Your Approaching methods[Add to this]

Hopefully we can get some good material in this thread from everyone on how they approach woman and what methods they use in order to do this.

Provide as much detail as possible and than we can maybe use it ourselves.

Here's one of my all time favs



OK the first I have used MANY times with GREAT success in night clubs its almost scary ... when you first read it you may think 'This guy is a right big headed prick' but its all about confidence/humour/control in this movement!!

The scene as I have said is 9/10 a night club. Right, so I subtly check out the talent around and notice a fine piece of ass is checking me out from one of the tables with her freinds.

Now, just to pause here ... I'm not going to go into indepth detail on the eye contact and the usual ritual displays such as her looking away and me being the last to look away etc etc but I'm going to skip that and get straight into the move .. sure you will appreciate that but if you want any info' on what you could do beforehand or aint sure than ask!!!

OK, so she's checking me out from the table and has a few freinds with her.
SKIPPING the usual ritual displays now and you must assume I have had the Green light and I'm now approaching the table!!

Once I get to the table, well to be honest I almost strut to the table in a cocky but not OTT fashion ... picture James Bond/Will Smith and you will know what I mean. I smile and loook directly at her and NOT AT ANY OF HER FREINDS ... IGNORE looking at the freinds unless they speak to you or the girl your after introduces them to you ... this is about control and showing your a real man and not just some common player she has to deal with night after night, and they will look up and down the entire table which shows they will settle for whatever is on offer ... but a man doesnt.

Right, so I'm looking at her and usually say something like ''Hi wow you look dazzleing howcome I havent seen you in here before and most importantly how come your not my girlfreind'' now its VITAL how this is said and what your doing when its said. Look at her the whole time [Eye contact] and say it confidently but in a playful sexy manner.

Usually what happens is one of two things. 1] She will APPenis EnlargementAR [Notice how I use the word appear] to get defensive [This guy is a arrogant jerk and I dont want to know] or she will go with the flow ... which is easier. 9 times out of 10 she will respond back and infact I havent had a girl not respond to me.

The girl that appears defensive isnt really that way, its an act but you must use humour and confidence to break that barrier down ... if shes too much trouble than move on to another.

They will usually bust my balls and take the piss out of me for a moment and I return the ball busting and we laugh. Now once you have settled, you can continue the flirting that started this encounter across the dance floor ... use that eye contact .. do not look at her mates still or her breasts etc even if they are huge, just concentrate on her face.

I usually allow around 5-10 mins before I move onto the next stage which is a game I play with them ... its a simple game called Thumb wars.

To get to this, simply ask her 'can I see your hands' ... she will ask why, say that you need to look at them and see if they are suitable for the game you wish to play ... if she is shy than show her your hands and use some humour like look how soft they are .. like a babies arse.

Once her hands are on the table, you can take them and rub your fingers around her palm which is stimulating and erotic to many woman ... doing this you can look at her with that seductive eye from time to time and explain and describe that her hands arent perfect ... infact you have seen many better hands for the job but hers will have to do ... joke around about this, bust her balls ... dont say your hands are perfect for the job ... bust her balls. I once said that my fathers hands are more suitable and the girl looked at me in disbelief, like maybe she thought I was going to ask her to wank me and my dads hands were good for that she started to smile soon after and got her appetite wet for the game.

Okay than .. once the hands are done and dusted you say to her the game is very simple .... its thumb wars ... she will say shes heard of it and her brother tormented her with it. If she doesnt know than your going to have to explain it to her.

Now you tell her the RULES and the PRIZE for the winner. This will get most woman instantly wondering whats going to happen. I simply tell them its the best of 5 war's .... than I wait for her to ask me [which they usually cant wait to] what the prize is .... I delay and look into her eyes with powerful seduction and chemistry ... my eyes smile and I say ... the prize is simple ... if you win I will buy all your drinks for the night in here. I'll give you the cash myself ...... now delay again and she will ask what if you win. If I win ... I get to give you a kiss.

