need some mental suport

[byakugan2]

hey guys i saw my exgirl friend yesterday with her new boyfriend. we are for 1, 5 years apart now , but still i felt like shit and i couldnt stop to compare him with him, is he better looking, does he has a bigger penis etc. how do you guys overcome things like that, considering that iam a person with a very very low self esteem (cause of penis size). dont know who to talk to, but [words=http://www.mattersofsize.com/join-now.html]MOS[/words] always kinda helped with this kind of problems.

thx

 

[Alpha Effusion]

Hey man you fucked her first, so every time he kisses her he might as well be sucking your dick. That should cheer you up.

 

[longhorns87]

I often thought about that too when My ex and I broke up. It is a self esteem issue. You just had to realize you are better off.

 

[tef1]

hey guys i saw my exgirl friend yesterday with her new boyfriend. we are for 1, 5 years apart now , but still i felt like shit and i couldnt stop to compare him with him, is he better looking, does he has a bigger penis etc. how do you guys overcome things like that, considering that iam a person with a very very low self esteem (cause of penis size). dont know who to talk to, but [words=http://www.mattersofsize.com/join-now.html]MOS[/words] always kinda helped with this kind of problems.

thx

It's only natural to have those kind of thoughts in that situation. Don't let it get you down, use it for motivation for your Penis Enlargement and other areas of your life. Living well is the best revenge.

 

[DLD]

I can understand what you are going through but making assumptions will only prove to bring you further down. The point is you don't know what she is thinking. You have no idea about this guys size and reading into it will not help. You need to decide if you want to let her go or remain in love. Remaining in love is not easy when she is with another. This does not mean that you will never be with her, it only means you need to accept the way things are now. Jen was gone for 3 years, came back and now she is back out. I am dedicated to her so I will wait. In doing this I realize I have to live with my emotions and be as rational as I can. Reading into the sexuality part of it is futile.

 

[Alpha Effusion]

I can understand what you are going through but making assumptions will only prove to bring you further down. The point is you don't know what she is thinking. You have no idea about this guys size and reading into it will not help. You need to decide if you want to let her go or remain in love. Remaining in love is not easy when she is with another. This does not mean that you will never be with her, it only means you need to accept the way things are now. Jen was gone for 3 years, came back and now she is back out. I am dedicated to her so I will wait. In doing this I realize I have to live with my emotions and be as rational as I can. Reading into the sexuality part of it is futile.

DLD I have an extremely similar situation. My gorgeous girl left me for about a year because I was well, let's face it, an abusive dick. I went to therapy and ended up getting her back and things are better than ever. Sometimes things do work out for the best if you stay persistent and motivated.

 

[byakugan2]

similiar to my situation. she left me 1,5 years ago, cause she felt that i was kinda a burden, she cried often cause of my and my hurtful jokes and that i made out with another girl for 1 time.after she left me she said she cried for 1 week, but after a month she felt so relieved so refreshed that she new she will never want to be with me again.now after 1,5 years she started the usual BS like she is to good looking for me etc, but deep down i now many tears she loose cause of me.the new guy looks like a "nice guy" you know what i mean, a guy who would be the perfect gentlement, be always at her side wont argue with her etc. kinda different to me , iam a nice guy too of course, but we argued also alot, when i had a very different opinion to things than her

 

[Alpha Effusion]

similiar to my situation. she left me 1,5 years ago, cause she felt that i was kinda a burden, she cried often cause of my and my hurtful jokes and that i made out with another girl for 1 time.after she left me she said she cried for 1 week, but after a month she felt so relieved so refreshed that she new she will never want to be with me again.now after 1,5 years she started the usual BS like she is to good looking for me etc, but deep down i now many tears she loose cause of me.the new guy looks like a "nice guy" you know what i mean, a guy who would be the perfect gentlement, be always at her side wont argue with her etc. kinda different to me , iam a nice guy too of course, but we argued also alot, when i had a very different opinion to things than her

Well if you are right about this "nice guy", it doesn't sound like she will be with him very long. Unfortunately, modern women don't want a perfect gentleman, who is afraid to argue with them. So be there to scoop her up when she dumps him, if that is your goal.

If you really want her back you need to start acting like you don't care what she is doing. Make yourself busy, be seen with other, more attractive women. You need to demonstrate that you have a higher value than her, and by being heartbroken and not moving on you you aren't. She will come crawling back, believe me.

