the enemy took this occasion to lead me to the very place I hate. I had a split second decision to make last night, go to bed or watch adult entertainment and I fell for the adult entertainment. Since I am already forgiven for this sin and simply give praise, glory and honor to Christ who loves me no matter what. When I feel badly it is the enemy accusing me, not God. It is so important to understand this, God will never lead you into sin, NEVER!

This verse helps me so much in this:

"Who then is the one who condemns? No one. Christ Jesus who died--more than that, who was raised to life--is at the right hand of God and is also interceding for us."


We need to pray for one another and tell each other of our struggles and this will help us so much!
 
doublelongdaddy;739845 said:
Last night I became week and ended up watching adult entertainment and letting one out. I hate adult entertainment and I hate masturbation, it makes me sick and when I do the very thing I hate to do it is no longer me doing it but the sin inside of me. I have no laws I am under so I do not have a "though shall not wack off" or "Though shall not watch adult entertainment" In both cases I am putting a law above me and laws are meant to break and we do. So I live by the Grace of Jesus Christ and in Him I am blameless, I am righteous, I am holy! Once law is removed Grace abounds and sin no longer feels good, it feels like I feel today, disgusted. Thank God for the Blood of Christ who has "forgiven all of my sins as far as east is to west" and "He remembers them no more" Jesus died for our sins, past, present and future Once and for All! This is one of the biggest helps for me when I am doing well or struggling. Knowing Jesus is in my Heart I can always jump into His arms and He loves me and "will not allow anyone to snatch me from His hands" As Christians we are dead to the law (sin) and we are alive in Christ. And it is by the Grace of God that we renew our minds and become better people.

So, I do not avoid adult entertainment, it is simply something that does not work with my status in Christ. Masturbation, which is in no way bad on its own, but without adult entertainment, what is the point? Masturbation and adult entertainment are part of my old software, my go to when I felt bad or needed relief. (analogy) The new software is still kicking in and just like a new system on a computer I am not completely comfortable with the new software so occasionally I fall back into the old. Last night was no exception. I had a very frustrating two days, I was delirious and medicated, the enemy took this occasion to lead me to the very place I hate. I had a split second decision to make last night, go to bed or watch adult entertainment and I fell for the adult entertainment. Since I am already forgiven for this sin and simply give praise, glory and honor to Christ who loves me no matter what. When I feel badly it is the enemy accusing me, not God. It is so important to understand this, God will never lead you into sin, NEVER!

This verse helps me so much in this:

"Who then is the one who condemns? No one. Christ Jesus who died--more than that, who was raised to life--is at the right hand of God and is also interceding for us."


We need to pray for one another and tell each other of our struggles and this will help us so much!
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I commend you DLD for your desire to follow Christ! He is the only path.

I am now past the 7 day bench mark! I still have 91 days to go! Let's do this.
 
BigDaddyCool;740312 said:
I commend you DLD for your desire to follow Christ! He is the only path.

I am now past the 7 day bench mark! I still have 91 days to go! Let's do this.
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Thank you my Brother! I love Jesus so much! I am on day 7 too so we will be in tandem. Let us pray for one another so we can make this journey together with the Lord! 91 days is nothing! We are bigger and better than that!
 
BigDaddyCool;741360 said:
I have chocked miserably... I'm starting fresh this month. Let's do this.
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No, you fell and now you are getting up, brushing your self off and starting anew! Every fall will make you stronger and soon they will become less and less. Remember, do not put yourself under any rules, rules are meant to break. Put yourself under the grace of God and you will do far better. Laws always bring failure but if there is no law there is no failure. Just a different way to se things.
 
DreadMan;744685 said:
hows the 100 days going
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I am on day 5 :) 95 days to go. Thank Jesus my sins have been completely forgiven!
 
DreadMan;744793 said:
I'm about 12 hours in
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Ditto! :) But things have been really tough for me the past two weeks, I am an easy target for the enemy! But at least we can confess to each other and support one another. I pray we both can make this challenge starting TODAY! If we both get to 100 days I will provide the prize!
 