Its thats simple ... its VERY POWERFUL .. you couldnt do this random as you would be branded a pervert but as you both have been flirting before you got to this stage she has expressed sexual interest in you from the start and will actually be very pleased and impressed by this ... how many fucking guys have the brains and confidence to pull this off ? NOT MANY I can tell you and it shows her that you are confident, a real man, someone who knows what he wants and your in control. Remember the freinds dont exist at this table, even if they are models ... ignore them unless they speak or she introduces them to you and than place your attention back to her.

Right so the game begins ... I can also say out of Hydromaxmmm it must be well over 20 times I have done this method, I have only lost ONCE. Is that because I'm good at thumb wars? NO its because the woman WANTS a kiss and she doesnt try ... its true ... trust me on this.

Once the thumb war has ended and you have won [YOU MUST WIN] she will usually get excited and smile allot [nerves] and than you can go in for that kiss ...Slowly go for the kiss and touch her lips once and pull back ... look right at her and smile than go in for the kill .... I usually do a very slow deliberate kiss all over her lips and pay attention to the bottom lip ... many times she will start the french kissing which is fine ... go for it.

When the kiss has ended you look at eachother ... say something witty to her and than prepare to get up and leave the table [LEAVE YOU SAY] ... you can if you want to now, write down your number and leave it with her ... if you do say scribble yours down for me. I usually dont do this yet, but simply get up .. smile at her and say that I have to go, we'll talk later. Usually the girl will be surprised your going as most guys would cling by this point ... its telling her your in control and shes not calling the shots. You can also delay in leaving so she wont think you just came for the kiss ... if you do than delay only for around 15-20 mins than get the hell out ... EJECT haha

Go over to the bar and get a drink ... go to your mates ... whatever ... just dont go back to that table. Dont start telling your mates about it and having them glareing over and laughing. If you also really want her and feel its all gone well than dont go around flirting with other woman at this point ... very important as it just shows [She will be watching and her mates WILL] that your a common player who is ... well two a penny and nothing special.

Now I can tell you that the girl will most probably seek you out before the end of the night ... all the woman I tried this on bar the one did this and they were like putty in my hands. I get to know them better later and depending on what their like I will either have a one night stand, use them as a fuck buddy [With their permission] or they become a girlfreind.

This method has worked for me so many times its fuckin sick ... it takes allot of confidence to work though and you must get your voice tone correct and get your kissing game to a high standard ... afterall if your kissing is shit than she might not want to comeback.

Another tip is, if you sit next to her than try and get your bulge exposed I usually have a semi erection all night when I'm on the town so it bulges like fuck so make it a point that your legs are positioned so she CAN SEE THIS ... it will make her more keen and wonder what Python you have

I hope you guys enjoy this method and try it yourselves ... has got me many good pussy and a few good girlfreinds.

Hey Red can I borrow your "bulge" for a night?

hehehe sure dude ... lets say $1000 incl postage and packing?

Very ballsy moves and a great read

Tell us some more patented moves.

p.s. Did you ever hear back from that chick from work who left?

p.p.s. Check your gmail

Yeah I forgot to mention dont do it if your drunk.
I'll throw more into here soon .. I want others to put in.
Will check it .. dont use it much man ... its the other account.
Have posted the chick thing in the thread in this section.

Something else I do from time to time when I'm excited and I know the woman is VERY interested in me and seems the type that is confident and wild .. you know how to tell, you guys know what I mean? This comment might not work well if shes shy or the type who isnt as direct and flirty, so bare that in mind.

I would walk over to them and be all confident with smiles and the usual shit that David DeAngelo preaches .. than I say ''Hiya goodlooking'' [While doing this its done in a low tone of voice and sorta sexy] ...... [Pause while looking at her for around 2 seconds] than ''You look HOT'' [Said with great expression in the face and you almost pounce forward with excitement .. its said with passion and energy.

