Ok let me start by giving a little background. Before me and my wife got together we were friends. We talked about everything and I mean everything. We were very open with each other and become very close which is what led to us getting together. Well after we got together that part of our relationship continued. So because of my insecurities the conversation led to me saying " I'm not sure what you're use to" (dick size). Well bless her heart not knowing it could crush a man she told me something that she said she had never told anyone before. She begins telling me that her first husband was "huge". That it was to big for her and that it hurt her most of the time which is the reason they hardly ever had sex and was part of the reason they got divorced because they never had that bond.
Well let me tell you after she said he was huge I didn't really hear much after that. It really screwed up my head for a while. I felt so much smaller than I actually am. It took me a little while to get over hearing her say that but then I realized hey she's with me and hasn't been with him for almost 20+ years. Screw it. We have a great sex life. Have had from the start so I moved on. The one thing I wish I knew was what her thought of "huge" is. I asked one time and she said she couldn't tell me a size in inches and didn't want to think about it so I left it alone until...........
Ok now the "test". I still wanted to know (even after 4 years) what she thought "huge" was and how I stacked up. So last night I got out the good ole tape measure and with the numbers facing me I asked her to tell me were she felt is a good length and where it go to be too big. So as I started to raise the tape up I (for laughs) stopped at 4" she just kinda snickered. I then move it up to 6.5" and stopped. She looked like "yeah that'll work". I then started to move the tape up and she said "hey that's enough" and I told her I'm bigger than that to which she replied " I know and you're starting to get to big". I stopped on 7" (my measurement) and she said "ok that's more than enough" to which I replied "that's where I'm at and as I moved the tape up to 8" said this is where I want to be she says "that's too big, it'll hurt me". I assured her it wouldn't and because it'll be a gradual thing and not all at once she wouldn't have any problems but that during this process if it ever started to hurt I would quit on length.
Anyway I just thought it interesting on her idea of "too big" and my idea of "too big" are way off. I pictured her ex being the size of DLD when in reality it's just a little bit longer than what I am. Speaking of DLD I actually took it up to 11" and said "hey what about here" and she said "what are you trying to do kill me" LOL.😊
Well let me tell you after she said he was huge I didn't really hear much after that. It really screwed up my head for a while. I felt so much smaller than I actually am. It took me a little while to get over hearing her say that but then I realized hey she's with me and hasn't been with him for almost 20+ years. Screw it. We have a great sex life. Have had from the start so I moved on. The one thing I wish I knew was what her thought of "huge" is. I asked one time and she said she couldn't tell me a size in inches and didn't want to think about it so I left it alone until...........
Ok now the "test". I still wanted to know (even after 4 years) what she thought "huge" was and how I stacked up. So last night I got out the good ole tape measure and with the numbers facing me I asked her to tell me were she felt is a good length and where it go to be too big. So as I started to raise the tape up I (for laughs) stopped at 4" she just kinda snickered. I then move it up to 6.5" and stopped. She looked like "yeah that'll work". I then started to move the tape up and she said "hey that's enough" and I told her I'm bigger than that to which she replied " I know and you're starting to get to big". I stopped on 7" (my measurement) and she said "ok that's more than enough" to which I replied "that's where I'm at and as I moved the tape up to 8" said this is where I want to be she says "that's too big, it'll hurt me". I assured her it wouldn't and because it'll be a gradual thing and not all at once she wouldn't have any problems but that during this process if it ever started to hurt I would quit on length.
Anyway I just thought it interesting on her idea of "too big" and my idea of "too big" are way off. I pictured her ex being the size of DLD when in reality it's just a little bit longer than what I am. Speaking of DLD I actually took it up to 11" and said "hey what about here" and she said "what are you trying to do kill me" LOL.😊