 

[DLD]

Be happy now. Act as if you have her now. Be diligent and practice positive visualization. ANything you want you can have, you only need believe it.

 

[byakugan2]

so you really believe this. to visulaize things. kinda "the secret" method. i dont really know man, iam kinda depressed for a year now, i had no fulfiling sex since my ex left me .i.e. i dont even have the urge to have sex or meet women. idont wanna go to psychiatrist cause of that ( by the way they are damn exepnsive) so should ido?. I came to Pe cause of al that shit, but i cant stick to it, thats why i have no gains there to. so how can you get anything you want just by visualizing it, its impossible cause everybody would walk around with millions on their bankaccounts and with their dream partner

 

[Alpha Effusion]

You need to be a man and take control of your life. Stop fretting over some girl you aren't with anymore, she is out running around, why shouldn't you be? It is all in your head and you need to be the one to fix it.

 

[Alpha Effusion]

so you really believe this. to visulaize things. kinda "the secret" method. i dont really know man, iam kinda depressed for a year now, i had no fulfiling sex since my ex left me .i.e. i dont even have the urge to have sex or meet women. idont wanna go to psychiatrist cause of that ( by the way they are damn exepnsive) so should ido?. I came to Pe cause of al that shit, but i cant stick to it, thats why i have no gains there to. so how can you get anything you want just by visualizing it, its impossible cause everybody would walk around with millions on their bankaccounts and with their dream partner

It's simple. Most people don't visualize and do the hard work, that is why everyone isn't a millionaire. It isn't easy, but you can do ANYTHING if you put your mind to it. The fact is, most are too lazy to do it.

 

[DLD]

It's simple. Most people don't visualize and do the hard work, that is why everyone isn't a millionaire. It isn't easy, but you can do ANYTHING if you put your mind to it. The fact is, most are too lazy to do it.

When we want something in life we need to not only visualize what we want but be able to see it as if it is already here. What will bring the great attraction of your desire is FEELING like you already have it. In many cases you really need to do nothing but believe, visualize and feel as if it has happened, the universe will do the rest. If there is work involved it will be inspired. It will not feel like work at all.

 

[byakugan2]

does thisstuff really work for you guys? does this mean if i visualize that my penis is fine and chiks like it that in reality i will be a happier man with no problems with the chicks? you know it kinda sounds kinky ...

 

[Alpha Effusion]

does thisstuff really work for you guys? does this mean if i visualize that my penis is fine and chiks like it that in reality i will be a happier man with no problems with the chicks? you know it kinda sounds kinky ...

Whether or not the visualization alone will actually increase your penis size I doubt. What I think happens is that visualization improves your overall mood and from that you will attack Penis Enlargement with a new vigor and have more confidence overall, especially with the ladies.

Say a guy with a 5"x4" dick walks in to a room thinking "I am going to rock this girls world", confident as hell. Now a guy with a 6.5"x5" walks into the same girls room, different night, feeling all pathetic about his dick and worried about performance. Which guy do you think the girl is going to remember?

It is all about confidence; women can really sense it, like blood to a shark.

 

[byakugan2]

man i really love you guys . although iam not very much constiten in Penis Enlargement this forum rock just for the good advices men give each other. I fell much more confident in my skin, although iam "only" average. maybe you guys are right, maybe its just in my head, i have to put my mind into it and everything will be ok. i kinda fell now just like i watched the movie "swingers" with vince vaughn.

Thx again guys, if you have more tips just pust them here, iam just 22 but you can feel how you guys have some live experience

 

[Alpha Effusion]

This is kind of a man support forum haha

 

[DLD]

man i really love you guys . although iam not very much constiten in Penis Enlargement this forum rock just for the good advices men give each other. I fell much more confident in my skin, although iam "only" average. maybe you guys are right, maybe its just in my head, i have to put my mind into it and everything will be ok. i kinda fell now just like i watched the movie "swingers" with vince vaughn.

Thx again guys, if you have more tips just pust them here, iam just 22 but you can feel how you guys have some live experience

This is a wonderful place for men to congregate. Aside from Penis Enlargement there is so much more here. Any man could benefit from the education we have to offer.

