How do you feel about a girlfriend of wife knowing about PE.

So as the question states, how do you feel about a wife, girlfriend, or significant other knowing that your into PE, well for me, mine has known from day one, as this all started with me having issues with EQ, mine is knows about it and encourages it, mine in fact purchase my bath mate, she has been known to watch me train, been known to give me a hand jelqing ect, just the other day Friday in fact, I purchased a length master, after my father gave me a 140 dollars for Christmas, but I discussed it with her as things had been tight, she agreed, as she has been wanting a little more length. she has noticd a difference since I started training not just in bed, she said she has noticed I have more confidence as well

I've always let my relationships know. It's a part of who I am, they have to accept it.

Healthy relationships are about open communication...

I use to be into stealth PE and then I realized that I might as be open because hiding it was becoming hard to do. Now she knows with full disclosure, what I am doing including foreskin restoration. I feel relieved because now I don't have to hide.

Mine, has pretty much known from day one.

Say nothing ever!

yeah I would say that most times, hell mine knows, and encourages it, she asked me the other day about how much a phallosan was after she seen me talking about it.

bandit2010 said:

yeah I would say that most times, hell mine knows, and encourages it, she asked me the other day about how much a phallosan was after she seen me talking about it.

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Some men are lucky like that and then there are the 90% that are not lucky LOL. My x Jen was OK with my PE until she was no longer OK with PE. She loved it until she got a healthy case of penis envy. At that point the whole relationship went to shit. If I had to do all over again I would’ve never said a word.

mine was not ok at first, because she did not understand what was going on, she thought I was getting off, when she finally realized it she was ok with it, and started encouraging it, hey do you remember me dealing with my mother inlaw when I was pumping lol, she asking about what was taking so long in the tub.

just the opposite for me LOL

...women do not think the same way men do, we're from the 'how to get from point A to point B in the quickest most efficient manner (regardless of how it makes us feel). Therefore we have the ability to problem-solve regardless of emotional fall-out. Women come at issues/hurdles/problems/projects from a completely different angle (not better or worse), which includes feelings and subsequently these feelings can change at any given moment.
Let's use PE/MOS as an example:
Men identify a need for additional size/stamina/health and seek-out information/truth...at that point we make an informed decision and either choose to accept the costs (time/money/energy) as worth it or not. Many will also believe that their spouse/SO will see the same cost/benefit ratio that we employ...NOT TRUE! She will love/support/encourage PE as long as the benefits make her feel that the time/effort are worth it. The variable within the entire male/female determination of value is the interjection of 'feeling', so regardless of your progress you may or may not receive support depending on the whim of her mood.
Too dangerous in my opinion

It depends how much you make it a priority in your life. If you are obsessed with PE your partner may think you have issues (especially if you are considering surgery or something). If you do it to help improve stamina and gain some size but are confident with what you have already, your partner may not see it as an issue. We don't freak out when women get boob jobs or ass injections so why not enlarge your cock? People make it out as so taboo sometimes.

I have let all my past women know about PE and many were quite intrigued about it. It even turned some of them on watching me pump my cock and expand in front of their eyes and then gently slide it in them.

If my wife would be as half concerned as I am about her vagina as I am about my penis and would do VE with the same drive...

((ninja sigh))

Oh well...who knows God may change her heart and mind one day.

I used to tell mine, and they weren't bothered by it in the least. Some even helped me with stetches, as a form of foreplay. I dont see it working well if you have to sneak around, it will arouse suspicion onto other areas nothing related to what your really doing for example she htinks your having an affair.

For those that say the woman will think your doing it, so you can get more women, or more women will want your cock due to it being larger and more juicy, well, that is HER problem, not yours! her insecureness, and if she can't handle it, or thinks you want to shag about town, it tells you more about her way of thinking, the way she is wired up ... its like I have had ex's who loved dildos, and playing with clit pumps, even one who loved pumping her nipples to huge proportions, and I used to think, whats the point ... they wanted me time with these dildos in every orifice, but I accepted it, because the sex between us was volcanic, and no dildo could compete, so I got over it and moved on in a positive manner.

If I had said no way, this is causing me stress, I insist on watching you, it would have been because of my own internal shit, and not her issue.

Hard to accept, that sometimes the problems is not external to us, but is inside of us. How we interact with the world is how we are deep inside, and issues around telling your wife to me, is not a good road to go down.

Lightning said:

It depends how much you make it a priority in your life. If you are obsessed with PE your partner may think you have issues

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This is 100% truth! Women do not think the same way as man and if they think that you are giving your penis more priority over them they will certainly become jealous and angry and that relationship will falter. I always thought Jen was OK with my PE, but in the end is the reason she left me because of PE. Now as I’ve said plenty of times I would never change anything in this case, I’ve made my choice between her and the brotherhood and the brotherhood won. Keep it a secret and save yourself some serious problems in the future, even if she seems like she is so down right now, be careful because she might not be the same way in the future.

Haursen said:

Oh well...who knows God may change her heart and mind one day.

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Keep praying for her and God will help her. It’s never in our time so don’t get frustrated just keep on praying. God loves you and he knows what’s best.