what to do? feeli like am not living a great life!

[mano22]

I feel like I been missing out.
Im in my 30's and feel I should have done loads more, had more relationships, sex, earn more money.

Even now Im not really doing great.
Im just ticking over.

What to do to make things better?

 

[savageblue]

Read loads of self-improvement books, dedicate yourself to your own development as a person, make a list of what you don't like about your life and start working on each of those things... there are loads of suggestions one could give you, but they will all be pointless if you don't know where you want to be.

So, what you need to do to start with is make a decision, and stick to it.

It won't be easy, it will be uncomfortable at first, you may have to do some difficult choices, but hey, it is your life and you only have onto live. So don't half-ass it.
It is worth the change.

Now GO FOR IT!

 

[mano22]

thanks

 

[Dashdeming]

I have been blessed with my share of personal success to this point in my life. I started from poor and meager means and a very abusive situation in my childhood. I have managed to overcome all of that using a simple technique. I set goals. I wrote those goals down and then broke each down into small "bite sized pieces" and then I reviewed my goals daily. I still do this. It is a matter of focus. If you want to make your first million by a certain age then write out the plan and find a way around every obstacle and make sure that you get to your goal. If something you are doing is not making acceptable progress towards your goals then change what you are doing. That simple. Do not get caught up in any of the droning modes that 99% of the rest of the world is doing. These people are actually the ones that contribute to making others successful. Be different than that and do for yourself. Set your own destiny and do not let anyone or any thing set it for you. You and no one else is in control of you as a free man. Lastly, age has nothing to do with success. You are never too old or too young. Get off your ass and do it. Dig?

 

[mano22]

so f. true man.

I let myself get caught up in that droning mode.

ahhh!

Now I am aware i can progress.

I still have this feeling of, I wish i was 18 at this moment. I gotta stop that too and just go for my goals.

 

[Turnover]

Listen tons of guys go through what you are going through. You are not alone.

My best advice would be to get into shape. It will change your perspective. If your unhappy you dont have to be. Even though you're 30 there is so much life to live. Today is a new day- Carpe Diem. Buy some new clothes. Get yourself a play station and bust some fresh new moves.

If you're feel self conscious about your penis is doesnt take long to change that. Get informed on the site and you'll be on your way 100%
Good Luck

 

[MAXAMEYES]

Go enlist in the ARMY. Spend the next two years of your life living in a fox-hole you dug into the desert floor. Forget about hot showers, forget about nutritious meals, forget about heat in the cold or cooling in the heat. Get shot at every day; not to mention mortars IED's and the occasional suicide bomber.

Then come on back home and live like most Westerners do. And if you're still so self absorbed as to whine about the opportunities you've chosen to miss in your life then you can re-up and repeat the experience until you can quit whining and truly appreciate the life all around you.

I feel like I been missing out.
Im in my 30's and feel I should have done loads more, had more relationships, sex, earn more money.

Even now Im not really doing great.
Im just ticking over.

What to do to make things better?

 

[DLD]

It all starts with the reflection of self and it is momentous in the reflection of those you surround yourself with.

 

[savageblue]

Success lecturers and professionals usually say that, where you're at today, is a result of your decisions in the past 5 years.

Focus on where you want to be in 5 years from today and make the changes you need to make.
Start with small changes in your routine.
Like Dashdeming said, make a list (or several lists, for that matter) and work from there.

You'll make it

 

[stillwantmore]

I've been to ''motivational'' seminars hosted by some of the biggest names in the field: Tony Robbins, Tom Hopkins, Jim Rohn, John Maxwell. It all basically boils down to not focusing on what you HAVE done in your life and not being a reactive person. In other words, focus on the positive you have accomplished, and where you ARE going. Also, learn to be adaptive. Rather than saying for example ''Who moved my cheese?'' Learn to think, ''ok my cheese got moved...I'm gonna go find some NEW cheese.'' Goofy example, but it's a great correlation to how most people handle life. Most dwell on where they are now, how miserable their life supposedly is, and how things will probably just always be that way because that's what they are worth.

I'm 32. I've been a great son, a great friend, I'm a great husband, I've coached several dozen men directly to bigger penises (and happier lives) and probably helped thousands of others indirectly, I've served my country, and now I'm back in school getting ready to go into a career that will help me grow even more and give back to society as well. I'll also be making more $$ than I've ever made.

Now, I have had multiple obstacles along the way. I could focus on ideas like ''gosh I'm so far behind...most people my age already have kids, a house, make at least average income...bla bla bla...poor me.''

Besides that, I've already made most of the mistakes most people make in life and in relationships. I got married way too young, got divorced, worked odd..dead end jobs for years, broke lots of girls hearts along the way, went through several downright shitty relationships, have been a total asshole to some people, have been around $30,000 in debt, and so on.

BUT, I'm focused on the good things I've done and am continuing to do in my life instead. Winners keep pushing forward and re inventing themselves until they find the right path.

 

[Costanza]

Thats some terrific advice from stillwantmore2.

To Mano22, keep focused on your goals in life and believe in yourself as an individual. Don't let others or even yourself make you lose faith in who you are and who you want to be.

Good luck man.