Alright brothers, I was reading this topic a little distanced last couple days but
@jekyllnhyde360 main question/discussion was just if having a bigger dick/bulge is a benefit/advantage compared to not having one.
I've already written an answer before, but need to jump in again.
My simple answer would be: Yes, definitely!
It's crazy that we're here in a PE forum where everybody has the goal to grow their meat and lots of people writing that it's not important and just a mind thing and it grows self-confidence.
That's all true, but I think he was more asking because of the physical aspect.
I was talking with lots of people here and in my opinion most of us don't have self-confidence problems, but we want to improve our bodies. Lots of us are not only doing this by pe, but also by eating more healthy, sports, using supplements and so on.
If you're telling yourself that you're here because you want to gain more self-confidence ? why not visiting a "how to become self-confident" course then?
If you're thinking you're becoming rock ass self-confident when you gain 1-3" or have 9" NBPEL and your whole life will change and females will run for you 24/7, then you are wrong!
Being self-confident is an inner state, your view on life and multiple other factors.
I'm really not trying to insult anybody here or want to make you feel bad, but what is going on here?
It feels like we're in a weight-loss forum and everybody is trying to tell each other that weight-loss is just improving self-confidence and females won't care about it while the thread creator just wanted to know if it's a benefit/advantage or not, compared to being average LOL
First example:
People (females) see a page in a book or magazine with 2 identical guys, they don't know the character and there are 3 guys. One with a below average dick, one with an average dick and one with a above average dick.
If they can pick who they want, what would you guess?
Second example:
Let's do the same with fitness level. You as male are looking at a magazine page, 3 identical females on the site. One is overweight, one is average and one is fit. Hair color, eye color and everything else is 100% identical. You have the free pick, how would you decide?
Third example:
You have unlimited money or just as before, the same with a magazine page, where you can decide what is more attractive to you, this time we're talking about cars.
You can pick between
1) family wagon
or
2) sports car / truck / luxury car
Yeah, now tell me how many people would pick the family wagon if you are judging from viewing the page ?
Fourth example:
You have a free pick again. You can chose the wealth status of your family when you are born. Family and people are exactly the same, you're just deciding how wealthy they are. One pick would be poor, another one would be average and the third one would be wealthy. How would you decide?
Fifth example:
I asked in the thread of
@bandit2010 some questions, his spouse gave some answers. Just click on the link.
https://mattersofsize.com/topic/womens-point-of-view-on-pe.1818078/post-1862857
Sixth example and more:
If you still are trying to tell me it's not a benefit, or advantage from physical view aspect, there are multiple video documentations, interviews and articles with females about this topic. Do your own research then.
There also had been a study in which they exactly tested that and females needed to pick guys they're attracted to and it showed a correlation to the bulge in the pants.
What I simply want to show you with the examples is, that it's different when you have a "free pick option". And that's what most of us have in life, at least in the industrial countries.
Females very often have 'free pick' with guys, because most males are becoming more and more a feminine touch and lost self-confidence. I'm not only talking about the physical masculinity here, also the mind thing. We're talking about evolution.
But I don't wanna go into that deep topic for now.
Back to the surface, if you have the decision to decide between something which most likely is better or has benefits from an objective view - why not? That's how we most likely decide in life.
For sure, people have preferences but overall, that's how people decide, so just by the examples above, think about your pick. Don't BS yourself my friends, just talking about the physical aspect here, we're not talking about character, self-confidence or anything else, just a picture comparison for example.
I think that's what
@jekyllnhyde360 question was about
