Size matters?

Maybe it's from being on a break but I've really gotten to thinking about why I need or want to enlarge my penis any further. I think about all the things that I've been doing, and how I haven't been occupied with the idea of wanting or having a bigger penis. I guess it seems pointless to me at this point, as I know the woman that I'm going to spend the rest of my life with won't love me for my penis but me for the man that I am. To some this may seem idealistic or an excuse to stop Penis Enlargement but in all reality this is the truth and if it were any other way it wouldn't work. I think the reality of this for me is that Penis Enlargement was a stage in my life and that I've grown away from it. It doesn't seem that important to me in the grand scheme of things anymore, and I don't think it has a place in my life anymore. There's a lot to learn from and I've learned a lot from this experience.

This isn't a good bye post to the forum or anything dramatic like that. I'm just posting some thoughts I've had since I've been on an extended break. Maybe it's just being busy and not giving the size issue much thought but it doesn't really seem to matter anymore. I've reached a significant size and maybe it's fine where it's at and I don't need to go any further. I haven't made a clear cut that's it decision but I can say that I have been able to get more done and really enjoy not cramming my days together and that goes for anything that I do now. Just thinking out loud, really. It's been a nice break though, and maybe I'll get into Penis Enlargement again once I have the time but I really don't think it's necessary. I hope all you guys are having a great Labor Day weekend.

Hi millionman. I think for me Penis Enlargement is more than getting a bigger penis. It's about having an ongoing project that you discuss with people trying to accomplish the same thing. It's fun to have something that you are trying to achieve over a long period of time. I very much enjoy chatting with guys on the forum as Penis Enlargement is something we all have in common. I think that Penis Enlargement is only the beginning of this forum though. It has become somewhere that I feel like I belong and I love reading peoples posts (yours included) about many other things as well.

Penis Enlargement is a wonderful thing because it can improve your sex life and just your general confidence so I guess that those are the reasons that I do it. Seeing changes to yourself that you have worked for and are positive is very rewarding whether or not women even care if you have a 10"er. Over time on this forum people make friends and and help each other with advice regarding many topics other than simply penis enlargement. That too is a great thing.

I'm happy for you being in such a satisfied place in your life. Good luck to you.

yeah that is true. No woman is going to love you or marry you for your penis. It doesn't hurt the ego though to have a really BIG cock though. lol

Good to hear from ya though.

Really good post- the both of you. Ive noticed that since Ive started I have gradually become more and more comforable with the size that Im at to where I dont really have 'penis envy' issues anymore- which is pretty much why I started here. I def. agree with Tom in that the forum is just a fun place for me to post and read posts, a community I like to visit and be apart of. I still also like the idea of doing the excercises and seeing my penis actually get bigger- its my hobby. Im not going for like a 9 inch penis or anything, I just want to have something that I know is big and works to better than ever, for as long as I live. Im sure Ill do Penis Enlargement for the rest of my life in some form as I think that it helps with the overall health of your penis, I just am not always going to do it to add length to what I have.

As long as your satisfied man...this place is what you make of it. I hope that you remain as happy as you are now in the future...Penis Enlargement isn't going anywhere anytime so you can always come back to it in the future. Good luck with your marriage.

I go through periods where I think the same thing. You are above average, and should be happy with what you have accomplished. Although, after a few years of being with your wife, you may find going back to Penis Enlargement and dick enlarging could make things more interesting.

I agree with philadelph. I think Penis Enlargement has to fit in your particular personal situation, be it being single again, revamping your relationship, coping with frustration, whatever. If you're happy with the way things are going you'll find it hard to motivate to keep up a steady Penis Enlargement routine.
In my case, I'm in a long-distance relationship and when I'm on my own Penis Enlargement is IT for me, it makes me feel great. but when I'm with my girl, even for longer periods, I don't think about Penis Enlargement AT ALL, especially since I keep hitting the cervix. I'm only jelqing once and then cuz I love the feeling of a pumped cock and the positive things it does to penile health. but after having gained one inch, I'm happy with what I achieved and I might stop Penis Enlargement soon. but that doesn't mean I might not return to it as soon as a new situation might lead me to work hard on reaching my final goal...

That's ok Millionman. Anyway, as was said, this forum is not just about growing our penises. You can restart Penis Enlargement whenever you want. I seem to go through Penis Enlargement and no-Penis Enlargement periods and that is fine. Just do what you want to.

Penis Enlargement just doesn't seem like that big of a deal anymore. Maybe it's a change in how I see myself, but I can go back and look at the time I've spent on Penis Enlargement and the other things I could have been doing and it just doesn't seem worth it. Maybe it's the realization that sex isn't the be all end all of existence. It's also that when I marry my wife I don't just want to be a guy with a big wang but to be well devloped all the way around. DLD is a great example of how this can derail a relationship, and I feel for him but there's a huge part of this that is all ego and me centered. For some guys I suppose it can help their outlook and improve their relationships, but even this with time can grow to be an old thing and you just want to go a step further as all of a sudden what you have doesn't suit your self image and your ego craves for more.

I just think that for a time Penis Enlargement has had it's place with me and it no longer does. I sold every piece of Penis Enlargement equipment that I own, and I'm moving on. I don't see this as a for now situation, but a glad I went through it but I've matured and grown out of it. I believe SWM has the same sentiments. There's always the chance that the junk won't work properly later on and Penis Enlargement would help restore the vigor but till then I don't see the point. This isn't a down and out post either but more of a realistic post. We have made sex to be this huge portion of a relationship and this is not the case. Relationships are about having friendship, love, and a life together. When I'm 80 years old I don't think my wife is going to care if we have sex at all, and I won't care either just as long as I have a great companion to grow old with that's really what matters in the scheme of things. We can have great sex early on but that goes to the wayside when you have kids and work and life just takes over at a point. I see the value of good sex as it is an expression of love, but if it becomes something more than that and it consumes the relationship (in my case marriage) then things will deteriorate as passion at a high intensity can only last so long and the grind of living in the same house seeing the same person takes over. What then? Again, it's about being in a relationship bonded together for life and it really doesn't matter what you have or not. That's what I see. Thanks for the posts fellas, and I'll be around so I'm not gone but I'm not Penis Enlargementing.