great post, real interesting. I think the reason most guys dont do pe or lift weights and things like that is not necessarily because they are lazy, but imo aggresive self improvement is kind of antisocial when you think about it. as much as we think that by sculpting our bodies and so on that we are trying to attract people, you are actually kind of alienating them. think when you see a beautiful girl (i mean amazing), its intimidating isnt it? and youre a lot more hesitant when trying to talking to a girl like that depending on who you are. ive seen a lot of people sort of shortchange themselves physically to make sure they are approachable or dont seem conceited.