It's at the higher end of 'average' for length. It's definitely big for a girth measurement though. Pressing a ruler against your pubic bone is not "cheating". If you were posting your bone pressed (pressing against the pubic bone) measurement as your actual (non bone pressed) however, that would be "cheating". Bone pressed measurements are a good, consistent way of tracking length gains though because body fat levels can change, and cause inaccurate non bp measures/tracking.