Does Having a bigger dick make you more attractive?... I think so? Here's my reasoning...

Guys, you're all wasting too much of your precious time with a simple "yes" or "no" answer. Imagine if you'd take that time to grab your dicks and actually work on your PE? :p


And, by the way, the answer is still "YES". (xd)

Yep just grab my dick n have a session I'll have mine this evening broke my LM n fixed it,as
Weird. I have lived in cities, as well as country, and I haven't been around all of these fluid swapping horn dogs. Must be the crowds you surround yourselves with. Big difference between girls, ladies, and women.

Very interesting actually, as I have seen and done so much in my 36 years. Celebs, average Joes, rags, riches, and I haven't experienced this "underworld" of hypersexuality.

An underworld of hyper sexuality....I'm just imagining8-):O
 
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Some of this is speculation, merely a theory. Frankly I could be completely wrong, but for the sake of simplicity I'll write as if I'm certain LOL

Big cocks are psychologically stimulating and dominating to a woman. Women love big guys - muscular and/or tall - because it makes them feel feminine. This is a raw physical aspect that makes and impression on the mind of the woman you're with.

But at the same time, a large amount of what gets them off is purely mental. I mean, there are videos of women being hypnotised to cum and some of their orgasms are totally wild and screaming. Like the dude has described scenarios and given them commands and they're screaming like they're dying - it's crazy!

Think about guys as well - you can have a wet dream while you're sleeping and dreaming of being with an enthusiastic, curvaceous, busty girl - it feels so real in your mind that you have a physical response (orgasm) to it.

Sex seems to happen in the mind to a large degree. And I think that sometimes the mental can override the physical. For instance, I know of a guy who's short (around 5'5") and quite a lot of women want to bang him. Even women who are taller than him flirt with him openly. It's his demeanor, how he teases girls, his dominance etc. that gets them turned on.

I also think there's a social element that overlaps with the physical aspect. Imagine a guy with a 12" cock. It would possibly earn him a high status in a social hierarchy, much like someone who's 7 ft tall. BUT, and it's a big but (no pun intended, although I do like big butts)...it wouldn't necessarily be physically the most desirable thing for a woman to take inside her. Probably way too big.

So what we can surmise is that having a big dick will make it easier to make an impression on woman's mind in the context of sex, dominance, etc. It's a physical attribute that a girl can directly perceive. It has an automatic effect without any words or actions being said or done. At the same time, a big aspect of sex is mental, and can sometimes override the physical.

Ultimately if you can get a big dick, why not? If it makes you feel better about your body, it's always a good thing, regardless of what anyone else thinks.

Edit 1: To add some context: An intense, satisfying sexual interaction has elements of dominance and submission. David Deida talks about this in The Way of the Superior Man. Polarity needs to be there for attraction to be present - masculine/feminine, dominant/submissive, etc. just like magnets (positive/negative). Dominance can be exerted physically and mentally. Physical attributes - big cock, big muscles, height, etc. But sometimes the mental can override the physical.
 
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Besides, as I've seen somewhere else, what's the point of liking big tits and big asses if you don't have a cock big enough for a titty-fuck where she can suck you off at the same time, nor you can fuck her from behind? (For those of you into small tits and asses, you're fine with a small cock, no worries). (xd)
 
Besides, as I've seen somewhere else, what's the point of liking big tits and big asses if you don't have a cock big enough for a titty-fuck where she can suck you off at the same time, nor you can fuck her from behind? (For those of you into small tits and asses, you're fine with a small cock, no worries). (xd)

Exactly! So much hotter doing those things when you're big.
 
Besides, as I've seen somewhere else, what's the point of liking big tits and big asses if you don't have a cock big enough for a titty-fuck where she can suck you off at the same time, nor you can fuck her from behind? (For those of you into small tits and asses, you're fine with a small cock, no worries). (xd)

For me, an 8 inches penis is even small to fuck a chick with big ass.
 
This could depend on what you consider a big ass, but I can tell you that I'm not 8 inches long, my wife's ass is very far from being small, and I can fuck her from behind without a problem. And I sometimes hurt her when I go balls deep in missionary.

