Does Having a bigger dick make you more attractive?... I think so? Here's my reasoning...

[stillwantmore]

I really feel that way my man. If you don't, that's cool.

 

[savageblue]

I've heard that sooo many times and I think its fucking retarded. Why would I want to put in the energy, pain and time, to grow my dick if it has zero relevance to anyone but myself... seriously, this new age delusion of the actualized self is garbage... FACT we do things for outward validation, there's literally zero pleasure that comes from having a big dick if it's completely irrelevant to your sexual climate/partner. if there was no value in having a bigger dick, few men, if any would bother.

In my POV, you're either overcomplicating, or oversimplifying this. Yes, we do things for outward validation TOO, but if that doesn't bring you self validation, you'll end up throwing it all away or doing things with the wrong mindset (which may lead to wrong decisions, and so on). If you work on having a big dick solely to impress others and you, yourself, do not feel impressed at all (and I do mean zero personal satisfaction from it), you will never reap one of the greatest benefits of enlarging your dick, which is an increase in self confidence.
Self confidence is like a cold war on the verge of becoming a full blown massacre. If you're not confident in your arsenal, you've already lost the battle even before it starts.
Ultimately, self confidence = self preservation (yes, I took a quantum leap here, but I'm sure you'll understand). So, any boost you can get for self confidence is a boost in your self preservation abilities. That is part of the whole infamous "Big Dick Energy" concept.
Look at it the other way. If you have a big dick but feel terrible about it, you might as well forget about outward validation. So, yes, we do need to do it for ourselves.

 

[DLD]

 

[stillwantmore]

 

[DLD]

I was expecting it all out brawl LOL I was hoping we would have some MMA action going on ?

 

[savageblue]

Was I that harsh? (confused)

 

[REDZULU2003]

I think more often than not, it's personality vs what's in your pants. An upbeat, not necessarily the "center of attention", but happy and welcoming personality is more magnetic. A lot of guys (been guilty of it too in the past) get it wrong. They think they need magic pick up lines, tricks, to be "cocky", or "edgy" etc. That all works for a slim minority, and a few of those guys unfortunately took advantage of it working for THEM and then wrote a book about it, or started a YouTube series about it and now we have a sub generation of guys thinking well, it worked for them, it just might for me.

The main focus for attractiveness should be what has been attractive since the beginning of human relationships. Work on the things that make you attractive toward the type of partner you are looking for. A better personality, a better paying job, a nicer car, a cute dog, borrow someone's kid (single dad's are really hot to some), whatever.

If all else fails, maybe your standards are too high and you need a reality check. Sometimes the "type" of partner you think you're after isn't right for you. Often, that takes trial and error.

Wonderful advice

 

[REDZULU2003]

Has anyone tried the bulge enhancement method I posted a few pages back?

 

[DLD]

Was I that harsh? (confused)

No, I just saw a perfect opportunity to use a gif I’ve been wanting to use?

 

[TuffDong]

Has anyone tried the bulge enhancement method I posted a few pages back?

I'm very self conscious, and prefer not to accentuate my package. For me, it is very embarrassing and uncomfortable to have people looking at me unless engaged in conversation.

I remember when I was a child, and these guys would wear their tight jeans in a public place while obviously sporting a cock ring. I would just be thinking, "really dude?". Lmfao, scar the minds of elementary school children much? Hehehe

 

[DLD]

Has anyone tried the bulge enhancement method I posted a few pages back?

I always wore an Ace wrap after my length work and my bulge was mamouth!

 

[huge-girth]

Not a problem my brother. And you’re right every brother here should be doing this exercise just for safety precautions never mind the incredible hang it gives you.

I will start doing it daily starting from tonight.

 

[DLD]

I will start doing it daily starting from tonight.

