Have any of you been swinging?

Medicating · Jul 24, 2011

Hi,

This is just for curiosity sake, but have any of you been to any swingers parties?

I watched a documentary on it last night and it did appeal to me however it seems to be older people who are more... active in 'the lifestyle'. All i can find it 40-55 year olds at it, and for someone who is turning 20 next year, i think the age gap is a little bit too much.

Maybe people get more interested as they grow older and i'll have to wait a while?

But yeah, anything on this topic will be welcome.

MAXAMEYES · Jul 24, 2011

Two things to remember:
1. Some o' dem "old gals" can teach yer ass a thing or two
2. Simple math-twenty goes into forty a lot more times than forty goes into twenty.

Turnover · Jul 24, 2011

From what I have heard all that happens when you bring a 3rd person into a relationship; it NEVER works out. It starts out fun and cool and before you know it jealousy and cheating follow and the relationship falls apart. I think with people in a relationship thats what happens, Idk if you can technically swing unless you have a mate? Thats more like an orgy sex party. Ew

Medicating · Jul 25, 2011

No i don't want to bring someone into my relationship, i'm single. The only relationship i'd get involved with would be two bi-sexual females... MFF over MMF.

I just wanna go to a swingers party, see what goes on and just see if it appeals to me or not when i get there. Just curious if someone had been from here.

SirKyle · Jul 25, 2011

single males are usually not welcome at Swinger Events from what I could gather

Medicating · Jul 25, 2011

Bummer. Better find a friend who i don't mind getting screwed by multiple guys... probably better off hiring a cheap hooker and going with her haha.

Crazy Doc · Jul 25, 2011

Haven't done the swinger thing, but we've been making efforts to bring another girl into our relationship. We've been talking to 2 for a while. The first one introduced us to the 2nd because she wants to explore with 3 women-fine by me. Both of them are quite interesting and I'm quite confident it will happen within the next couple months. I do agree that it is dangerous to a relationship. However, most relationships are not that stable to begin with. If you have a very solid relationship I think it can work fine, hopefully those aren't "Famous Last Words".

We have several couples that want to swing with us-but neither of us are interested in an additional man in the deal, so we keep declining.

Medicating · Jul 25, 2011

That's really interesting Doc.

You're so lucky you are on the verge of an MFF threesome or even an MFFF threesome! I agree on the extra man front. Watching your girl get fucked by another guy would ruin any mans mindset and would probably end in a fight. I keep trying to convince my ex girlfriend to bring her friend over, but she says that she has no interest in doing anything to a girl. I'd be fine with her riding me and her friend sitting on my face though! She told me about her other friend who loves being facial'd, so now i'll ask her too.

How do you bring up swinging with another couple? Are they close friends or do you just find them online or something?

Crazy Doc · Jul 25, 2011

Yes, we're on adultfriendfinder.com. Been on there for about 5 months. Found one girl, but ultimately neither of us liked her. Attractive, but seemed obnoxious and self centered. The 2 we're talking to now are both attractive personality-wise too to both of us. This whole thing was initiated by my wife, and I was lucky long before this

Sometimes the sun shines on a dog's ass.

Back to your question, we're asking for single women, but couples keep contacting us to swing. That site is a good way to meet people it appears. I have another female friend that has been on it for several years and had lots of success finding what she seeks (clean, unattached sex with men).

SirKyle · Jul 25, 2011

Adultfriendfinder is great for finding horny single guys, no doubt about it.
I didn't hear too many good stories from the single guy perspective though

My take is still that a girl whose genetics are so bad you wouldn't even wanna talk to her in a normal situation can be quite successful on a site like AFF. That's how horny we are

Oh well, I keep dreaming that one day there will be such a place only the other way around.

Medicating · Jul 25, 2011

Yeah, i can understand the girls on adultfriend finder might be a bit...

If i go on there and sign up, i'm in the same boat as all of them. And it's not for 'ugly people with STD's and an supercharged sex drive'. I wouldn't say i have any of those things, so surely there must be others on there who match that?

There's always diamonds in dirt, you just need to look.

Crazy Doc · Jul 25, 2011

The 3 girls we've dealt with are all very attractive and confirmed via web cam. There are definitely real women on there, including hot ones. There are also pros, not so pretty ones and lots of single males. Most attractive female profiles do say "no single men".... But that should indicate they are real if nothing else lol.

And my friend that is on there is very attractive and she does hook up with single men, but she's in another country.

I would point out however, that I've been on many of these sites and so far the others are all mostly or all fake. Fake as in they have employees posing as hot girls, responding to emails and so forth and it could take a while to spot that it's BS. AFF is real though.

Crazy Doc · Jul 25, 2011

Oh ya, and these girls on that site (AFF) have definitely proven to me that I'm looking pretty big due to the comments I've received (or that my wife has gotten when sharing my pics) as a result of showing my cock. They range between shock/fear and obviously impressed. And don't say they are maybe lying, we all know what that sounds like "It's nice." lol.

Medicating · Jul 26, 2011

Haha, probably feared you as you got suck a thick cock mate.

It's all good though. Maybe i'll check out AFF then and have a look around.

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