What can I do to mantain my erection during wet jelqing?

[rov]

Hi, What can I do to mantain my erection during wet jelqing?

 

[lexyz222]

Either think about an erotic scenario in your head or watch a bit of adult entertainment.

I try to focus on the feeling and i usually stay at about 70-80% erect, but i've been in the situation before where i've been stressed / sick and i cant even get it up while jelquing LOL.

 

[DLD]

Jelqing and other erection related exercise does become somewhat dependent on external stimulation or a very good imagination typified with sexual visualization. Some men can naturally hold an erection in girth work with no external stimulation but this is rather the exception than the rule. I will use the iphone, computer, sound bites, music, pictures and art to stimulate my mind and cause the necessary expansion for training.

 

[huge-girth]

Hi, What can I do to mantain my erection during wet jelqing?

Do it in front of soft adult entertainment video.

 

[DLD]

Think about you wife or girlfriend

 

[squirt_inducer_man]

Think about you wife or girlfriend

That is the best. No mind warping at all. Just the reality.

 

[DLD]

That is the best. No mind warping at all. Just the reality.

adult entertainment is truly evil. Every time I watch it when done the depression is unbearable

 

[squirt_inducer_man]

adult entertainment is truly evil. Every time I watch it when done the depression is unbearable

Same for me. I would be so happy if I could just keep it out of my life.

 

[DLD]

Same for me. I would be so happy if I could just keep it out of my life.

I know I hate that I do it therefore it is not me doing it but the evil that surrounds me

 

[huge-girth]

Think about you wife or girlfriend

Very true. Mental stimulation has always worked for me especially if I abstain from masturbation.

 

[squirt_inducer_man]

I use a website blocking tool, built into my router. I have no problem of keeping myself away from adult entertainment now. It's mostly a distraction, when we feel the need to watch it. That is: A way to flee from the present moment.

 

[huge-girth]

I use a website blocking tool, built into my router. I have no problem of keeping myself away from adult entertainment now. It's mostly a distraction, when we feel the need to watch it. That is: A way to flew from the present moment.

adult entertainment leads to masturbation. And masturbation is bad for girth work.

 

[squirt_inducer_man]

adult entertainment leads to masturbation. And masturbation is bad for girth work.

Yes indeed.

 

[DLD]

I use a website blocking tool, built into my router. I have no problem of keeping myself away from adult entertainment now. It's mostly a distraction, when we feel the need to watch it. That is: A way to flee from the present moment.

I need to do that desperately.

 

[squirt_inducer_man]

I need to do that desperately.

I only block one website, can't block all with this primative filter. I need a Pie-hole for that. But it's enough to stay away more then I used to.

 

[DLD]

I only block one website, can't block all with this primative filter. I need a Pie-hole for that. But it's enough to stay away more then I used to.

The temptation is unbelievable.

 

[squirt_inducer_man]

The temptation is unbelievable.

I know. It's strange. When I have been away from it, I need to "teach" my brain to be stimulated by it again.

My dream would be to be 100% stuck in the present moment. But I'm addicted to my smartphone now. I know it kills my mental clearity. I teach my brain to be distracted. Knowing and doing are 2 different things.

 

[DLD]

I know. It's strange. When I have been away from it, I need to "teach" my brain to be stimulated by it again.

My dream would be to be 100% stuck in the present moment. But I'm addicted to my smartphone now. I know it kills my mental clearity. I teach my brain to be distracted. Knowing and doing are 2 different things.

If I could get back together with my wife. My life would be so much better. And the only reason I go to pornography when I do is because I miss my wife.

 

[squirt_inducer_man]

Human connection is better.
I have no one to get back to. I'm all alone now. But I miss someone so much...but that's life...I need to move forward, but my mind is stuck in the past.
You want to help people you care about...but sometimes you can not help them and that's painful, like a knife in the heart.




If that's possible I hope that can happen for you.

 

[squirt_inducer_man]

Just realized that this thread is derailed now. But that happens sometimes

 

[9.5inchpro]

I know I hate that I do it therefore it is not me doing it but the evil that surrounds me

well I'm married and recently I have been successful at not watching adult entertainment.cause it is a sin.I ask God for forgiveness.

 

[DLD]

Just realized that this thread is derailed now. But that happens sometimes

It ok sometimes

 

[squirt_inducer_man]

It ok sometimes

Good. Because my brain have a hard time with linear thinking.

 

[DLD]

Good. Because my brain have a hard time with linear thinking.

I got a vertical problem

 

[huge-girth]

If I could get back together with my wife. My life would be so much better. And the only reason I go to pornography when I do is because I miss my wife.

If you can get a woman that understands the nature of your job, you will do much better. Women are helpmates only if you have the right one in your life.

 

[DLD]

Use your mind to create sexy scenarios to keep erect