I have seen several guys get wrapped up with dancers. It seems that majority of them get burned in various ways. It seems to me that a sizable portion of these gals are damaged goods in some way, not all by no means. Seems it usually Daddy issues and drugs are the hot problems w/them. I think if you go into it with the mindset they are a rented sports car for some high speed fun and take back to the rental place after the spin is a good mindset instead taking them home for mother to meet.