Big Schwanz Acht;745365 said:
is this a 'fap-only' challenge or are you including intercourse too?
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For me no masturbation, no adult entertainment. My record is 30 days, hoping to do better this go around :)
 
I would love to do this but I use adult entertainment for girth work
 
I just flipped through this topic and realized I had a problem. I look at a bunch of adult entertainment while doing my 5x5x3 routine. Even when I come across a certain video I quickly get bored and lose my erection. I can’t have a hard erection for 5min at a time. I can’t have a hard erection while pumping. And I'll start my 100 days tomorrow.
 
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W/Mike said:
I just flipped through this topic and realized I had a problem. I look at a bunch of adult entertainment while doing my 5x5x3 routine. Even when I come across a certain video I quickly get bored and lose my erection. I can’t have a hard erection for 5min at a time. I can’t have a hard erection while pumping. And I'll start my 100 days tomorrow.
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adult entertainment does the same thing to me. I can look but I quickly become bored and it does absolutely nothing for me to make me feel bad. I suggest that you pick up Viagra in hundred milligram tablets and cut them into fours and use 25 mg for each girth session. You will not need adult entertainment and you’ll get an incredible workout every time.
 
DLD said:
adult entertainment does the same thing to me. I can look but I quickly become bored and it does absolutely nothing for me to make me feel bad. I suggest that you pick up Viagra in hundred milligram tablets and cut them into fours and use 25 mg for each girth session. You will not need adult entertainment and you’ll get an incredible workout every time.
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Yes, I was already thinking whether to take sildenafil or not. I am honestly tired of always relying on some aids. I would like to regain my natural strength.
 
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Yes, I was already thinking whether to take sildenafil or not. I am honestly tired of always relying on some aids. I would like to regain my natural strength.
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Not to mention how much libido it robs you of. Totally distorts things. Viagra is safe, not addictive and works a charm.
 
DLD said:
Not to mention how much libido it robs you of. Totally distorts things. Viagra is safe, not addictive and works a charm.
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Are you sure it's safe? Do you have any experiences with Viagra to share? I’ve never tried it and I have to admit I’m a little skeptical about it.
 
W/Mike said:
Are you sure it's safe? Do you have any experiences with Viagra to share? I’ve never tried it and I have to admit I’m a little skeptical about it.
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I have been using fir 18 years straight every single day and the only thing I did for me is give me effortless girth workouts. It is a miracle when it comes to erect work.
 
DLD said:
I have been using fir 18 years straight every single day and the only thing I did for me is give me effortless girth workouts. It is a miracle when it comes to erect work.
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Yeah, I should definitely try. I've been trying to get girth for a long time, now I know that's why the results are missing (poor erection). I wish I had 16 / 17cm in girth. I am currently about 14cm in girth. And of course stop pornography, visualization is the real thing.
 
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W/Mike said:
Yeah, I should definitely try. I've been trying to get girth for a long time, now I know that's why the results are missing (poor erection). I wish I had 16 / 17cm in girth. I am currently about 14cm in girth. And of course stop pornography, visualization is the real thing.
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it made all the difference in the world to me. I easily put on length, but girth was so difficult, I only started to make incredible growth in girth after I started using Viagra. It also allows you to avoid pornography completely.
 
DLD said:
it made all the difference in the world to me. I easily put on length, but girth was so difficult, I only started to make incredible growth in girth after I started using Viagra. It also allows you to avoid pornography completely.
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Yes, it makes sense. Did you notice how much time it took you through the routines you applied to get an inch or even two in girth?
 
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W/Mike said:
Yes, it makes sense. Did you notice how much time it took you through the routines you applied to get an inch or even two in girth?
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when I invented the SSJ my whole entire girth game stepped up big time. I was able to gain 1.5 inches in girth within two years. I put on 1/2 an inch in my first six months.
 
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