My Family Found Out I Promoted Penis Enlargement

keepingitbig

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They found everything. My videos promoting my own site and this one. I like Penis Enlargement, because I believe it changed my life for me and other men out there. They called me a disgrace to myself and was disgusted by everything I do. The pictures and everything. My goal was to promote Penis Enlargement to a lot of people and including the world, so every man could gain the confidence. Now I feel my confidence is low. I feel that my goal and dreams will be ruined. They somehow seen my website through a family member. Penis Enlargement is health for every man out there. I wrote down my definite chief aim and look at it daily--even if times I'm negative just to bring light to my situation. Right now, I hate myself for bringing light to Penis Enlargement.
 
Don't hate yourself! I still remember how passionate you were in the "Will Penis Enlargement ever become mainstream" thread. Penis Enlargement needs to be presented to the world, because there are people with wrong beliefs (just like your family), which were influenced by the prejudiced society. There is too much prejudice! Everyone should understand that Penis Enlargement is like bodybuilding- you are training and developing yourself to become a better person (body improvements and confidence boost). You should never be ashamed of trying to help the world and finally open their eyes! You have no reason to be ashamed! It's just that your family is the part of the society that views everything with the prejudice of the whole society. I want to say so much, but it will just be the above said in different words! They are just too narrow minded to see the truth, unlike you. Never be ashamed of yourself when you are giving to the world something that the world really needs to accept! :)
 
It's okay, and you've got to understand it from their perspective even if they don't understand your own.


You've accepted that Penis Enlargement is real, and your natural human ability to be helpful to others kicks in and wants to spread the message. You're comfortable with your own self.

The family is shocked and the natural reaction is to become defensive (and offensive at the same time.) about it. "Oh, because of him I'm going to be known as the person with the family member who has a large member and talks about it on the internet"

It's like being in school, where one kid discovers something miniscule about a student and blows it out of proportion in front of the other students just to embarrass/shame the student to make themselves feel better about themselves.

They just don't understand, and as an adult you're allowed to make your own choices. If helping others by demonstrating something natural about our bodies is disgraceful to them, that's their problem, not yours.
 
keepingitbig, no one can defeat you except you. Don't let them take your dream away. Get them out of your head, stand-up, step-up, man-up, and fight for what you want. Penis Enlargement isn't a crime, you didn't do anything wrong. If anything, they are wrong because they probably didn't even try to understand what Penis Enlargement is about. Shoving their opinion down your throat by calling you a disgrace and disgusting. People like to condemn things they don't understand and label it bad, wrong, disgusting, evil, and other negative words. At the moment it's not a good feeling for you, don't let them get you down from it. Keep doing what enhances your life and is right for you, nevermind the discouraging words from the close-minded. It's just a bad experience and you'll work through it, coming out the other end a much better person from it. Now, get back to working on your dream.
 
I prefer to be true to myself, even at the hazard of incurring the ridicule of others, rather than to be false, and to incur my own abhorrence.
Frederick Douglass


I advise staying true to your purpose.
 
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They may think, hey, your into gay adult entertainment, because, basically, its guys that going to view your pics ?
This may confuse them a lot!
 
I'm alright. The only people that are actually improving in this family is me and my cousin. Everytime I mention I'm doing something good in my life, they always mention," You need to go to church." Well, to tell you the truth, church hasn't done anything to any other of my family members. My cousins, sister and everyone went to church, but my sister has a deadbeat boyfriend & children out of wedlock. But when I do something wrong, which is super rare, I'm always the bad one. Never will you see me be some type of stereotype, or talk like an idiot. Just not my thing. Penis Enlargement is just like boybuilding as someone else said. One of the guys at my gym has seen the video and the site & said there's nothing wrong about it. Man I hate belief systems. They just fck up your mind, man.
 
keepingitbig;550646 said:
I'm alright. The only people that are actually improving in this family is me and my cousin. Everytime I mention I'm doing something good in my life, they always mention," You need to go to church." Well, to tell you the truth, church hasn't done anything to any other of my family members. My cousins, sister and everyone went to church, but my sister has a deadbeat boyfriend & children out of wedlock. But when I do something wrong, which is super rare, I'm always the bad one. Never will you see me be some type of stereotype, or talk like an idiot. Just not my thing. Penis Enlargement is just like boybuilding as someone else said. One of the guys at my gym has seen the video and the site & said there's nothing wrong about it. Man I hate belief systems. They just fck up your mind, man.