That's what always comes to mind when I think of "smaller" sizes. Looking at your signature, you're currently standing at 6.3". And you can bottom out your girl in missionary! Which means in a physiological sense, you're not small!

It goes to show that the size that is completely physically adequate for penetration is not always the size that has the psychological effect you desire. It's a very complex issue with no one-dimensional answers!
 
That's what always comes to mind when I think of "smaller" sizes. Looking at your signature, you're currently standing at 6.3". And you can bottom out your girl in missionary! Which means in a physiological sense, you're not small!

It goes to show that the size that is completely physically adequate for penetration is not always the size that has the psychological effect you desire. It's a very complex issue with no one-dimensional answers!
Oh, sure, definitely!
But just for clarity sake, my signature ir outdated. LOL I'm currently in the 7"/7.2" BPEL. (I've even lost some gains that weren't yet cemented)
 
This could depend on what you consider a big ass, but I can tell you that I'm not 8 inches long, my wife's ass is very far from being small, and I can fuck her from behind without a problem. And I sometimes hurt her when I go balls deep in missionary.

I believe we're speaking of that African booty. That Minaj, Kardashian, box you in the jaw when she bend down low, backside. ???
 
This is the type of ass that requires a 9 inches penis.

I'll reply with both my replies LOL :

@TuffDong @huge-girth Gentlemen, a 9 inch cock might be better, but for that kind of ass, a 7-7.2" cock will do the job. Remember I mentioned my wife? Well, Trust... Me! ;)
Not quite with that hip to waist ratio, but the size of the rear-end seems about right. (xd)

My wife's ass is pretty much like that one and I can tell you that a 9" dick is not a pre-requisite. Will it hurt to have it? Well, don't stop your gains for my word, but a 7 incher is more than enough to bang it goooooooood.
 
I'll reply with both my replies LOL :




My wife's ass is pretty much like that one and I can tell you that a 9" dick is not a pre-requisite. Will it hurt to have it? Well, don't stop your gains for my word, but a 7 incher is more than enough to bang it goooooooood.

But but but..... BIGGER IS BETTER, remember? ?? There is no way your 7" can beat 9".. remember??? ???
 
With a 9 inch dick, you can probably pull the trick I once saw a black dude do in a adult entertainment scene. Mind you, he was probably very flexible, but can you believe the motherfucker was able to penetrate the girl's pussy and, at the same time, lick her clit??? :O
 
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With a 9 inch dick, you can probably pull the trick I once saw a black dude do in a adult entertainment scene. Mind you, he was probably very flexible, but can you believe the motherfucker was able to penetrate the girl's pussy and, at the same time, lick her clit??? :O

I wish I can see the video
 
Another question guys - we've all been talking about size in terms of length making a guy more attractive. Without a doubt it does!

But what about girth? Recently there's been a lot of talk in the media about how girth matters more. In one study, women reported girth being more important than length for one night stands.

Can the combination of short length but massive girth be considered big? It's not as visually noticeable as length, but in terms of volume it can be absolutely huge.

You could classify the extremes of sizes like this:

short + thin
short + thick
long + thin
long + thick

It's possible that by volume short + thick = long + thin in terms of volume. If you put various numbers into dick volume calculators you'll see pretty quickly that girth drastically increases the actual total mass of dick you have, more so than length.

My verdict is that, at average length, girth doesn't look physically impressive - it might even make a cock look shorter than it really is. But it is likely to feel pretty damn good. Deep penetration might not be possible, but it will feel mighty good towards the entrance of her pussy if she's getting really stretched out.

Kinda close to home for me so I've spent some time musing over this.

Edit: Here's an interesting study - Penis size: Survey of female perceptions of sexual satisfaction

Here are some of the big (no pun intended ;))insights. The bold is mine:

Of the 50 females surveyed, 45 reported that width felt better, with only 5 reporting length felt better (chi square = 32.00, df = 1, p < .001). No females reported that they could not tell any difference. Some did report that sex in a relationship was better than sex without commitment.

