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stillwantmore
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Just wanted to get a little feedback from some of the other guys who might have been through a similar situation. Here's the deal. I'm currently seeing a girl that's basically the package. She's got all the qualities I could possibly want. Got a great personality, she's pretty, got a lot in common with her, we "click" really well. The only thing is, she's not totally my type body wise. She's about 30lbs overweight. Other than the body weight issue, I like everything else about her so far. Been seeing her for about a month. What's a guy to do? I've come to a point in my life where I pretty much dont settle anymore for less than what I want. I really like this girl, but her weight is really starting to bug me. I sat and thought about it last night. What if the relationship keeps going well, and she either stays at her current weight, or worse yet...we're married a few years from now, she has a kid, blows up even more and stays fat? I'm pretty torn here on what to do. Approach her about this stuff? Kill a potentially great relationship because I'm not totally happy? I've been through mildly similar situations with relationships before but there was never the kind of connection I feel like I have with this girl. What makes it worse is I'm friends with another girl who IS my type body wise: petite body, nice ass, perky tits, nice legs, etc. and we're starting to hit it off, and there could be potential for a relationship with her as well. I dont NEED a woman in my life like some guys do in order to survive, but I'd hate to trash the one relationship in hopes of the other one working out and be totally left in the cold so to speak if neither one worked out.