Let me know the results you’re having my man I’m sure you’re going to be very pleased

 

[jekyllnhyde360]

In my POV, you're either overcomplicating, or oversimplifying this. Yes, we do things for outward validation TOO, but if that doesn't bring you self validation, you'll end up throwing it all away or doing things with the wrong mindset (which may lead to wrong decisions, and so on). If you work on having a big dick solely to impress others and you, yourself, do not feel impressed at all (and I do mean zero personal satisfaction from it), you will never reap one of the greatest benefits of enlarging your dick, which is an increase in self confidence.
Self confidence is like a cold war on the verge of becoming a full blown massacre. If you're not confident in your arsenal, you've already lost the battle even before it starts.
Ultimately, self confidence = self preservation (yes, I took a quantum leap here, but I'm sure you'll understand). So, any boost you can get for self confidence is a boost in your self preservation abilities. That is part of the whole infamous "Big Dick Energy" concept.
Look at it the other way. If you have a big dick but feel terrible about it, you might as well forget about outward validation. So, yes, we do need to do it for ourselves.

No! you're overcomplicating this with a thousand reason other than reality, which is, I want a big dick because it makes me fell better/more confident, because having a big dick is of value... if it wasn't I wouldn't bother, and it wouldn't make me feel better, because it would have ZERO impact on my life. smh

 

[huge-girth]

Let me know the results you’re having my man I’m sure you’re going to be very pleased

Is it mandatory to use a lubricant for it? Can't I just do the testicle massage like that as long as my balls sack is loose enough?

I'm asking this question because I don't masturbate anymore so I don't want to bring any lubricant close to my dick when I'm not working on girth.

 

[DLD]

Is it mandatory to use a lubricant for it? Can't I just do the testicle massage like that as long as my balls sack is loose enough?

I'm asking this question because I don't masturbate anymore so I don't want to bring any lubricant close to my dick when I'm not working on girth.

You do not need to use a lubricant as long as you can relax the scrotum enough.

 

[huge-girth]

You do not need to use a lubricant as long as you can relax the scrotum enough.

Okay now I think I can do the exercise. My balls sack is always loose at night time right before going to bed.

 

[DLD]

Okay now I think I can do the exercise. My balls sack is always loose at night time right before going to bed.

That is exactly what you want the looseness

 

[A-Spot Spammer]

i disagree, completely with the ''in our heads''... it's not, and frankly i'm beginning to think we have a bunch of male feminist philosophy teachers running a PE site. Like i said, i have personal experience, i have numerous forum write-ups of women talking about how it attracts them, and there are literally videos on youtube of women talking about checking for the bulge and how it raises the man's appeal... seriously don't get whats so hard to understand about this...

https://thoughtcatalog.com/lorenzo-...fess-the-first-thing-they-check-out-on-a-guy/

https://www.rebelcircus.com/blog/modern-day-women-are-obsessed-with-the-bulge-heres-why/

Size Does Matter: Women Find Large Penises More Attractive - "We've found that penis size did influence a man's sex appeal, and it was just as important as height, which is a well-known factor in male attractiveness."

https://www.buzzfeed.com/tracyclayton/dem-sweatpants-doe

Penis Psychology Expert Explains What Makes Big Dick Energy a Real Thing - i just threw this one in because i think it's a good read on the psychological effects having a big dick can make a man more confident, and men who were born packing tend to be more confident in overall situations, even though they may have never realized this.

I don’t believe that his point of view is 100% accurate either...some women may fall into that description, others won’t but I think a large percentage of women like big dick and covet it, whether in their fantasies or in life...

However, Jackxxx believes it totally and I respect that. And to be fair, it’s difficult to fault his reasoning!

I would say that much if the adult entertainment for women, purportedly (I say purportedly because who knows anymore...it may just be a marketing scheme...) made by women will have ripped up hung men as a focal point...

 

[Jackxxx]

Y'all overcomplicating this.
Women look, check out, value a package just like we look at titties. But when you see a really pretty girl, or if you come across a girl with the most wonderful personality in the world, will you judge her by the size of her titties? NO. Of course, maybe you like em huge, or you like em flat, or you like big nipples, etc., but ultimately you will accept a partner as a whole.

With the dick is the same. As longs is average to provide proper pleasure to your partner, there is a lot more into it. True, she might fantasize with a big one but it doesnt mean he whole life purpose and quest it to walk this planet in search for a man with a gigantic tunica albuginea that can destroy her uterus.