I'll let you in on a secret .. I STOLE this from the film 'Face Off' when John Travolta does it to Nicholas Cage .. GREAT FILM .... watch it at that part, infact watch the whole film as its great ... see how John does it and DO THE SAME!!!!

Its just something to play with and have fun too ... if she doesnt dig it than bollocks to her, move onto the next tail and try getting that ... HAVE FUN ... most important HAVE FUN while you flirt .. OBSERVE other succesful players and learn.

I love that scene. By the way whats the ratio of this working? Like on average what the chances of it working on a chick who digs you. I like that you pause and change voice tone thats a cool idea and I'll have to keep that in mind my next approach.

Well ... I would say its 70% 7/10 woman 70/100 700/100 hahahaha

Serious .. it works alright ... BEST used when you KNOW you can get her ... know what I mean? not when you want to pull, you have already set the foundations before you use this with insane flirting and she and you know its on .. this just helps push it onto the next level ... use your judgement and make the call ... its FUN ... yea I LOVE that scene with John in ... someone needs to cut that scene and get it on here.

Problem - it begins with her checking YOU out from across the room - not all of us look like you Red!

Great thread. Thanks for the tips. Any tip for hooking up with foreign gals while on vacation? I'm heading out of the country next week.

RED I thought I would add one in here for you. Now this is not me being up myself but you need to be fairly attractive to pull this off as it pulled off by eye contact.
Find a seat and relax with your mates watch the dance floor and make your pick. The pick has to be made very carefully and not to early in the night but not to late as you do not want to be trying to hit up a chick that you are going to have to take care of later. Oh and you also have to be willing to dance.
Ok so you are looking through the crowed and what you are looking for is anyone that may be looking your way I will gaurantee you if you keep looking there is going to be someone that spots you and if you see them looking at you and you do not fancy them do not carry on but if you think they are the one for the night here is
The next step. There has to be eye contact there and you need to be the one that breaks the eye contact first. Do not stare as this can creep them out.
Next step. Look back at them don't stop until you get eye contact again it is bound to happen so just keep looking. Now you have got the eye contact quickly turn around and tell your mates about the chick they will look over and there is no doubt that she will still be looking.
Next step. She is going to turn to her friends and tell them about you and your mates now you need to be looking here because she will point you out. This is the best part because you get to see how many friends she is with and how good looking they are for your mates.
Next step. In our club there are not many seats available but we like to get there early so this can be done. Each bench or table has a lounge around it and you can fit 6 people on the lounge and there are normally 4 of us. So room for only 2 more but here is where you get to talk to the girl anyway.
Stand up and walk over to her and as RED said with his pick up you need to be very confident make sure you are not pissed and make sure your breath smells good and you have got a expensive cologne on. The music is load use this to your advantage. At this stage you will find out if she is keen or not ask her if her and her friends would like to come and sit with you but say it softly. She will get really close to your ear this is where you need that nice cologne and she will yell "What" do it again make sure she can not here you. She will say what again. Now yell in her ear and say that you can not hear her and can she move of the dance floor so you can talk to her. If she is keen you will not get a yell back in your ear she will nod her head this part has been proven many times by us.
Next step. Do not just walk of hoping that she will follow because it ain't going to happen. Hold her hand as you go to walk out if you do not do this she will stay with her friends and at this stage do not turn back to talk to her as she will tell you that she needs to tell her friends. Her friends at this stage are your worst enemy. But only at this stage.
Next step. Ok you have her of the dance floor and you are able to talk to her but it is still load so you need to speak into her ear. Once again cologne and nice breath. Make sure she can hear what you have to say now because if she can not and she has to say what 10 more times she will get annoyed and walk off on you. So first thing that you want to tell her is your name and that your are there with your mates and that there are a couple more seats available at the table and that they are quite welcome to come and sit with you. Do not wait for a answer tell her to invite her friends over.