You don't need anyone's approval (even your family's). What you do, do it because you love it or because you want to do. Don't let anyone discourage you! But it's not necessary not to let people discourage you, because they CAN"T! NO ONE CAN! Keep goin' fella and know that there is a legion of brothers behind you! All the best, Zam :)
 
Yeah man. Sounds like a life lesson. Thats cool that a family member saw it though.. Was it a guy? He's probably in the same boat we all were before we started, and who better to show him the ropes than another family member! Anyways, I feel you in the aspect that Im the black sheep of the family but its cool. If they truly are your family, then they will stick by you and be cool. If not then remember you got a family here at [words=http://www.mattersofsize.com/join-now.html]MOS[/words].
 
Appreciate that my dudes and houseofr00bes. I always tell guys to come to [words=http://www.mattersofsize.com/join-now.html]MOS[/words]. [words=http://www.mattersofsize.com/join-now.html]Mos[/words] is where it's at. Yes, I am considered the black sheep of the family. I like it that way. :D
 
Youa re pretty brave for putting it out there. personally I wouldnt want my friends and family to know, except for specific ones that I can trust with the info.
 
Imagine my life as the Penis Enlargement Poster Child!
 
Just saw this thread and had to comment.

"Disgrace to yourself?" Disgrace, as a man, would be just suBathmateissively accepting whatever life tosses you when you want more, and know you can get more.

There's this weird paradox, at least as I see it, where so much importance is placed, culturally, on the penis and how big it is, while at the same time the whole issue is regarded as a source of humor and, beneath that, something "disgraceful." For example, in movies and books its not uncommon for totally unlikable characters to have small dicks (even by rumor or implication) as a way of undermining or laughing at them, while heroes and likeable characters who are underdogs in every other respect invariably have big ones when the subject comes up.

As men, we're expected to be "tough," which in practical terms means just having a big dick because that's what "real men" have. If we don't, then we deserve to be the butt of people's jokes, and if we don't like that and get caught trying to do something about, it's like trying to change your "caste," as if you're some fundamentally inferior person who's just pretending (and most likely falling for some "internet scam.")

But in my view, there are two kinds of men: those that just accept this sense of inferiority that society tries to push on us as "the way things are," and those that say "Fuck you, I'm a man and my life is what I make it." I think most if not all of our brothers here are the second kind; I know I am and it sounds like you are, too. So be FUCKING PROUD of what you're doing, because real men aren't born, they're made.

And that was true even before we knew about Penis Enlargement :)
 
Zambrodom3;550647 said:
You don't need anyone's approval
You do need one person's approval. Your own.
If you can't believe in yourself, nobody will. Just don't let this phase you and you'll be fine.
 
Appreciate that DLD and others. Really good gang here. I think it's apart of our pro-feminist society. Anything that improves the male in any level is seen as weak, or if it pertains to this situation, It is seen as disgusting. Crazy how life works. I'm still promoting Penis Enlargement and will be doing so--guerrilla style in my area soon.
 
you know. on the lighter side *(i always try to cheer people up and this is my first post here)..

you COULD have looked at them and said

"i wouldn't have to do this if it weren't for YOUR substandard penis size genes...... GEE THANKS"..


but truthfully with time your family will calm down. they always do.
 
It's a matter of marketing outside of the internet, but that is still on the table. No matter. I wouldn't care if my face or any other is on a stamp of approval penis enlargement course, or device. I know for sure Penis Enlargement works, but the masses don't, or even grasp from others that Penis Enlargement still doesn't work.
 
wajiro;551288 said:
you know. on the lighter side *(i always try to cheer people up and this is my first post here)..

you COULD have looked at them and said

"i wouldn't have to do this if it weren't for YOUR substandard penis size genes...... GEE THANKS"..


but truthfully with time your family will calm down. they always do.
all that is hind sight, needs to move forward. For me, . said it best, "You can never go wrong by being yourself and living your truth."
 
