Lessons learned during dating what I thought was the one...

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Hi everyone,

I don't post here much anymore because life has been so hectic the last year, however some time has just been free'd up (look at the positive right)
My girl broke up with me today, out of nowhere and I thought I would share a few things with you all on my last rel, and ask for a little advice at the end.

Me: 28 year old, very successful for my age, a bodybuilding fitness competitor. I own a house and am currently renovating
Her: 28 year old daughter of a very rich family, but she doesn't seem spoiled. She does however have no experience with hard times and fending for herself for money etc. (a little spoiled obviously)

I met this seemingly perfect girl and hit it off right away. We would tell each other everything, and the whole relation was rocking (great sex, great discussions, finishing off each others sentences, etc..) and all of a sudden, last week she wanted to end it. Without any communicating, or working at the relationship, she had made up her mind. . Keep in mind we are both 28 years of age, and not so young anymore that this immature crap should fly.

I tried to discuss things with her, and we gave it a week, and had one more argument, then she decided she made up her mind, and it was over..
Throughout the whole relationship, she never communicated how she actually felt with certain items such as:

I told her I practiced Penis Enlargement, showed her the hanging device, what I do, etc. she said she was okay with it... She WAS NOT OKAY with it.
She also found out I watch adult entertainment when she's not around after a conversation where she asked me if I watch any. she WAS NOT OKAY with it.
She wanted me to finish the house renovations fast so she could move in and have kids (I guess I didn't do it fast enough for her and her dad)

Guys, I highly recommend denying any existence of this lifestyle with your girl, or watching adult entertainment, etc.. it's just not worth losing her over.

Now advice I am looking for.. Where can I meet sane single girls in my city to try mingling (in a week or so), as I would love at least some sex. Also, where are good places to search for a relationship..

I am not a bar guy as it conflicts with fitness modelling.

Appreciate anyone who is listening

lofnrg
 
It was a nice read and thanks for the advice! :) You sure helped many men not to have the same fate as you.

P.S- Good luck finding a better oen that loves you for real and would stay with you no matter what you do -Penis Enlargement or not :)
 
ya you shouldn't talk to the girl, if she cares for you she will contact you. I suggest not to tell girls about Penis Enlargement or adult entertainment BAD idea. you can find girls at a bar just buy a beer or ask for a pop to make it look like a mixed drink. I find a bar is a good place to get girls as there drunk and usually easier to get. good luck mate. your ex sounds like a real witch with a B. AS most girls are good luck.
 
Zambrodom3;573508 said:
It was a nice read and thanks for the advice! :) You sure helped many men not to have the same fate as you.

P.S- Good luck finding a better oen that loves you for real and would stay with you no matter what you do -Penis Enlargement or not :)
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Thanks bro, I appreciate the support. Glad to help others learn from my mistakes :)
 
GirthGains;573525 said:
ya you shouldn't talk to the girl, if she cares for you she will contact you. I suggest not to tell girls about Penis Enlargement or adult entertainment BAD idea. you can find girls at a bar just buy a beer or ask for a pop to make it look like a mixed drink. I find a bar is a good place to get girls as there drunk and usually easier to get. good luck mate. your ex sounds like a real witch with a B. AS most girls are good luck.
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Thanks for the info mate. Will acquire sluts next week after taking some time for myself :)
 
GirthGains;573525 said:
ya you shouldn't talk to the girl, if she cares for you she will contact you. I suggest not to tell girls about Penis Enlargement or adult entertainment BAD idea. you can find girls at a bar just buy a beer or ask for a pop to make it look like a mixed drink. I find a bar is a good place to get girls as there drunk and usually easier to get. good luck mate. your ex sounds like a real witch with a B. AS most girls are good luck.
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Thanks for the info mate. Will acquire sluts next week after taking some time for myself :)
 
Anytime a girl tells you she is not okay with something, she is not okay with it. Anytime a girl tells you she is okay with something, is not okay with it.
 
redpubes;573536 said:
Anytime a girl tells you she is not okay with something, she is not okay with it. Anytime a girl tells you she is okay with something, is not okay with it.
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AGRE!!! The female logic has no ACTUAL logic rofl
 
That is just fucked up. There is really no reason a girl should break up with you for the above aforementioned issues. There had to be something else going on. If she will do you like that and can't even tell you things straight then she isnt the right girl for you. IMO you dodged a bullet. Imagine how demanding and two faced she would get once the ring was on her finger.
 
Wang Chung;573582 said:
That is just fucked up. There is really no reason a girl should break up with you for the above aforementioned issues. There had to be something else going on. If she will do you like that and can't even tell you things straight then she isnt the right girl for you. IMO you dodged a bullet. Imagine how demanding and two faced she would get once the ring was on her finger.
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Everyone I talked to said it was fucked up too. I'm not sugar coating anything either. I did some things wrong, but not big things, and that's how two people solve them, by communicating, and compromise, which she was not willing to even try.

My close friends think that her dad didn't like me being an only a above average income earner, but supposed to be really rich. I hope to be, but that takes time and is an unrealistic expectation.

I found out today as well, that a photo album she had given me was taken out of my house. I';m not sure if she came when I was out or if she had taken it before, but either way it made me pissed
 
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