Sex after hysterectomy?

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cladre60

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Anyone had/have a partner who's undergone a partial or total hysterectomy? A partial would leave the cervix intact but a full removes even the cervix.

Would that remove the anterior and posterior fornixs? Or would it make them easier to hit? This is assuming they don't remove the upper portion of the vagina (I belive that's called a radical hysterectomy).

I'm curious about this.
 
I have not experienced intercourse with a woman that's had a hysterectomy, but it involves removing the uterus, tubes, ovaries and sometimes the cervix. This leaves the vagina completely intact and undisturbed...less the fact that the hormones for arousal stem from the parts taken. She'll need to replace them chemically which is an iffy proposition at best
 
Yeah they can remove a lot depending on what all needs done. You would think if they went from cervix "up" that the 2 fornixes would basically be right there and could be simulated at the same time. That's what I'd guess but I have no clue.

The hormone thing is the same as menopause. I know they can control it with meds though to help a woman stay sexually active. It's far more "instant" than menopause.
 
cladre60;763019 said:
Yeah they can remove a lot depending on what all needs done. You would think if they went from cervix "up" that the 2 fornixes would basically be right there and could be simulated at the same time. That's what I'd guess but I have no clue.

The hormone thing is the same as menopause. I know they can control it with meds though to help a woman stay sexually active. It's far more "instant" than menopause.
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picture the vagina and cervix/uterus/ovaries as two separate entities. as the vagina becomes aroused it will lubricate and elongate to accommodate the penis, and the cervix will (hopefully) retract a bit so it doesn't protrude into the vaginal canal as much. Once coitus is complete, the vagina returns to it's previous shape. Now here's where the 'magic' happens, when a woman achieves an orgasm, the mouth of the cervix contracts/spasms and this motion acts as a suction in the newly deposited sperm to facilitate conception...truly amazing. This isn't to say that a woman must orgasm to get pregnant, it's just easier. This possibly could be a part of the 'natural selection' process where she 'knows' this is the 'right' partner for her
 
Big Schwanz Acht;763021 said:
picture the vagina and cervix/uterus/ovaries as two separate entities. as the vagina becomes aroused it will lubricate and elongate to accommodate the penis, and the cervix will (hopefully) retract a bit so it doesn't protrude into the vaginal canal as much. Once coitus is complete, the vagina returns to it's previous shape. Now here's where the 'magic' happens, when a woman achieves an orgasm, the mouth of the cervix contracts/spasms and this motion acts as a suction in the newly deposited sperm to facilitate conception...truly amazing. This isn't to say that a woman must orgasm to get pregnant, it's just easier. This possibly could be a part of the 'natural selection' process where she 'knows' this is the 'right' partner for her
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In addition to the cervix letting sperm in the upper 1/3 of the vagina will become larger in diameter to better hold the man's ejaculation.

I know more about the vagina than most women. Chalk it up to an obsession with it and I really paid attention in the Human Sexuality course I took in college.
 
cladre60;763013 said:
If this is in the wrong sub forum feel free to move it.

Anyone had/have a partner who's undergone a partial or total hysterectomy? A partial would leave the cervix intact but a full removes even the cervix.

Would that remove the anterior and posterior fornixs? Or would it make them easier to hit? This is assuming they don't remove the upper portion of the vagina (I belive that's called a radical hysterectomy).

I'm curious about this.
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I don't know much about this topic, all I know is that total hysterectomy is the removal of the Uterus. But what will prompt such removal?
 
huge-girth;763043 said:
I don't know much about this topic, all I know is that total hysterectomy is the removal of the Uterus. But what will prompt such removal?
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Cervical cancer. There's a few others but I forget them.
 
cladre60;763098 said:
Cervical cancer. There's a few others but I forget them.
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Sometimes the Uterus simply falls and causes complications, this is another reason it is removed.
 
huge-girth;763206 said:
This is scary ?:(
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Not really. The alternative is a woman who's constantly in pain or dead if she needs a hysterectomy and doesn't get one. If you're with someone you love and in that position you do what's best.

All women will go through menopause eventually. A hysterectomy forces it since the ovaries are removed immediately, not slowly shutting down over time. With the right hormone therapy a woman can continue feeling normal and healthy (and some need it during menopause).

With the wide variety of people here I thought maybe someone had experience with this.
 
cladre60;763251 said:
Not really. The alternative is a woman who's constantly in pain or dead if she needs a hysterectomy and doesn't get one. If you're with someone you love and in that position you do what's best.