They found everything. My videos promoting my own site and this one. I like Penis Enlargement, because I believe it changed my life for me and other men out there. They called me a disgrace to myself and was disgusted by everything I do. The pictures and everything. My goal was to promote Penis Enlargement to a lot of people and including the world, so every man could gain the confidence. Now I feel my confidence is low. I feel that my goal and dreams will be ruined. They somehow seen my website through a family member. Penis Enlargement is health for every man out there. I wrote down my definite chief aim and look at it daily--even if times I'm negative just to bring light to my situation. Right now, I hate myself for bringing light to Penis Enlargement.


Hey man, it's been a while since this was originally posted, but I had to join and write this. I can spend a lot of time detailing how F'd up "they" are for denigrating you but I won't. Instead, I want to encourage you to keep going. This is God's work. Seriously.

Think about it. Men stereo-typically don't talk about their feelings, even less their concerns, and above all, their penis size (if it's not satisfactory). The most vulnerable a human being feels is when they are naked. The value of a man is to fulfill (fully fill, really) his significant other. Like everything else in life, it's not fair. Some are born with a great package, others average, and some below average. This transcends race, culture, and religion. A penis, is a penis. Small is small and big is big. True, it's relative but tell that to our insecurities.

You can read books on self-esteem and hope that your tiny friend is good enough, or you can read books on self esteem AND do PE. Here's the thing though, who do I trust? Who actually has done this? It's my penis for God's sake. I don't want to f up the best thing in the world to me. Not to mention, the stigma like you've clearly shown exists. But, it takes those with courage. The pioneers. Those who dared to venture into the unknown, the taboo, but the necessary to plant your flag and say "This is the way up, guys. It's a long and hard road, but the payoffs are massive. Are you in?" At least with this, I KNOW there is a light at the end of the tunnel. My hours of private and intensive training has a proven record. Sure, it might not be mainstream "scientific" but who cares. We do with what we have at the moment.

But, if it isn't for veterans like you, who have been down the path, how are the newbies (not to mention the potential research scientists or doctors) ever going to hear about this community? Science or rather academia is more akin to art/politics than they'd care to admit and no one wants to blow their eight years of school on a pseudo/unproven and stigmatized field. However, through time and with the contributions by other veterans like yourself, that barrier lessens. You aren't posting this for the stupid people in the immediate vicinity/social circle, their minds are closed and their hearts hardened. You're doing this for men (and women) who want to experience the absolute best that they can.

Contrary to the ideas on race, sex, and culture which all seem fixated on static and immutable things (impossible, not proven, anti-blah blah blah) this gives us hope and a chance to change something that once was thought to be impossible. Hold your head up high and plow forward, you're making the world a more secure and hopeful place.
 
They found everything. My videos promoting my own site and this one. I like Penis Enlargement, because I believe it changed my life for me and other men out there. They called me a disgrace to myself and was disgusted by everything I do. The pictures and everything. My goal was to promote Penis Enlargement to a lot of people and including the world, so every man could gain the confidence. Now I feel my confidence is low. I feel that my goal and dreams will be ruined. They somehow seen my website through a family member. Penis Enlargement is health for every man out there. I wrote down my definite chief aim and look at it daily--even if times I'm negative just to bring light to my situation. Right now, I hate myself for bringing light to Penis Enlargement.

I will always be proud to introduce people to PE. I don't care what anyone thinks about me. Women are making their butts bigger all over the world and nobody is complaining. bro, do what you have to do. You are living your life for yourself and not your family. None of my sibling can dare do this to me. The PE gospel should be announced to every corner of this world. Be strong brother.
 
I will always be proud to introduce people to PE. I don't care what anyone thinks about me. Women are making their butts bigger all over the world and nobody is complaining. bro, do what you have to do. You are living your life for yourself and not your family. None of my sibling can dare do this to me. The PE gospel should be announced to every corner of this world. Be strong brother.
Same here. Men do not need to suffer with being too small. I will always promote what we do
 
I get being embarrassed that your family found out - not that it's really worth being embarrassed about in the first place. I hide it from my girl because I prefer to keep most things private, but if she ever found out, I'd say "baby, yeah, it's a little different, but believe it or not I do this for you :)" I'm sure she'd get over it and I know she already appreciates the extra fullness I've added in just 3 short weeks.

