Crotch Anxiety

[scubaman70]

I am 23, extremely athletic My height is about 6'3" I weigh 190 and I have really really (reallY) long legs, and I wear somewhat slimmer jeans sometimes. I often notice other guys giving my crotch a classic quick glance and then adjusting their pants or maybe pulling there shirts down a little bit. At this point I start to get really bad anxiety and wonder if this means that my crotch looks abnormal (small) or something. I am usually about 4-4.75 inches nbp flaccid with well above average flaccid girth but for some reason I always feel maybe i look small in jeans any analysis on my situation? Im thinking it might be beacuse I have fairly high hanging balls.
Also do women look at jeans bulge as means to judge the size of a man, and do you think if a man doesnt seem big in jeans it is unattractive or talked about by women. THanks in adavance..

 

[esteban]

ok don't worry at all. hell i'm about 3 flaccid, so there are people with smaller problems. rofl don't worry about it. if they're trying to cover their shit then that means they're embarassed its not as big as yours.

or, wear loose fitting jeans.

 

[scubaman70]

Hehe, thanks Esteban Im sure Ill always have cotch anxiety but your post def. helped. I think alot of it has to do with a lack of confidence in general. I am aboslutley obsessed with working out. And I been told by many women that I am very good looking. Sometimes I catch people staring at me (face) and I dont know weather its sub conscious or not but they will just start feeling their faces. Even though girls have told me other wise I feel like it's beacuse Im wierd looking or something and people want to make sure that they aren't either.
Kinda hard to talk about this stuff. I posted the same thing on another forum and I got flammed a little bit becuase people thought I was bragging and I just remeber thinking 'if they knew how I feel inside they would def. know that I wasn't bragging. :-(

 

[ctmwm]

You might have been getting "cruised" by a bi-guy. It has happens like that all the time.

 

[DLD]

They are not looking because they think you appear small, they are looking because it is a big myth that tall men have a huge package. Whether men will admit it or not, we all have some penis envy. Curiosity will always be prevalent in sexual mystique.

 

[TomdW]

Hi scubaman, I've spoken to many of my female friends about this. They say that women do look at mens crotches to check them out. Apparently women can actually tell subtleties in bulge a lot better than men (trained eyes). I don't think you have a problem though as you are well above average flacid size, did you consider that maybe they are looking because there is actually something to look at? Think about it, when I look at women in the streets, I don't look at them because I'm thinking 'small breasts' etc, I look at them if I like what I see. If I don't then I won't look. Same goes for women so it's good that they're looking. rofl