Not all girls think the same

[PR69]

I had a conversation with my GF about how she talks with her girl at work about sex stories. For starters i think i do okay when it comes to sex, don't cum too early but don't last forever, but us as guys always want to last forever. She was telling me that her girl's man (in his 40's) sometimes doesn't cum and stays hard and it makes the girl feel bad about her self in a way and makes her feel like she can't get him off. Goes to show that lasting forever or not coming isn't always the best thing. Some girls would rather see us bust and enjoy sex as much as they do.

Just trying to remind you guys not to kill ourselves over worries of sexual performance and things along the lines. Life and relationships should be fun and enjoyable, Safe Penis Enlargementing guys

 

[Alpha Effusion]

For whatever reason I can last forever in bed if I want. Sometimes I go so long that I can't even cum like you mentioned and yes my GF does feel bad about it, she cried a few times. It's like if I don't finish within the first 10-15 minutes it is impossible to finish.

And most ladies only like it to last about 5-20 minutes anyways.

 

[goinfor11x7]

Yeah, my wife gets upset (after 40 some years together) if I don't cum. I too can put it off forever and that is not a good thing. We tend to generalize about the way women think and it's silly. As differently as they are wired compared to men, each woman is also wired differently. Some like a guy to go on and on--they can't get enough--others are ready to call it quits after twenty minutes. My Mrs. is just getting warmed up after about 20 minutes, though.

 

[homelesswombat]

Hmm, it's funny how when the tables are turned it's like everyone forgets everything they've experienced. Funny how when a guy can't make a girl orgasm and he gets bent out of shape, can't seem to understand what he's so stressed out about. Then when the guy can't cum they get all stressed out themselves, like something is wrong with themselves or their beauty.

What lesson can we take? Guys: When your girl can't orgasm, it's likely not your problem. Just like when a man can't come, it has almost nothing to do with if the girl. Some people just cum easier than others.

 

[Alpha Effusion]

Hmm, it's funny how when the tables are turned it's like everyone forgets everything they've experienced. Funny how when a guy can't make a girl orgasm and he gets bent out of shape, can't seem to understand what he's so stressed out about. Then when the guy can't cum they get all stressed out themselves, like something is wrong with themselves or their beauty.

What lesson can we take? Guys: When your girl can't orgasm, it's likely not your problem. Just like when a man can't come, it has almost nothing to do with if the girl. Some people just cum easier than others.

Well sometimes the guy just isn't doing it right

 

[sasquatch]

If I don't cum within the first 10 minutes or so and really try to hold it back, that usually ruins it for me and her. I'll end up going limp without ever cumming and that totally makes a woman feel like shit.
Many of us here obsess so much about our penis's and the sex act that we have lost touch with the reality of being in the moment during sex. The sharing, the coupling, the passion is all lost while we are so focused on our damn dink that sometime we forget that we are'nt alone.

 

[PR69]

If I don't cum within the first 10 minutes or so and really try to hold it back, that usually ruins it for me and her. I'll end up going limp without ever cumming and that totally makes a woman feel like shit.
Many of us here obsess so much about our penis's and the sex act that we have lost touch with the reality of being in the moment during sex. The sharing, the coupling, the passion is all lost while we are so focused on our damn dink that sometime we forget that we are'nt alone.

So true

 

[goinfor11x7]

Hmm, it's funny how when the tables are turned it's like everyone forgets everything they've experienced. Funny how when a guy can't make a girl orgasm and he gets bent out of shape, can't seem to understand what he's so stressed out about. Then when the guy can't cum they get all stressed out themselves, like something is wrong with themselves or their beauty.
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What lesson can we take? Guys: When your girl can't orgasm, it's likely not your problem. Just like when a man can't come, it has almost nothing to do with if the girl. Some people just cum easier than others.

I agree. It has all to do with how YOU are wired, not the other person. The chemistry is just not that simple, whatever the relationship.

 

[homelesswombat]

Well sometimes the guy just isn't doing it right

True. If so, she should tell him what to do. Communication, communication, communication. Guess what? Sometimes the guy doesn't know he's not doing it how she likes. If she wants something different she better pipe up.

 

[DLD]

When Jen came home I thought I would bust off immediately but I guess all of my Kegels and Reverse Kegels had a good impact on me sexually. I can basically go as long as I want and I cum when I decided to.

 

[Asanon]

Well sometimes the guy just isn't doing it right

Agreed, rofl there are a lot of incompetent, or just selfish, people out there...

Sometimes though, "right" is a variable target. If you get some gal who's never orgasmed, or never orgasmed with a man, you really have to bulldoze them into it. They don't understand their own body, or have major trust issues, so that get's to be our job -- yay.

But then you get to be "the one". ....

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[TheBurner]

I've experienced both sides of this, but Penis Enlargementing has fixed the problems. There would be times when my girlfriend and I would have sex and I wouldn't be able to make her cum even though I was doing what she said she liked and that it felt good. After like 10-15 min she wouldn't be cumming and so I'd psych myself out into thinking I couldn't make her cum. Meanwhile, it more likely had to do with her stress level or anxiety about other issues.

Same with me. I graduated from college in May and had a tough time finding a job at first, which hurt my sex life. We would have sex and I would go limp after like 25 minutes. Even though she would cum a lot and that was almost good enough for me, to be honest, she thought I wasn't attracted to her.

 

[HairHormoneExpe]

Every had trouble cumming while masterbating? Most of the time it is easy, sometimes it is hard. Well, sex can be the same way, only then it makes the other person doubt themselves.

If a woman is not arroused, she won't want you lasting forever because it feels like a jack hammer. She just wants you to get it over with. But if she is arroused and orgasming, then she wants you to last longer. 5 to 20 minutes is all you really need. 5 if you get her really aroused, 20 if it takes time or if she is doing some multiple orgasm marithon.

 

[HairHormoneExpe]

Another way to make her cum sooner is to build some muscle and lose some fat. If you look or feel athletic, it will get her aroused and make her cum faster. Another way is to be creative about how you initiate sex. It is all about the context. The right context can turn her on more. Lots of games get them in the mood. Ultimately, you do have to last long enough and move right and have some size, but before any of that can even work you got to arrouse her with other stuff which is in your control.

 

[Alpha Effusion]

Another way to make her cum sooner is to build some muscle and lose some fat. If you look or feel athletic, it will get her aroused and make her cum faster. Another way is to be creative about how you initiate sex. It is all about the context. The right context can turn her on more. Lots of games get them in the mood. Ultimately, you do have to last long enough and move right and have some size, but before any of that can even work you got to arrouse her with other stuff which is in your control.

What sort of games? I usually just toss her on the bed/couch and slide the thong to the side. Blessed to have a girl that refuses to wear normal panties.

 

[antlovesteph]

What is the main secret to lasting forever?
and what techniques are the best?

 

[Futaba]

I find that a nice baggy pussy, the kind thats given birth to 7 children works well for lasting forever... and as for the technique, doggy styles always a winner as you can be looking around, or at the TV whilst your shafting her.

Hope this helps