All women will go through menopause eventually. A hysterectomy forces it since the ovaries are removed immediately, not slowly shutting down over time. With the right hormone therapy a woman can continue feeling normal and healthy (and some need it during menopause).

With the wide variety of people here I thought maybe someone had experience with this.
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Being in pains is not a good thing. It would be wise to allow a lady you are with to do this removal stuff if you truly love her. I get your point. Just haven't heard of this before.
 
huge-girth;763281 said:
Being in pains is not a good thing. It would be wise to allow a lady you are with to do this removal stuff if you truly love her. I get your point. Just haven't heard of this before.
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It's a radical last resort many times to solve problems.
 
huge-girth;763737 said:
You call them the woman?
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it's supposed to be a joke, but I'm sure something gets 'lost in translation'. all it boils-down to is that the only 'useful' part of a woman is her vagina and the rest is just skin (clearly not very funny when explained in this manner).
 
Big Schwanz Acht;763760 said:
it's supposed to be a joke, but I'm sure something gets 'lost in translation'. all it boils-down to is that the only 'useful' part of a woman is her vagina and the rest is just skin (clearly not very funny when explained in this manner).
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Why are the vagina and asshole so close together?


So you can pick up women like a 6 pack.


I told that to a girlfriend once. She was completely grossed out lol.
 
Big Schwanz Acht;763760 said:
it's supposed to be a joke, but I'm sure something gets 'lost in translation'. all it boils-down to is that the only 'useful' part of a woman is her vagina and the rest is just skin (clearly not very funny when explained in this manner).
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Now I understand :)
 
Big Schwanz Acht;763811 said:
why do women have legs?



if they didn't, they'd leave a trail like a slug
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eeeeewwwyyy :) That is so dirty :)
 
cladre60;764019 said:
It would be if it weren't for the legs.



Where's the clitoris?


WHO CARES! lol
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lol :) True. I guess it also depends on the trail they leave, fishy or fresh :)
 
doublelongdaddy;764092 said:
lol :) True. I guess it also depends on the trail they leave, fishy or fresh :)
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I just don't like them dried out.



What did the blind man say when he got lost and ended up at the fish market?


HELLO LADIES!
 
cladre60;764125 said:
I just don't like them dried out.



What did the blind man say when he got lost and ended up at the fish market?


HELLO LADIES!
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LMAO, that is the smell, just leave it in the sun for about a day and then get a good whiff! I was once with a girl that smelled like rotted crab, another that smelled like straight up shit. Jen was really one of the only girls I was with that never stunk.
 
doublelongdaddy;764246 said:
LMAO, that is the smell, just leave it in the sun for about a day and then get a good whiff! I was once with a girl that smelled like rotted crab, another that smelled like straight up shit. Jen was really one of the only girls I was with that never stunk.
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Most of the ones I've been with haven't smelled or the smell was totally fine. The ones that smelled bad though really smelled bad. Hard up wipe that from your mind.

1 in particular seemed to have a stronger smell the first time I had sex with her but it was okay. The next time I went down on her it was straight up garbage can. Still I cut her a break and thought maybe cause it was over 90 degrees that day she was just in need of a shower. Got with her again, got her in the shower, when we got out I went down on her cause she asked me to....

Faint garbage can smell. Not even fishy, it was garbage. Still fucked her cause I was horny and desperate but damn I did not want to get my nose near that pussy ever again.

Thing is women like that have put me off from going down on a woman thinking the next one will smell. For years I rarely went down on my wife thinking she might smell bad. She flat out asked me once if she smelled so I told her I had some bad experiences with other women. I made it a point to go down on her that night and realized what I had been missing.
 
cladre60;764292 said:
Most of the ones I've been with haven't smelled or the smell was totally fine. The ones that smelled bad though really smelled bad. Hard up wipe that from your mind.

1 in particular seemed to have a stronger smell the first time I had sex with her but it was okay. The next time I went down on her it was straight up garbage can. Still I cut her a break and thought maybe cause it was over 90 degrees that day she was just in need of a shower. Got with her again, got her in the shower, when we got out I went down on her cause she asked me to....

Faint garbage can smell. Not even fishy, it was garbage. Still fucked her cause I was horny and desperate but damn I did not want to get my nose near that pussy ever again.

