If I wrap mediocre then after a while the wrap goes lose and my glands slips into the wrap and the penis starts to retract. Not fully as if it wasn’t wrapped but a little bit. If I wrap very tightly my glands goes cold after 10min and I need to rewrap. Thoughts? The pictures show the three wrappings (tightly - glands fully showing; mediocre- glands half showing; loosely- penis fully hidden in the wrap and almost not elongated)
The wrapping method requires a bit of finessing, smack dead between thight and loose just before the penis retracts. As we all discussed earlier, to prevent the penis from retracting, we need to create a terminal bundle just behind the glans, or the base of the glans. Even when the glans shrinks, the terminal bundles prevents the glans from turtling inside the wrap. The terminal bundle can be either the easy to use TheraBand or similar materials, in combo with am Ace Bandage adhesive assist to hold everything in place.
The next method is to use the Ace Bandage itself to create the first solid/stiff layer, similar to a broken arm or leg being immobilized in a cast made of harden cloth/fiber. The stiffer the layer, the less tightness you worry about because of the wrap. We talked about using thin PVC or PTE shell for that stiffen layer. Since I know how to use medical materials, I use a self mold made of quick fiber with resin since it's pretty cheap, less than $5 or 4 Euros. It can be found anywhere for immobilizing arms and legs. If you don't want to deal with the craziness, a stiff version of 8 to 10mm penis sleeve.
Another thing I noticed is that my flaccid penis is very slim after I take the wrap off. Is this supposed to be like this?
Yes, it's quite normal. During the early stages, the penis tries to return back to normal size, which is around 1/4 of the erection size. You force it to remain flaccid at a larger and longer size, the penis will continue to fight to return to normal. After a few months to a year, the penis will recognize the adaption to remain at a large size to minimize stresses in fighting back.