Fu*K anyone who's going to make you feel like a disgrace for wanting to improve a piece of your body that you're not happy with. What's the difference between aunt Sandy getting a boob job? That's a helluva a lot more expensive and equally vain. PE takes dedication and commitment. If anything, they should be impressed by you. Just my 2 cents
 
I get being embarrassed that your family found out - not that it's really worth being embarrassed about in the first place. I hide it from my girl because I prefer to keep most things private, but if she ever found out, I'd say "baby, yeah, it's a little different, but believe it or not I do this for you :)" I'm sure she'd get over it and I know she already appreciates the extra fullness I've added in just 3 short weeks.

Fu*K anyone who's going to make you feel like a disgrace for wanting to improve a piece of your body that you're not happy with. What's the difference between aunt Sandy getting a boob job? That's a helluva a lot more expensive and equally vain. PE takes dedication and commitment. If anything, they should be impressed by you. Just my 2 cents
When people shame a person for wanting to physically better him or herself, they are being narrow minded and only thinking of themselves. They are either forcing their own values and expected behaviors on that person or are trying to feel more powerful over their own inadequacies. We all can easily be picked apart of society standards for physical flaws and imperfections. When you shame another person's physical attributes, you're shaming God and his work.
 
That's another, even deeper way to look at it. Great point Di Able. It's just bullshit that this person's family is stigmatizing PE when I'm taking a guess that if his wife wanted fake breasts or a butt life they wouldn't think twice. I think if the OP sits their family down and likes PE to all of these other cosmetic surgeries that all of Hollywood gets, keeping in mind also that with PE, the only person that really knows anything has changed is you and your partner vs cosmetic surgery you can literally look like a different person - to your point, undoing God's genetic plan for you. We've got your back OP - put someone on the phone, I'll set them straight! 😂
 
People can shame you but they will never have what you have.
It's funny how some tendencies start when we're children and never fade. People are so quick to judge based on ignorance, stigmas, and being associated with the person that is doing something taboo if you will.

I bartended at a gay bar for many years. When our clients were within the confines of our establishment. they were in their happy, safe place. Just like this board is to many of us. Outside of here, many of us don't talk about what we do bc we don't want to deal with the giggles, questions, and judgement. Just like many of my gay clientele, they didn't choose to be born that way. It was God's will, and they're left to navigate this cruel world identifying, whether out or not, as a homosexual. Similar to PE, we didn't ask to be born with a small penis or inadequate in our regards. Thankfully, unlike my gay friends, we can do something about it. Society says that if you don't like your current situation, change it! But not your penis. lol They can all get fucked. Seriously, OP, if you ever want to chat I'm happy to be a sound board. There has to be many commonalities between what my gay clients felt outside of their trusted group of friends and like many of us would feel like outside of the board if we chose to make it known that we all aspire to have a bigger cock for one reason or another.

I digress :)
 
Just like many of my gay clientele, they didn't choose to be born that way. It was God's will, and they're left to navigate this cruel world identifying, whether out or not, as a homosexual.
That would make God a contradictory God when he destroyed Sodom and Gomorrah (Genesis 19:1-29) and made his sexual laws of laying down with family, beasts and men (Leviticus 18:1-29) & punishments for violating those laws (Leviticus 20:1-27)
 
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That would make God a contradictory God when he destroyed Sodom and Gomorrah (Genesis 19:1-29) and made his sexual laws of laying down with family, beasts and men (Leviticus 18:1-29)

Exactly
 
That would make God a contradictory God when he destroyed Sodom and Gomorrah (Genesis 19:1-29) and made his sexual laws of laying down with family, beasts and men (Leviticus 18:1-29) & punishments for violating those laws (Leviticus 20:1-27)
Dont forget that sins or correction are of equal value.

I don’t encourage homosexuality, but I dont encourage heterosexual lustfulness either. And gods sees it both the same way. As a correction to be made in order to become who you naturally are.

The only sin that god wont never forgive is not suicide, its doing what lucifer did with the fallen angels. But here on earth with your fellow humans
 
Dont forget that sins or correction are of equal value.