I am going to give you something here that is the key to any pick up. You can use this for almost everything in life if you are confident enough. There are a few words that can get you things they are (Wont it) (isn't it) (Doesn't it)
I am going to use these in a sentence so you best understand them. Well this is what I use at this point any way.
How are you may names Damo whats yours. answer BLAH BLAH
Hey look we have a few seats over here just get you friends to come over lets have a chat and I will get use a round of drinks it will be fun wont it. Or you could use sounds like fun Doesn't it or sili to be standing all night isn't it. Now these are very hard to say no to so trust me she is going to call her friends over or you make the first move call her friends over for her.
Next step. They are at the table and sitting on the lounge and your mates are talking getting introduced and what not. Now tell her that you promised her and her friends a round of drinks and just for the record get your mates a round of drinks to nothing worse then I guy that goes to the bar only for the chicks. Walk with her to the bar so she can see when you buy the drinks that you do not put anything in them. Go back to the table and as I said before there are only 6 seats now they normally all taken due to her friends and your mates. So stand there and chat let her finish her drink make idle chitt chatt pretend to be interested in her. Ask what she does for a living. Once you have done this and only once you have done this tell her how great she looks in her dress or clothes. Notice I said dress or clothes do not tell her that her eyes are beautiful do not tell her that she has a lovely smile. This girls has spent hours deciding what dress to wear out and they love comments on there clothes.
Next step. She and her friends have finished her drinks now we ask them to dance. We have one mate that does not dance so he protects our seats. Dance for a bit with her looking her in the eye and hold her hands while dancing important step, then lean in and say to her if you would like a kiss smile for me. Make sure she can here you if she hears you she will smile do not be afraid to give her a kiss on the cheek but check her reaction if she flinches back you are going to have your work cut out for the rest of the night but if she does not move or even moves in for a kiss you are in luck. Oh and if she moves in for a kiss on th lips do so but no French kisses yet stay in control.
The whole time that you are doing this make sure that there is a sarcastic look on your face or should I say make out that you are just having some fun and joking.
Next step. So now it is time to make the real move on her and make her yours for the rest of the night. once again in her ear because you wanting her to smell that 200 dollar cologne that you are wearing " you have 2 choices to make number 1 is you close your eyes and I kiss you and you can pretend that I am brad pitt or Number 2 you can close your eyes and just kiss me"
2 options is all it takes oh and make sure that when you are talking in her ear you are not making eye contact with her so when you pull away she will be either have her eyes open or shut 90% of the time I have got to this stage and they have there eyes shut but is they don't at least you now and you can move on to the next chick. And after you give her the kiss of her life joke about it to break the ice but saying hey you where thinking about brad pitt.

This is one of the ones that my mates and I made up a long time ago and it barely failed you have to work as a team though and make it fun it is not all about picking up but meeting new people. Also take turns at who is going to do the eye contact see who is better at it and then you have the perfect weapon.

I don't know man, I live in Las Vegas now and the girls out here are definitely different than most anywhere else. See, girls out here are FAKE as hell and like to hustle guys in very way, shape, or form that they can to get whatever it is that THEY want, which is usually drinks or money or both. If they sense that you are not going to be buying their drinks or giving them money are being of any use to THEM, they blow you off like you're nothing. Not to say that girls haven't hit on me here, there was one girl who walked all the way across the club to ask me if I was wearing a certain type of cologne, I told her yes and she was like "that's hot". I asked her if she would like to dance, she asked me if she could bring her friends over to our booth, I told her that it was not up to me and she gave this disinterested, pissed off look (she was just trying to use me so they could be at a table).

But I'm sure that works GREAT most anywhere else, sadly enough treating girls like the sluts they are here is what works, but you'll NEVER find one at a club for any type of good relationship, just a one-night stand 99% of the time.

Little Fella, I liked that allot .. cheers. Would you share some of your success stories? Your from Australia?

Lets hear it guys!

