for a quick fix, I'd get a [words=https://officialhydromaxpump.com/?uid=6&oid=2&affid=98]
Bathmate[/words] and have a quick session w/it prior to having sex...you'll have immediate temporary expansion and your brain won't be asking those stupid questions anymore because it will see plain as day that you're larger.
I've typed this Yogi-ism many times:
'half this game is 90% mental'