Proud grower never wants to be a shower

REDZULU2003 said:
But a percentage wouldn't want it showing [bulging] in the pants so everyone could see it.
That to me is creepy, as I stated earlier on, but each to there own.
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You're not alone there! I think A LOT of people would find that creepy just out on the street. What interests me in this discussion is the social double-standard.

For instance, how is a bulge in the pants different than a bulge in a woman's shirt? She could strap her chest down to prevent the bulge in her shirt. Hell, women can buy padded bras specifically to create a bulge, and if they've got the cleavage to show they'll often do so! A bulge in the pants is MORE modest than that. :)

A lot of issues are being rolled around in this conversation, and I think we may all be talking past each other to some extent. I won't speak for Enrik, but I personally would think differently of a dude dressing to bulge at the club vs dressing to bulge just out and about. (See? I'm part of the double standard too! :D)
 
Lightning said:
This is like me, i'm a grower and my wife knows it grows , so I really don't worry about it much.
I guess if you are young and out looking for young women, they may be impressed so you would have more of a chance if they are not so attacted to your looks.
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Or maybe it's guys who think they have a small flaccid like me that thinks having a huge one is like being in paradise, haha.
 
Lightning said:
This is like me, i'm a grower and my wife knows it grows , so I really don't worry about it much.
I guess if you are young and out looking for young women, they may be impressed so you would have more of a chance if they are not so attacted to your looks.
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How young 15 to 19? That's 2% of the registered members on PE forums.
This age is gaining without PE in that age and nearly thinking about joining PE on that age either.

So I'm sure I'm talking about 25+ men. And that's why I said disgusting thoughts.

I'm not disgusted when they are little boys, so it's true what you've said. But not in context of this thread
MCBLZ said:
Flaccid hang can be so variable. But I will say on those days post BM / LM heavy workout, there is a psychological bump when your dick feels and looks bigger than the day before, Maybe this is a function of the fact that I assumed I had a "small" dick for 30 years when in fact I as slightly above average. But for me, a heavy flaccid makes a difference to ME...
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I understand. And there is nothing wrong with a big flaccid.

But the question is would you show it of on the streets and make a buldge out of it?
REDZULU2003 said:
Some guys like how it makes them feel, gives them a perception of more confidence knowing that a larger hang bulging through clothing and being seen by women will make them feel good.

I have been there, but now have grown up. (like)

Its true what you say, others could see the bulge or shape through clothing, which is kinda disgusting really. I had never thought about it like that before.

Something I do know for a fact, is, just because a woman looks at a mans bulge, doesn't mean she is interested or even attracted by it. I remember seeing some what I can only refer to as a pervert on YouTube going around his daily life with some fake penis in his pants, and a hidden camera to record the public [female] reactions to it.

You got women looking at it, smiling to each other, laughing, some looked uncomfortable that were sat opposite to him. This isn't attraction, its embarrassment and not knowing what to do in the situation.

Some guys just adore allot of power and control, this is just another method of getting it.

A time and a place exists for this, like if you were flirting properly with a female, not sat on a train in full view of folk. Just plain creepy if you ask me.

A grower will give more a surprise then the shower if you think about it.
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Hahaha I've seen the YouTube movies to! HAHAHA I was thinking about it (because of the views) to just hold something in my hand (maybe a cute teddybeer and play with it) so there eyes will always look nicely hahahhaha

Wtf men maybe they did it this way haha that's why we never see if a men would look at him


Well, I will look at him constantly if he got something funny there and the whole world would think I'm lurking at his buldge because the title said so ?

Go out there make some money with yt guys!!!
 
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Brawn Johnson said:
You're not alone there! I think A LOT of people would find that creepy just out on the street. What interests me in this discussion is the social double-standard.

For instance, how is a bulge in the pants different than a bulge in a woman's shirt? She could strap her chest down to prevent the bulge in her shirt. Hell, women can buy padded bras specifically to create a bulge, and if they've got the cleavage to show they'll often do so! A bulge in the pants is MORE modest than that. :)

A lot of issues are being rolled around in this conversation, and I think we may all be talking past each other to some extent. I won't speak for Enrik, but I personally would think differently of a dude dressing to bulge at the club vs dressing to bulge just out and about. (See? I'm part of the double standard too! :D)
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Just personal opinion, everyone entitled to what they think. I don t see the point in showing it off like that in public, as I said in this thread, if in a club flirting with a girl then yeah its different, but out and about it is gross.