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It is not obvious why a wide penis would be preferred to a long penis, but speculation would suggest the following. Penis width may be important due to a penis thick at the base providing greater clitoral stimulation as the male thrusts into the female during sexual intercourse. That is, a wide penis would seem to offer a greater degree of contact with the outer part of the vagina, including the clitoral area. If this is correct, then Masters and Johnson are wrong about penis size being unrelated, physiologically, to female sexual satisfaction. Masters, Johnson, and Kolodny [3] do not totally rule out penis size being relevant, but they suggest that it is likely of minor importance for female sexual satisfaction (see especially pages 509-510 in Masters, Johnson, and Kolodny [3]). Another possibility is that a wider penis provides the woman with a greater feeling of fullness, which is psychologically, and perhaps physiologically, satisfying.

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Women reported that penis width was more important for their sexual satisfaction than penis length. The results were statistically significant. Penis width needs to be given more consideration, and taken into account when one discusses penis size. Also, it may be that Masters and Johnson [1,2,3] were wrong about penis size having little or no physiological effect on women's sexual satisfaction. However, the current data cannot provide a final answer, since they are based on self reports of women surveyed about penis length vs. width, and their sexual satisfaction. The results reflect either a psychological preference or a true physiological reality, but we cannot say which, with the present method that was employed.
 
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Another question guys - we've all been talking about size in terms of length making a guy more attractive. Without a doubt it does!

But what about girth? Recently there's been a lot of talk in the media about how girth matters more. In one study, women reported girth being more important than length for one night stands.

Can the combination of short length but massive girth be considered big? It's not as visually noticeable as length, but in terms of volume it can be absolutely huge.

My verdict is that, at average length, girth doesn't look physically impressive - it might even make a cock look shorter than it really is. But it is likely to feel pretty damn good. Deep penetration might not be possible, but it will feel mighty good towards the entrance of her pussy if she's getting really stretched out.

Kinda close to home for me so I've spent some time musing over this.
Visual stimulation is one thing, physical stimulation is another. I'd say visually the "beer can" flaccid penis might be less appealing, but when they're feeling it inside them it would drive them up the walls more than a longer penis. Forget about anal or blowjobs, though LOL
Oh, and I also believe a thicker, shorter dick creates a fuller bulge than a longer, thinner one.
 
i disagree, completely with the ''in our heads''... it's not, and frankly i'm beginning to think we have a bunch of male feminist philosophy teachers running a PE site. Like i said, i have personal experience, i have numerous forum write-ups of women talking about how it attracts them, and there are literally videos on youtube of women talking about checking for the bulge and how it raises the man's appeal... seriously don't get whats so hard to understand about this...

Size Does Matter: Women Find Large Penises More Attractive - "We've found that penis size did influence a man's sex appeal, and it was just as important as height, which is a well-known factor in male attractiveness."

Penis Psychology Expert Explains What Makes Big Dick Energy a Real Thing - i just threw this one in because i think it's a good read on the psychological effects having a big dick can make a man more confident, and men who were born packing tend to be more confident in overall situations, even though they may have never realized this.

Great links ?

I have good memories of women checking my bulge out, the last time I recall was a few years back when two young women looked at it as they walked by with me having a good hang, I heard them speak how thick it was and giggle.

I would like if I said it didn't turn me on, I loved it when I caught a lass looking, or knew it was happening.

Nowadays I don't date, times will change, so, I often go out wearing pants hiding the bulge.

It gives you a confidence boost that's for sure, guess it makes us feel sexy right? And that is I guess what translates as attractive to her.

It's also in no way dirty or slutty for women to do this. Men treat women like meat for years, after all she's just looking, but in the right environment, like a bat it can lead to intense sex afterwards.

I knew a lass who had her eye on my cock all night back ten years ago at a club, she told me when we hooked up in the park outside the club, and that she wanted it. I ended up shagging her bent over the fence with her thong around her ankles as the train went past behind me. Gave her a good stuffing ?

So, sure it has an effect, but I still think it depends on the situation, environment as to her own motives i.e sex, curious, a giggle.
 
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