This is similar to bodybuilding. When you haven't workout ever in your life, you dream to have the body of a Calvin Klein model. After a few years of working out and looking like a model, you look at yourself in the mirror and is not enough. You wanna grow and look like some athlete you saw in a magazine. If you ask a girl, you have an awesome physique but you wanna keep going. Similar thing happens with our dick,

 

[49-er]

I think no

 

[Iceman338]

In my humble opinion, I think we boys want a big dick because we want to hang as we low as we can at the urinal. We want to make our buddies and our male competition jealous. I think it's wired in our DNA. Just look at animal behavior involving urinating and genital exposure between rival males in mating season.

Sure, a lot of men have a fantasy of their woman getting wet over seeing their big dick. That is super hot.

I think black women are more into well-hung man, if you want my point of view. But, still, having a big dick in the end is a way to impress the other boys (provided you can show it off in the locker room, urinal, adult entertainment vids, etc. ---or perhaps just in your own mind lol).

 

[DLD]

In my humble opinion, I think we boys want a big dick because we want to hang as we low as we can at the urinal. We want to make our buddies and our male competition jealous. I think it's wired in our DNA. Just look at animal behavior involving urinating and genital exposure between rival males in mating season.

Sure, a lot of men have a fantasy of their woman getting wet over seeing their big dick. That is super hot.

I think black women are more into well-hung man, if you want my point of view. But, still, having a big dick in the end is a way to impress the other boys (provided you can show it off in the locker room, urinal, adult entertainment vids, etc. ---or perhaps just in your own mind LOL).

Welcome back my brother! I just saw your name.

 

[Jackxxx]

In my humble opinion, I think we boys want a big dick because we want to hang as we low as we can at the urinal. We want to make our buddies and our male competition jealous. I think it's wired in our DNA. Just look at animal behavior involving urinating and genital exposure between rival males in mating season.

Sure, a lot of men have a fantasy of their woman getting wet over seeing their big dick. That is super hot.

I think black women are more into well-hung man, if you want my point of view. But, still, having a big dick in the end is a way to impress the other boys (provided you can show it off in the locker room, urinal, adult entertainment vids, etc. ---or perhaps just in your own mind LOL).

I agree about black girls which I LOVE them, and thats one of the reasons why. I have had black girls stare at my package while sitting down and ask me "dude is that all dick??" I LOVE that kind of outgoing personality. Straight to the point LOL

 

[Iceman338]

I agree about black girls which I LOVE them, and thats one of the reasons why. I have had black girls stare at my package while sitting down and ask me "dude is that all dick??" I LOVE that kind of outgoing personality. Straight to the point LOL

I am very sexually attracted to straight and bisexual thick, black women. And, yes, they like a well-hung stud for sure. And they know what a big dick is because black men have some of the biggest dicks out there. Sometimes, white women just don't know what a big dick is -- they're clueless.

Don't get me wrong: there are a few big vanilla dicks out there.

 

[Jackxxx]

When I was a stripper, the norm is that you don't strip down with a hard dick. The common belief is that it looks vulgar, filthy. However, one of my black friends told me one time that if you ever go to strip to a private party of black girls, if your dick is not hard they will kick you out. Your dick HAS to be not only big but hard too. LOL

P.S. I hate to mention color or race since I dont see difference between us. We are all equal American brothers and sisters. However due to the topic and being behind screens, we have to identify ourselves with colors.

 

[DLD]

When I was a stripper, the norm is that you don't strip down with a hard dick. The common belief is that it looks vulgar, filthy. However, one of my black friends told me one time that if you ever go to strip to a private party of black girls, if your dick is not hard they will kick you out. Your dick HAS to be not only big but hard too. LOL

P.S. I hate to mention color or race since I dont see difference between us. We are all equal American brothers and sisters. However due to the topic and being behind screens, we have to identify ourselves with colors.

Talk about pressure!

 

[Iceman338]

When I was a stripper, the norm is that you don't strip down with a hard dick. The common belief is that it looks vulgar, filthy. However, one of my black friends told me one time that if you ever go to strip to a private party of black girls, if your dick is not hard they will kick you out. Your dick HAS to be not only big but hard too. LOL

P.S. I hate to mention color or race since I dont see difference between us. We are all equal American brothers and sisters. However due to the topic and being behind screens, we have to identify ourselves with colors.

Yes, we're all the same fundamentally, but black women just happen to like them big, hard cocks.

Black male strippers really accentuate the dick when dancing, as opposed to their male counterparts. I suppose it all depends on your audience.