I don’t encourage homosexuality, but I dont encourage heterosexual lustfulness either. And gods sees it both the same way. As a correction to be made in order to become who you naturally are.

The only sin that god wont never forgive is not suicide, its doing what lucifer did with the fallen angels. But here on earth with your fellow humans

What is that sin?
 
Dont forget that sins or correction are of equal value.

I don’t encourage homosexuality, but I dont encourage heterosexual lustfulness either. And gods sees it both the same way. As a correction to be made in order to become who you naturally are.

The only sin that god wont never forgive is not suicide, its doing what lucifer did with the fallen angels. But here on earth with your fellow humans
Sin or Correction has nothing to do with the statement @Jdneu12 made, "Gays didn't choose to be born that way, it was God's will. " Actually, that's Satan's will, not God's.

All humans are naturally sinners, so, to make the statement, "As a correction to be made in order to become who you are naturally are" seems contradictive to me.

God forgives all sins, but you must understand the condition of God's forgiveness of sin. (John 14:6) If you don't accept the condition and reject it, there is no forgiveness of sin. (John 3:36)
 
Sin or Correction has nothing to do with the statement @Jdneu12 made, "Gays didn't choose to be born that way, it was God's will. " Actually, that's Satan's will, not God's.

All humans are naturally sinners, so, to make the statement, "As a correction to be made in order to become who you are naturally are" seems contradictive to me.

God forgives all sins, but you must understand the condition of God's forgiveness of sin. (John 14:6) If you don't accept the condition and reject it, there is no forgiveness of sin. (John 3:36)
Every sin past, present and future was forgiven at the cross.
 
That sounds like a loop-hole for everyone to continue to sin anytime against God and they'll be forgiven.

Once you believe Christ died and was resurrected you are saved. Every sin you will ever commit happened after our savior died for those sins. Study the books of John and Hebrew's.

If our future sins are not forgiven, then two things must happen: 1) when we sin in the future, we revert to an unforgiven state, meaning we lose our salvation and must be saved again, and 2) Christ must die again to cover the sins we’ve committed since His last death. Neither of these scenarios is biblical. We are kept by God, and thus our salvation is secure (John 10:28–30); and Christ died “once for all” (Hebrews 10:10; cf. Hebrews 7:25).
 
Once you believe Christ died and was resurrected you are saved. Every sin you will ever commit happened after our savior died for those sins. Study the books of John and Hebrew's.

If our future sins are not forgiven, then two things must happen: 1) when we sin in the future, we revert to an unforgiven state, meaning we lose our salvation and must be saved again, and 2) Christ must die again to cover the sins we’ve committed since His last death. Neither of these scenarios is biblical. We are kept by God, and thus our salvation is secure (John 10:28–30); and Christ died “once for all” (Hebrews 10:10; cf. Hebrews 7:25).
I'm finishing up Revelation right now. I'll have to go back and study those two books again.... thanks
 
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This is what I told a friend too. All our sins are forgiven even the ones yet to be committed. But won't this type of mindset makes one commit more sins?

This is not an excuse to sin it is a place of trust in Jesus and that with the Holy Spirit we have confidence in our salvation. The gift is freedom from our sins and the understanding the Father loves the sinner who trusts in His Son. Embrace the freedom of salvation.
 
I'm finishing up Revelation right now. I'll have to go back and study those two books again.... thanks

My favorite books are those of Saint Paul. But I also love John and Revelations.
 
This is what I told a friend too. All our sins are forgiven even the ones yet to be committed. But won't this type of mindset makes one commit more sins?

That's not like that. As Our Lord said, the blasphemy against the Holy Spirit will not be forgiven and a sin within that unforgivable sin is impenitence (the determination to not repent and keep sinning).

The requirements for one's sins being forgiven are either Baptism (Trinitarian formula) or 1. examination of conscience, 2. heart pain, 3. purpose of amendment, 4. confess all sins in the same confession with a validly ordinated priest (St. John 20:23-25) and 5. to fulfill the penance imposed.
So many people, me included, say it is the greatest relief the've ever experienced.

If there's no priest at the moment of one's death one can perform an act of perfect contrition but one shall never expect to do that since one could die at the least expected moment.
 
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