Thing is women like that have put me off from going down on a woman thinking the next one will smell. For years I rarely went down on my wife thinking she might smell bad. She flat out asked me once if she smelled so I told her I had some bad experiences with other women. I made it a point to go down on her that night and realized what I had been missing.
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Some women are like that. They smell no matter how hard they shower. But I believe there is a solution for those type.
 
huge-girth;764332 said:
Some women are like that. They smell no matter how hard they shower. But I believe there is a solution for those type.
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It could simply be a bacterial infection or an STD. It happens and I don't think many women smell themselves.
 
I need a new dishwasher and having a hard time deciding which brand to get. Should I go with the 5'2" blonde with big tits or the 5'4" brunette with the amazing ass?
 
huge-girth;764446 said:
Who knows, my ex might have faked it every time.
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I don't think any women I've been with have faked orgasms but I really don't care.


Out of all the women I've been with the smartest thing that's ever come out of their mouth is my dick.
 
cladre60;764460 said:
I don't think any women I've been with have faked orgasms but I really don't care.


Out of all the women I've been with the smartest thing that's ever come out of their mouth is my dick.
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lol That is some funny shit!
 
cladre60;764460 said:
I don't think any women I've been with have faked orgasms but I really don't care.


Out of all the women I've been with the smartest thing that's ever come out of their mouth is my dick.
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I'm just guessing maybe she does. As a means to make me feel accomplished and cum quick.
 
cladre60;764507 said:
To be fair, what do you call a man who can't get an erection?



Brain dead.
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lol

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huge-girth;764565 said:
I'm just guessing maybe she does. As a means to make me feel accomplished and cum quick.
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I'm sure some women do that. I've been told to go ahead and finish before because the woman was getting sore or was simply worn out and didn't think she could have another orgasm.

Others may not have strong orgasms so it may be harder for you to know.

Worst case is she's bored and wants it to be over. You can usually tell when a woman is doing that. Their tone of voice and how they're responding physically let's you know before they say it.
 
cladre60;764628 said:
I'm sure some women do that. I've been told to go ahead and finish before because the woman was getting sore or was simply worn out and didn't think she could have another orgasm.

Others may not have strong orgasms so it may be harder for you to know.

Worst case is she's bored and wants it to be over. You can usually tell when a woman is doing that. Their tone of voice and how they're responding physically let's you know before they say it.
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But on a second note, she might not have faked it because she was always wet during sex.
 
cladre60;764628 said:
I'm sure some women do that. I've been told to go ahead and finish before because the woman was getting sore or was simply worn out and didn't think she could have another orgasm.

Others may not have strong orgasms so it may be harder for you to know.

Worst case is she's bored and wants it to be over. You can usually tell when a woman is doing that. Their tone of voice and how they're responding physically let's you know before they say it.
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Yup they do all of the above.
 
huge-girth;764646 said:
But on a second note, she might not have faked it because she was always wet during sex.
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I've been with a few women who claimed they couldn't orgasm and they were always wet. Women being wet is just like men being erect.
 
cladre60;764724 said:
I've been with a few women who claimed they couldn't orgasm and they were always wet. Women being wet is just like men being erect.
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She must have faked it.
 
doublelongdaddy;764863 said:
I could tell when they faked, it never bothered me.
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As I told one woman who's ex never gave her an orgasm - it's your own fault for faking them instead of guiding him and telling him what to do to get you off. She had zero issues with me so it wasn't that she had a hard time achieving an orgasm, she simply didn't want to speak up for her own pleasure.
 
It's kinda funny how, as men, we're in charge of our orgasm and theirs. And the way you can tell is to be acutely aware of how she moves and positions herself...every woman is different, so you just have to put-in the time/effort to get to know her body. You could ask her what feels good, but then you'd open yourself up to being a guy that just doesn't 'get it', so understanding how a woman's body works is step one then understanding how her mind works is step 2,3,4,5,6,7,8,.............................................................................
 
huge-girth;764967 said:
How will I be able to tell?
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They're all so different and each woman can have different types of orgasms. What I've noticed apples 90% of the time is their entire body will get stiff. That's kind of hard to fake.

I've been told when an orgasm wasn't as strong as "normal." It happens. Really though you've got to either be extremely keen or trust her.
 
huge-girth;764967 said:
How will I be able to tell?
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The ultimate test is the squirt test :) If you make her squirt she just came! :)
 
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