How to attract females?

[wanagrow]

OK. So now i have started my Penis Enlargement routines, and hopefully soon i will be a man. The next problem however is this. I am shy with women :blush:.

Now what should i do so that more women would realize that there is a long snake roaming in my jungle? (obviously i cannot walk around naked)

Any help greatly appreciated.!

 

[MAXAMEYES]

"Hi ! I have a large penis"
Almost always ends with pepper spray, jail time & "sex offender" status.

There's only 3 ways to get good at anything:
1. Practice
2. practice
3. practice

Start talkin' to every gal you meet, about any subject you can conceive.Very quickly you'll develop a sense of your own style, strengths & weaknesses and how to adjust your conversation to steer it in your chosen direction.
Learn how to listen; not just to what they "say" but also to what it might mean to you/ for you. Look for "leads"; details to help you keep 'em talkin' to you; learn how to gauge women's general reactions to what & how you say things.

Most of all: Expect rejection. Get used to it, because it's inevitable. But it's also trivial; just breeze on past "that one" like a wad of gum on the sidewalk, 'cuz there's millions more just waitin' to take her place.
In the end "women" ain't nothin' to be shy of, they're just people too.

 

[wanagrow]

I agree with your rejection part. But i am used to it.

However i am currently here in germany. And it is almost impossible to chat with random women here.

 

[DLD]

"Hi ! I have a large penis"
Almost always ends with pepper spray, jail time & "sex offender" status.

At least if it is Chili-peper spray you will gain some size, no?

 

[MAXAMEYES]

OLD JOKE alert! :
Q> Why does Mike Tyson cry after sex?
A> Must be the pepper spray.

(insert laffter here)

At least if it is Chili-peper spray you will gain some size, no?

 

[MAXAMEYES]

But for real wanagrow, it doesn't matter who the woman is, what her age, or the circumstances: Just practice shootin' the shit. Even if she's an 80 year old grocery bagger at the local market.

(Some o' them old gals will surprise the shit outta yah.)

The idea is to just get talkin'. And the more comfortable you get with completely inconsequential conversation, the easier it'll be for you to talk your way into panties.
(Which, I'm assuming, is your ultimate goal, correct?)

The more you talk the more you'll be able to talk.

So get started!

 

[wanagrow]

But for real wanagrow, it doesn't matter who the woman is, what her age, or the circumstances: Just practice shootin' the shit. Even if she's an 80 year old grocery bagger at the local market.

(Some o' them old gals will surprise the shit outta yah.)

The idea is to just get talkin'. And the more comfortable you get with completely inconsequential conversation, the easier it'll be for you to talk your way into panties.
(Which, I'm assuming, is your ultimate goal, correct?)

The more you talk the more you'll be able to talk.

So get started!

Yah thanks for the motivation. I will try starting with my neighbour. But just that she already has a boyfriend.
What really surprises me is when i see a shitty looking guy with a real bomb. I mean whats his secret . I look better than average in any case. Why am i never successful with those real hot women?

 

[Turnover]

Women love to hear themselves talk. If you learn how to listen you can just shake your head up and down and they will pretty much all like you.

 

[DLD]

Women love to hear themselves talk. If you learn how to listen you can just shake your head up and down and they will pretty much all like you.

So true

You could also tape $100 bills all over your crotch, that may get some attention

 

[savageblue]

So true

You could also tape $100 bills all over your crotch, that may get some attention

Or, if you're going for the money technique, you could try the "hey, wanna check out my huge 'roll of quarters'?" line

Anyway, there is one thing that makes every person more appealing, even if they are the hugliest human being on earth.
That thing is called confidence – often mistaken with cockyness. Just work on your confidence and you'll get the girls you want.
One of the best ways to do that is, as MAXAMEYES said, practice, practice, practice.

Oh, and you might want to stay away from married ladies/ladies with boyfriends, unless you are also extremely confident on your ass-kicking skills

 

[DLD]

Oh, and you might want to stay away from married ladies/ladies with boyfriends, unless you are also extremely confident on your ass-kicking skills

True dat!