 

[DLD]

 

[SteelImpresive]

You should feel more confident as your dick Grow you should grow yourself also

Big combo to gain assertiveness and confidence

 

[DLD]

Actually you should feel good about yourself the way you are. And as you change continually give thanks for where you are, this will always bring growth fastest, mental and physical.

 

[Getbiglonger7]

LOL girl where are you? The one I need

 

[Getbiglonger7]

Maybe this one too beautiful ass

 

[DLD]

Good try son!

 

[Getbiglonger7]

Good try son!

Mmm you are beyond lust n temptation you have overcome all that permanently...I have not I still need to ...

A lot this is just the beginning LOL I'm in horny mode right now fresh n healthy pussy out there

 

[DLD]

 

[Getbiglonger7]

LOL Jesus is long gone this world of sinners will never end LOL

Jesus is in the sky he's everywhere but very few will follow him..

 

[DLD]

LOL Jesus is long gone this world of sinners will never end LOL

Jesus is in the sky he's everywhere but very few will follow him..

This is true. But I would hate to get to heavens gates and have Jesus say “I never knew you”. This world is ran by Satan and all Christians can do is the best in this world until Jesus returns.

 

[Getbiglonger7]

Maybe this one too beautiful ass

Yep is a beautiful ass

 

[DLD]

Knocked one off after 2 weeks. Getting better now I pray for 4 weeks

 

[Getbiglonger7]

Knocked one off after 2 weeks. Getting better now I pray for 4 weeks

Going to knock one off today man ?

 

[huge-girth]

Yes I think it does. Having a bigger penis makes you feel very confident and confidence is very attractive and commanding.

 

[jekyllnhyde360]

Proud of this thread, more and more im proven right... im not happy about women becoming slutty and untrustworthy, but atleast theyre honest in their sluttiness.

 

[DLD]

Proud of this thread, more and more im proven right... im not happy about women becoming slutty and untrustworthy, but atleast theyre honest in their sluttiness.

 

[bemorethanbig]

Comments from the original post.
Women look at bulge: Yea, I mean if they can rank a guy with what you say here, it only makes sense. If women had hidden tits and ass, we would be trying to cop a peep before engaging. I think this is a very low chance of this happening and men's clothing are not that revealing, but if a woman can see, I think she will take the opportunity.
BDE: I'm 5'4 and I had (*woot woot) a regular size penis, I walked around not with a lot of BDE but enough because I was 100 percent confident with my build-to-dick ratio, it was good. I would check myself out and an average dick looked fine. When I met wifey, she shattered my BDE that I use to have, no longer was average good enough for me, although she claimed it was more than enough for her. She gave me all the reasons that we have all heard: sex is better with you, I choose you, you make me feel the best, feelings & feeling and all that bullshit, You make me cum, I had only cum once before you. All that and she didn't act or say what she does now with the extra gains. Open adult entertainment face when going balls deep, saying I feel like I'm in her stomach, cuming with just penetration, telling me I am hitting something in there (A and P/O spot), grabbing me and pulling me in, calling me big dick, saying I feel thick, it's a totally different fuck now. I say this because I now walk around with BDE that I didn't for many years that I was married, I know I'm not the biggest but I now know I'm hitting that pussy great with PE. I started working out, growing my hair, dressing better, better hygiene, skin care etc.

 

[oldandlively]

The statement "it's not about the size but it's about the motion of the ocean" is merely a false facia during dating scene. Behind close doors, girls talk differently, desire different things, and their needs are voracious as starving tigresses. This is even more true for leopards on the prowl. Don't believe the nonsense posting on videos, nor in the world of adult entertainment. Be true to yourself and your own needs in satisfying the ladies. Communication is where the truth comes into reality during long term relationships.

 

[bemorethanbig]

+1 oldandlively

 

[DLD]

The statement "it's not about the size but it's about the motion of the ocean" is merely a false facia during dating scene. Behind close doors, girls talk differently, desire different things, and their needs are voracious as starving tigresses. This is even more true for leopards on the prowl. Don't believe the nonsense posting on videos, nor in the world of adult entertainment. Be true to yourself and your own needs in satisfying the ladies. Communication is where the truth comes into reality during long term relationships.

Size and technique are one hundred percent of the game