In comparison to a woman, I don t see the similarity myself. The woman breast is a gland, its not genitalia like the penis, so of course its not as intimate.

Again, each to there own but in some cultures it will be highly offensive to go around in set way.
 
Brawn Johnson said:
Wait... did anyone else notice my posts -- and enrik's replies to my posts -- disappear from this thread? I posted, Enrik and I had a brief back-and-forth, and I was just writing my next reply when I noticed half the thread was gone? Enrik? Anyone?
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What time about? We deleted allot of old PMs in a folder (about 17,500) but they weren't posts. We have a back up though.
 
Brawn Johnson said:
I think that is how sexual attraction works, yes. Read many studies saying women prefer large flaccid penis so have no reason to think otherwise. Immature, I don't see why?

Here you go my man, "
How important is penis size?

Authors from the Australian National University, Monash and La Trobe provide the most complete answer yet: the size of a flaccid penis can significantly affect how attractive a man’s body is to women.

"

source: http://theconversation.com/penis-size-may-be-driven-by-women-oh-and-it-matters-12875
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Contant of that research is a picture with three men. And they did manipulation of the torso (better waistline etc) so they picked the third person

Or do you think if they gave the little small chubbylike guy at the right, the flaccid of the third guy, Al the woman would have picked the guy at the right? hahahah come on dude that's not how you do proper research to search for research ?

And again that's not the picture we're looking for. It's the other picture on the streets ??

So again nothing to do with the research. The second pic has to do with it
 
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FullBloodArab said:
Contant of that research is a picture with three men. And they did manipulation of the torso (better waistline etc) so they picked the third person

Or do you think if they gave the little small chubbylike guy at the right, the flaccid of the third guy, Al the woman would have picked the guy at the right? hahahah come on dude that's not how you do proper research to search for research ?

And again that's not the picture we're looking for. It's the other picture on the streets ??

So again nothing to do with the research. The second pic has to do with it
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Guy looks like somewhat normal sized flaccid and oversized balls in extremely creepy pants.
 
Lightning said:
What time about? We deleted allot of old PMs in a folder (about 17,500) but they weren't posts. We have a back up though.
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Judging from the post time stamps, some time between 9:42 and 10:34. Probably after 10:00am as I recall. (To narrow it down a little bit). Don't worry about me, though. When I make larger posts in forums, I usually write them in a text file as I go so they're backed up in case something goes wrong. :)
 
FullBloodArab said:
Contant of that research is a picture with three men. And they did manipulation of the torso (better waistline etc) so they picked the third person

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For the record, the quoted post is Enrik's. :)

I was very confused about this point of the study when I first read the article. The author does a poor job of explaining it, and only shows the three pictures, so it seems like respondents were only shown those three pictures (where larger flaccid is also a taller person with broader shoulders). In reality the respondents saw many pictures, with all combinations of the three variables (flaccid hang size, shoulder width, and height).

The designers of the study were worried that respondents wouldn't be honest about their answers if they knew they were really rating penis size, so they just wanted to use height and torso shape to distract from the flaccid hang size.

The author really could have explained it better, and shown more pictures to make the point. :P
 
The fastest way to being a show or is by simply doing the testicle else massage and stretch every single day. Add your Phallosan to the mix and you’ll soon realize your flaccid length is almost as long as your erect length.

Keeping things on point
 
i saw the perfect penis video in the media section where you show how to jelq , i can see you were on some long manual stretching journey , i am wrong
 
Wintergates said:
i saw the perfect penis video in the media section where you show how to jelq , i can see you were on some long manual stretching journey , i am wrong
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At that point I was mainly doing my stretching with a power assist and my hands. All girth work was done hand.
 
Wintergates said:
Have you been a shower all the time
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Yes most of my life but as I get older I turtle more. So it’s very important for me to remain consistent in doing maintenance work keep everything in check
 
At first i thought your flaccid was due to manual stretch then i realized you were a shower , as a grower myself what do you think , who tends to be more successful in PE , growers or showers or isnt relevant
 
Wintergates said:
At first i thought your flaccid was due to manual stretch then i realized you were a shower , as a grower myself what do you think , who tends to be more successful in PE , growers or showers or isnt relevant
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There really hasn’t ever been a comparison thread or poll to verify in some way. My personal experience is most men are growers and with PE many become showers. As far as who grows fastest it’s going to be the guy who works hardest. But I can make a routine for anyone who is a grower could make them become a shower.
 
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