Ruining It For You

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Let's say you meet a really cute, nice, sweet girl... you're really attracted to her and she is attracted to you. You haven't yet made love when....

You find out she had a few black boyfriends.

Would that kill it for you?

We don't even have to get racial with this...let's say you somehow find out she had been with someone substantially bigger....

Would that ruin it for you? Would it make you not even wanna try to go further with her? Would you tell her?
 
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No, it would not bother me. It don't matter to me. Now marrying this would be another issue. The only reason is the bullshit your friends would put you through. Imagine if you had an old school family? They would give you a rash of shit.

On the size issue, so what?
There will always be someone more wealthy, better looking, more intelligent than you or I. Why get worked up over nothing. I mean does a girl get upset sayting "he has to have slept with somone with bigger tits than me or a better body?"

If the girl likes you and puts up with your shit and isn't too much of a burden, why worry?:gluedtosc
 

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I wish I were as well adjusted as you. Unfortunately, I'm not.

If I met a girl who I knew had a past lover who was huge, I wouldn't even wanna fuck her. Or most likely I'd fuck her and hate myself the whole time.

Then again, what girl hasn't had the "one guy" who was a monster. Every chick seems to have a big dick story. All I know is...that guy is never me.
 
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[/I]Every chick seems to have a big dick story. All I know is...that guy is never me.
Godsize,

Just try to think that every girl you have been with has a Godsize story too. Instead of worrying about how they will remember your dick, give them something else that will bring them warm fuzzies when they think of you. With me, they are too busy remembering that evil Pirate who tied them up and took them to fantasy nirvana to even think about my dick - I screw their minds. For you it could be kissing, or pussy eating, or dancing, or romantic gestures, or - well you have to figure it out.

My grandma always told me I could do one thing really well, or a lot of things pretty crappy. So you can't do the biggest dick thing yet (yet). Pick some other aspect that you can do, say a skill you can learn instead of a body part that takes a long time to adjust, and make yourself the master of every girls universe at it. They will always fondly remember you for that one thing, and will forget any other shortcomings you might think you have.
 

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While that does make a lot of sense, I'd still rather be remembered for the dick. You understand, right?
 
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Yeah Godsize, I do. The black thing especially. But wishing I had my eye back won't ever bring it back. And dwelling on it would make me very unhappy. I like you buddy. Dwelling on the things we can't do anything about in life is wasting time we could spend doing something fun. Plus it makes us Grumpy Guss's other people don't want to be around. This would be a perfect moment to start snapping that rubber band.

Have you ever skydived Godsize? I think it could be the perfect thing to snap you out of this funk. It is exactly the emotion jarring thing I think you need. Scare the shit out of you, then thrill the shit right back in. Show you how to face your fears, and what lies on the other side. Could change your life Bra, could change your life.
 
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Originally posted by SnakePlissken
On the size issue, so what?
There will always be someone more wealthy, better looking, more intelligent than you or I. Why get worked up over nothing. I mean does a girl get upset sayting "he has to have slept with somone with bigger tits than me or a better body?"

If the girl likes you and puts up with your shit and isn't too much of a burden, why worry?:gluedtosc
I feel the same way. It might bug me a little bit...but would not keep me from pursuing a relationship with her if I thought there was good potential for one. Who knows, she may end up having a wealthy grandfather who thinks she's the apple of his eye...you marry her and youre set for life.
 

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Pirate Steve - you are the fuckin' coolest, man.


Yet these days I have a fantasy....don't know if it'll come true and I'm sorry if it sounds terrible to hear, but...my fantasy is this:

I meet a cute lil' white girl. I ask her if she's ever "dated" a black dude.

Her response: "Eww!"

Whew. What a relief that would be.

I mean there's also scores of white dudes and other races of guys that are beyond my meat, but that's the phrase that pays for me these days. I'm sorry to any black members here, I hope ya'll understand where this is coming from...and don't snicker and think, "Yeah...racism!" It's not that.

I "went black" once and I never went back (meaning: I never called her again) not cause she was black, but cuz she was WACK! What a fuckin' twit she was. No wonder black dudes don't want 'em.
 
