I was thinkin about gettin one of those things too cuz I read good things about it from like sex toy site reviews etc. As for the shipping, I have no idea, but I would assume it would be discreet, in some type of regular box.
I think it's ILF Inc or something like that. Actually dig around in sexuallity...look for the member posting under "fleshjoe" or something similar, he's a guru on these toys.