 

[Mal79]

We are all brothers with special male needs, male mentality & emotions http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Male_brain#Brain_differentiation , male issues etc. I love [words=http://www.mattersofsize.com/join-now.html]MOS[/words].

 

[Mal79]

Why can’t I edit my posts? Anyway I wanted to add this http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Man link also.

Anyway, have a nice weekend and play it safe boys

 

[DLD]

Why can’t I edit my posts? Anyway I wanted to add this http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Man link also.

Anyway, have a nice weekend and play it safe boys

"A man is a male human." lol

 

[Mal79]

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[byakugan2]

the problem with me is, that my ex and me studie the same stuff so we see each other every day. her new boyfriend also studies the same stufff so i see them every day snuggling in class. i really try hard to get over her but every time i see those 2 it remind me of the words she said to me " iam sure that i will never want to be with you ever again" " i dont love you anymore". i really wished her BF wouldt study the same stuff. How to cope with that?
by the way it was my first long term realtionship ...

 

[DLD]

the problem with me is, that my ex and me studie the same stuff so we see each other every day. her new boyfriend also studies the same stufff so i see them every day snuggling in class. i really try hard to get over her but every time i see those 2 it remind me of the words she said to me " iam sure that i will never want to be with you ever again" " i dont love you anymore". i really wished her BF wouldt study the same stuff. How to cope with that?
by the way it was my first long term realtionship ...

It is tough to deal with but time heals all wounds. Jen said the same thing to me but a year later she was back. How did I do this? In my mind she was already here, she never left. I acted as if she was here until she arrived. Love is a big word but when you are in love with someone it sometimes takes time for it all to work out. Even after Jen came back times was not right and she again is out. I know she will return so I spend my time as if she is already here.

 

[byakugan2]

thanx for your advice dld. although its hard to image after a girl told you that she is 100 % sure she never wants to be with you , i will try it out. so should i be nice to the new boyfriend or ignore him? how to act towards her? should i be cocky or ignore her? how to act that she is already by my side? how does this function?

 

[jiminy465]

If it was me I would try as much as I could to act like I wasn't phased by it and act as if nothings wrong. Be as nice as you can be dunno if I could be nice to the new boyfriend, man their in the same class that sucks bro.

 

[DLD]

You should ignore and treat them with kindness. In the scenario she is in you really have no control over, this is where her free will can not be affected, she is doing what she wants now. Any type of impulsive influence will make it worse. You need to understand that there are other timelines you can create that will manifest in your reality.

This is a mantra I use:
Manifesting Jen means moving away from Jen and instead look at alternative timelines that will be in my knowing; just as wonderful, just as fulfilling and abundant. Disappointment and other fear derived emotional reactions and moved away from my reality when I take a path of multiple timelines and multiple scenarios. Yet simultaneously from my letting go I remain in absolute knowing that Jen will manifest in my conscious reality. I will act, behave, think and feel just as I would if Jen has already manifested for the way to achieve what one desires is to know I already have Jen.

 

[byakugan2]

man if i knew how to make a girl fall in love again with me, but i thinks thats not possible even with your "mantra"

 

[Alpha Effusion]

You need to not act interested in her if you want her back, the sad truth. Even if you have to lie about it, make it seem like you are a lot better off without her. This is, of course, if you want her back, which it seems like you do. Trust me man. Start talking to other girls. Start going to the gym. Start dressing nice. Hit Penis Enlargement with the fury.

 

[byakugan2]

well i avoidede her for a year now but nothing happend, she just moved on. its kinda unlogical , that you have to show no interest if you are indeed interested in a person. should i tell her iam to good for her? iam to good looking for her or wtf?

 

[DLD]

man if i knew how to make a girl fall in love again with me, but i thinks thats not possible even with your "mantra"

The point is you don't need to know how, you just need to believe it is happening. The most difficult part of manifesting anything is the prejudices we hold in our mind. When you view the situation in the time line it is in you will do nothing more than invite more and more depression into your life. You need to create an alternative time line, one that, even though it seems incredible, includes you and your desire and makes this possible. When you are able to ask for what you want, believe you already have it and most importantly allow it to happen it will happen. The idea is that work or how it will happen is what the universe will figure out, you need to only feel as though it has already happened. It is not easy, especially the pretending part but eventually, when it works, you will understand this power more and more.