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Godsize,
Forget the white girl. Meet a Brazilian one. Whoa nelly! A Brazilian girl is worth any two white bread American girls in bed (and out too, they are just damn fun to be around). A night with a Brazilian girl, and you won't need to worry about your penis size because you will have a new, more powerful obsession; how to meet more Brazilian girls. Then there are the Dominican Republic girls...

Still buddy, I like the way you think. I'm with you. I'll take a rich scuzzed out cock whore any day. She buys me a new boat and she can have any dick she wants - I'll even go out and bring them home for her! :rocker:
 
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Well, my current girlfriend has been with a black guy. That didn't bother me much until she had to throw in 'he was huge. they really are as big as they say they are'. That was the part that ruined it for me.

I didn't want to be with her anymore after that. Our relationship has really never been the same since. If this has happened to you, I really recommend you move on. There are billions of girls out there and there is no need to get depressed over one.
 

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Yeah, but most girls are stupid like that. They don't think about other people's feelings... only their own.
 

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I want to say I feel your pain guys. my Ex never had anyone bigger than me, but just to even hear her refer to a guy she heard was huge ( so huge everyone in the county knew about it or some shit) really got me all bent out of shape.
I confronted her on it and she got really pissed. She was upset I would even think that she would want to sleep with that guy. She said he was a loser, so even if he was huge she wouldnt give him the time of day. And THAT it was MY FAULT to think about her that way. She was right,too.

So while I feel empathy because I have those feelings too, the reality is if we have a problem with a girl who had bigger guys
ITS OUR PROBLEM, not hers.
 
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Suppose you have this girlfriend you really like. But every once in a while you see a hot chick with bigger boobs and you wonder what they'd feel like, etc.

Should your girlfriend leave you over that?
 

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Originally posted by bobbdobbs
Suppose you have this girlfriend you really like. But every once in a while you see a hot chick with bigger boobs and you wonder what they'd feel like, etc.

Should your girlfriend leave you over that?
I love your posts bobb. :D

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"Suppose you have this girlfriend you really like. But every once in a while you see a hot chick with bigger boobs and you wonder what they'd feel like, etc. "

Yeah, but I wouldn't mention it every time it happened.
 
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Originally posted by Godsize
"Suppose you have this girlfriend you really like. But every once in a while you see a hot chick with bigger boobs and you wonder what they'd feel like, etc. "

Yeah, but I wouldn't mention it every time it happened.
EXACTLY!!

But yeh my current gf had a "HUGE" ex, at first it bothered me, it still does from time to time, but who cares mine will be bigger someday anyway:D
 
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Originally posted by Godsize
Yeah, but I wouldn't mention it every time it happened.
Here's the deal. Every girl will know someone cuter than you, smarter than you, funnier than you, stronger than you, kinder than you, "badder" than you, richer than you, bigger than you, more confident than you.

No matter what girl you hook up with, you will meet sexier women, wilder women, funner women, smarter women, richer women.

Your job as a man is to quit worrying about it. Show the chicks a good time. If they want to come along for the ride, hey that's cool. Let the chickies try to impress you. Be the catch.

Go read the dating and seduction forum here. Lots of good stuff there.
 
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Originally posted by bobbdobbs
Here's the deal. Every girl will know someone cuter than you, smarter than you, funnier than you, stronger than you, kinder than you, "badder" than you, richer than you, bigger than you, more confident than you.

No matter what girl you hook up with, you will meet sexier women, wilder women, funner women, smarter women, richer women.

Your job as a man is to quit worrying about it. Show the chicks a good time. If they want to come along for the ride, hey that's cool. Let the chickies try to impress you. Be the catch.

Go read the dating and seduction forum here. Lots of good stuff there.
I agree 110% with this post. It's the whole "there will always be someone better out there" attitude. It sucks, but thats the way it is. Just be confident with what you have and the women will love you for it.
 
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Originally posted by Spektrum
Well, my current girlfriend has been with a black guy. That didn't bother me much until she had to throw in 'he was huge. they really are as big as they say they are'. That was the part that ruined it for me.

I didn't want to be with her anymore after that. Our relationship has really never been the same since. If this has happened to you, I really recommend you move on. There are billions of girls out there and there is no need to get depressed over one.
Amen. Move on. I married that girl 6 years ago, and it's still thumping in my head almost everyday. Except the guy wasn't black, but hispanic.
 
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