Rude_God;306117 said:

Problem - it begins with her checking YOU out from across the room - not all of us look like you Red!

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Just get toned and build the arms: even the ugliest fucks can score if they have a nice body. I know I use the word 'just' but trust me: toning your body is a whole lot easier than toning your face; lucky that 90% of girls value the body more.

Thanks Red, i know this stuff is good, cos i did something similiar and it works, eye contact is the secret club, you aint invited if you cant enter the door, or the windows to the soul.

nice man

Would be good if more added to this with either things they know work or stuff that they have tried themselves.

I'll add another to this and hope more guys keep adding new additions.

I have actually used this one a few times on very hot girls that have all the mens attention in a bar or club. Its best used when she is going over to the bar or is in an area where not too many men are but if that is the case it doesn't really matter. It could distract her though from giving you her attention.

Okay so she is in the venue and looks dropdead gorgeous ... its almost sick she is that sexy. All the guys are drooling pathetically and eyeing her up, but you do not. Even though you want, do not do this .. dont let her know or her mates know, grab a glance when you can otherwise you wouldnt know she was sexy right?! Okay .. so she is amazing to behold ... has her pick of all the men and to be 100% honest this move is not really a pickup line or to pull but rather a statement to make towards a hot women that you find her attractive, your giving her the okay BUT unlike other men you have also found a fault and said this.

She goes over to the bar or you can become near enough to her to allow this to happen. I prefer the bar. Walk over and order a drink. Walk with confidence .. you know the score here blah blah blah. DO NOT look at her while stood at the bar, imagine she does not exist. She may side glance you, normal human behavior to look at the person next to them but DO NOT look back .. you may see this in your peripheral vision, just order the drink and slowly take a sip with confidence and dominance ... like your the man here, but not overly so to seem like a jerk.

Now comes the party piece per se. You turn to her slowly and with purpose, its like a James Bond move and how he never shows emotion in his face. Turn your body and head as if your now exiting the bar and going back to where you came from. Look at her now .... fingers crossed she is looking at you or if she is waiting at the bar and sees this chances are she will look your way. Catch the eyes and hold the gaze, give a smile but not a large goofy one .... move your eyes across her dress and flesh within a few seconds, not too fast and not too slow ... enough to show confidence e.g you will take your time to look at her and two she does not intimate you, her beauty is not intimidating to you.

Once that has been done you make the comment ''Hello there my names Ricky ... that dress/top/skirt looks nice on you ... it really does ... but your eyes dont quite go with the color .... its good though'' and than smile say see you later or whatever and walk on. Now what has happened is she has had a rude awaking. You have said only NICE ... not hot or damn that thing is amazing ... just nice, its much more informal .... she will be like ''but I thought I was amazing'' secondly you have said about her eyes not quite matching the color, I mean this is just something you can fake or if her eyes are crap or you dont feel confident enough than use something else like lipstick etc.

She'll be like ''He has picked something on me that doesn't look right'' this is something the other men will not have said, dared to say. Your different. Now this could work that she finds you later or goes with you than to talk more and even chat about those eyes hahaha if so than you must progress how you feel. Some women will say nothing back at all whatsoever and will not want to ask you out that night BUT they will remember you and so far as the comments are kept in a non insulting way and said in a nice tone of voice, she wont have bad vibes to you.

It makes you different and does work.

Another approach method is called the 3 second rule. (sorry if its already been mentioned)

When you see a girl you want to talk to, often you will procrastinate, hesitate, think desperately for something excellent to say to this girl and sometimes part of your mind will try and find reasons to avoid her to remove the anxiety you may be feeling.

The 3 second rule shits all over these problems. Pretty much, after seeing a girl you want to talk to, you have 3 seconds to go up to her and start a conversation. This will get rid of any hesitation and will push past the anxiety, and will make the conversation more free flowing and natural instead of that well rehearsed script you would have planned out in your head for five minutes while eyeing her off and suffering from your anxiety.