 

[MAXAMEYES]

Lesbians, however, are fine just fine.

 

[DLD]

Lesbians, however, are fine just fine.

Yup, those are fine

 

[wanagrow]

That thing is called confidence – often mistaken with cockyness. Just work on your confidence and you'll get the girls you want.

I think you hit the nail right on head. I just dont have the confidence. What would be some ways to be confident?

 

[tparker84]

I never approach women and I get alot of them If i go to a store to buy clothes I ask a women working there or another customer randomly what color might look good on me ec.. do u like these pant.. and I'm a shy person so this is my way of having convo with them and it works for me just try different things where you feel comfortable

 

[Shion]

There are a shitton of shy girls here. Like I can take a girl to coffee and would end up doing all the talking because she doesn't want to say anything. Pretty soon I feel like I'm interrogating her just to avoid talking about myself. The ones that are outgoing, well, usually have an army of powerhouse men that she can do whatever she wants to with and so they don't go looking for people with no experience. Y'know, like job-hunting. Does this happen a lot in the real world or is this just a My College thing? I sure hope that doesn't happen outside this town.

 

[Turnover]

I think you hit the nail right on head. I just dont have the confidence. What would be some ways to be confident?

Personally I find that being arrogant is better than confident because I am confident all day long but I just really want people to leave me alone, but being arrogant shows people you are prepared for their nonacceptance and they somehow admire it. Actually it is difficult to understand the difference between arrogant and obnoxious. What I mean by arrogance is "when I get done with what I'm saying then we can hear another opinion" obnoxious would be people trying to talk over me while I'm having my turn to speak. I'm arrogant because I'm confidenT and proud. Confidence is like a step before.
Dictionary.com
Arrogance- an attitude of superiority manifested in an overbearing manner or in presumptuous claims or assumptions
making claims or pretensions to superior importance or rights; overbearingly assuming; insolently proud

Confidence-a feeling or consciousness of one's powers or of reliance on one's circumstances
having strong belief or full assurance; sure

There are a shitton of shy girls here. Like I can take a girl to coffee and would end up doing all the talking because she doesn't want to say anything. Pretty soon I feel like I'm interrogating her just to avoid talking about myself. The ones that are outgoing, well, usually have an army of powerhouse men that she can do whatever she wants to with and so they don't go looking for people with no experience. Y'know, like job-hunting. Does this happen a lot in the real world or is this just a My College thing? I sure hope that doesn't happen outside this town.

Some people believe there is 1 person out there for all of us or more than 1. Maybe she is shy and you just need to break the ice a little and a shy girl will end up being a wild girl. Maybe the right girl for you is not in your part of town for the time being and you need to do a little more exploring. Maybe she likes you showing an interest in her, but she hasn't had the opportunity to open up to you about it. Just have some fun and don't worry about how much fun she is having with you INSTEAD enjoy being out yourself- she will like you more I'm sure of it.

 

[REDZULU2003]

Just become a male orang-outang which pisses's all over itself to attract a female and problem solved We spend too much time fucking about how to attract women, just relax guys and be yourself .. if she likes you she likes you and of not than its her loss!! I like reading, watching. listening to guys like David D but they in all fairness are false ... changing themselves so drastically like that just really to suit women is not something we should encourage.

Change negative bits sure but those guys do complete makeovers that turn a guy into something else he has never been, yeah he may pull and shag more than he used to but bottom line is that is never going to be the real him and one day it will fall out of the cupboard in all its bony glory (Skeleton in the closet implied)

 

[Priapus90]

Just become a male orang-outang which pisses's all over itself to attract a female and problem solved We spend too much time fucking about how to attract women, just relax guys and be yourself .. if she likes you she likes you and of not than its her loss!! )

I heard that!! Personally, I met my girlfriend and attracted her by not lookin at all!! First time she talked to me (I had just finished performing a guitar bit) she was like, "That was good playing!" I completely blew her off (I do feel terrible about it now btw) and just said, "Thanks." and walked off! I ignored her and didn't even say anything until she approached me again! We got together and its been a GREAT relationship!! Don't get hung up on the ladies! Be cool, be yourself, and they'll come to you!!

 

[DLD]

Yup, the more you ignore that more they will press.

 

[wanagrow]

I heard that!! Personally, I met my girlfriend and attracted her by not lookin at all!! First time she talked to me (I had just finished performing a guitar bit) she was like, "That was good playing!" I completely blew her off (I do feel terrible about it now btw) and just said, "Thanks." and walked off! I ignored her and didn't even say anything until she approached me again! We got together and its been a GREAT relationship!! Don't get hung up on the ladies! Be cool, be yourself, and they'll come to you!!

The problem is that i do not play cool guitar like you. You can afford to ignore and still get them running after you. I cant do anything like that.

 

[jiminy465]

Something that really helped me heeps and I mean heeps, I used to be quite jittery and nervous from drugs etc. I downloaded a sound track that boosts confidence, listened to it as I went to sleep. Even just look up confidence affirmations track or something like that in google. Now after listening for only like a month I am permanently confident.

 

[Alex78]

Something that really helped me heeps and I mean heeps, I used to be quite jittery and nervous from drugs etc. I downloaded a sound track that boosts confidence, listened to it as I went to sleep. Even just look up confidence affirmations track or something like that in google. Now after listening for only like a month I am permanently confident.

Link anybody?

 

[savageblue]

To acquire confidence you need to spend some time analysing yourself and taking [a mental] note of what are your qualities and defects.
After you have sorted those out, you could work on calling the attention to your qualities. I don't mean bragging, I mean letting them show more often. Maybe try new ways to use those qualities in other departments in your life.
As you do that, you can gradually start working on your weakest points to improve what you feel needs improvement. As time goes by you'll feel more confident.

Confidence is a funny thing. It is the only thing where I trully believe that, before you see it, you must believe it.
If you keep repeating to yourself that you can achieve something, in time that will change your mindset and will help you work towards your goals.
So, ridiculous as it may sound, it IS indeed a good thing that you, for instance, stand in front of the mirror and say to yourself "you're awesome, you can be anything you set yourself out to be, you are THE MAN".

However, confidence doesn't only come from self complimenting. You need to take action. Otherwise you're just lying to yourself.

So, GO FOR IT!

 

[Crazy Doc]

There are a shitton of shy girls here. Like I can take a girl to coffee and would end up doing all the talking because she doesn't want to say anything. Pretty soon I feel like I'm interrogating her just to avoid talking about myself. The ones that are outgoing, well, usually have an army of powerhouse men that she can do whatever she wants to with and so they don't go looking for people with no experience. Y'know, like job-hunting. Does this happen a lot in the real world or is this just a My College thing? I sure hope that doesn't happen outside this town.

I'm a great interrogator of those shy girls-if you can blather endlessly like I can-shy girls are putty in your hands. They like guys that take all the pressure off them lol.

 

[Medicating]

Girls come when you're not looking, i always find.

Confidence is key though. No girl likes a guy who puts themselves down all the time and has a pessimistic view on everything. How are you gonna compliment her if you can't even compliment yourself?

Chins up.

 

[Kraken]

Wonder how you are faring these days?

I agree on ,,don't look for them, let them look for you'' tactics.
During my teens I was always alone, very few friends (2-3) but that's due my reputation around the neighbourhood. Mother was a teacher in local school (I was there also) so no one dared to mess around me because of ,,omfgbbq teachers kid! dont deal with him!''.
Sadly that also made me threatening to girls as I found out later from my wife. To this day I sometimes wonder, how many girls wrote me off because of this.
My suggestion to you would be: hone yourself both physically, mentally and intellectually. Make yourself best you can be, focus on yourself not on them. You will get that darlin' in no time!
It's like watching time every 5 min before end of the shift... it just keeps dragging and dragging until you stop and do something fun/interesting/useful and time will fly.

K.

 

[lazyhanger]

Very nice post Kraken.

 

[DLD]

Has anyone checked out the Don Juan forums? Pretty good pick up info there.

 

[vangore]

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