Tried swinging...

Well, my wife and I got a wild hair up our ass, mainly me having to push her into the idea, of swinging. We met up with a local couple, hung out for a bit, had a BBQ with them and everything, and before you know it, started out playing strip poker and then one thing leads into the next and pretty soon, we're going at it. I have to admit that though at first I thought that I would be jealous, I had absolutely no issues like that whatsoever. We actually had a great time, there were absolutely no jealousy issues on either parts, she got to be with a girl sexually for her first time and we've actually decided that we would like to have somewhat of a long-term thing with this couple.

So I can honestly say, for all of you guys out there who have fantasies about seeing your girl do things with another guy, maybe try to convince her to try swinging. I think that it has everything to do with picking the right couple who share most of the same thoughts, fantasies, and ideas that you do. We definitely enjoyed ourselves tremendously and for those of you who are wondering about it, I'd say give it a shot.

Anyway, sorry for all that ranting, we just had a blast this weekend.

Man i am glad you enjoyed it so much, lets just hope you didn't open a huge can of worms right there and all goes as you expect it.

Most men, me included, have the curiosity on the matter but actually doing it is not for everyone.

I don't think i would be able to live with the image of my woman being fucked and pounded by other dudes. I would like to reap the benefits of fucking other women but the price is to high for me.

Go easy and be carefull.

Peace

Mike

Yeah, as far as opening a can of worms, I definitely already feel that vibe. See, that was not only mine or my wife's first time ever doing something like that, but it was also her first time ever doing anything with a female sexually (which she's been wanting to do really, really bad for a really long time). I've been trying to explain to her about this "couple" that she is wanting to be with for a "long-period" of time and things just seem to go in one ear and out the other. See, she's thinking they're just going to stick with only us as an "exclusive couple" because that's what we want, not what they say they wanted. See, the girl is also on birth control and in a couple of weeks once it's kicked in and started working, they want to have sex without condoms (they also suggested to my wife to get on BC).

The weird part is that after the first day that we met them, they gave us a key to their house, never asked us if we had any STDs or anything and I know for a fact that if they're going to be doing "other" couples, they will most likely do the same. I tried telling my wife that we're taking a HUGE risk of getting some type of communicable disease, all she said to me was "Well, I like it and I'm not going to stop doing it and either are you." and I tried telling her that it was EXTREMELY strange to give somebody your house key, especially after you've only known them for 5 hrs. (at the time they gave it to us). This whole thing looks like it might possibly be turning out to be for the worst and my wife is just so damn irresponsible, I basically told her that she could go have sex with couples, and that I would have sex with just other women and that I wouldn't even have sex with her anymore, she just got all pissed and said I was trying to "sabotage" all her fun.

Believe me, there are absolutely no jealousy issues, watching her get fuc*ed by another man while I was on his wife, was actually pretty damn cool, we all had a lot of fun and nobody had any issues at that time but over the past few days of being around them, I just start to feel like there are things they aren't telling us and it's just a huge mess, I think I'd rather just quit doing it altogether and not risk dying from HIV (which can go full blown as little as 2 weeks now). Or acquiring any other type of disease.

Some people are just too irresponsible when it comes to sex and obviously, my wife and this couple are some of those people and to be frank, it's starting to be a MAJOR turn-off for me just due to the fact that it's too big of a risk.

As far as what you said about you not being able to see your wife get "pounded" by other dudes. I can't honestly tell you how I would feel about that, because this guy can't "pound". I mean, put it this way, he's 6.5" long and pretty girthy, I'm only 4" long and like 3" in girth. That entire night, just due to the fact that I was extremely nervous because this dude had a way bigger dick than me, I kept going soft, I'd get it up for like a few seconds, and then I would start to go limp again. So I was doing this guys wife with a limp probably 2.5"-3" penis and all I did was pound the hell out of her, I'm not trying to boast or anything, but she made a hell of a lot more noise with me than with her own husband. So I have come to the conclusion that size is DEFINITELY not the issue with women, because she even said that she LOVED it.

The guy is not very talented the only thing that he's even good with, is his fingers (according to the wifey). And believe me, almost the entire time, she was yelling at him to "back off" because he was doing a NUMEROUS amount of things that she did NOT like at all. But, she had so much damn fun with the girl that she wants to continue doing it.

I think it's more of a taboo thing for her that makes her so excited about it (the idea of getting fuc*ed while making out with a girl and watching me fuc* another woman, believe me, she enjoyed watching me do that guys wife, probably more than I enjoyed it, lol.

I see a regret coming... Just my opinion...

Nah, I guess I was wrong, we talked to them earlier yesterday and they cleared it up that if anything they would only be looking for 1 other couple. It's true that it's not really possible living where we do (there aren't all that many swingers in the area). Anyhow, I'll see how everything goes and I'll keep posting.

Well mate i have a few words for you...

YOU WERE NOT, AND ARE NOT READY FOR THIS...

Also, one more thing, DO NOT GAMBLE WITH YOUR LIFE dude.

ABSOLUTELY FORBIDEN TO HAVE SEX UNPROTECTED even with people you do know for a long time, let alone some couple you just met. That is just downright stupid. Sorry to be so blunt but this is the 21st century and information is all around you regarding STD's. DO NOT DO IT UNLESS PROTECTED.

If your wife wants to keep doing it even if you are unconfortable with it then you've got issues to resolve mate. That can only leed to rupture.

Talk to her and make her understand it's your lifes your playin' with here. Be responsible. Be calm. She will understand.

Be carefull not to get "blindfolded" by her arguments because if she loves you then she will respect you.

Even 1 time is enough for all kinds of deseases so NEVER let it happen ok?

Hope it turns out ok for you all.

P.s. I would destroy that other woman with mine :D but at the price of letting my woman get fucked by another man is not in the cards for me.

Peace

Mike

This guy approached me at the club with the same proposal. He's old and fat, by the way. I'm old and fit.

Now, since joining MOS, and reading some of the members' experiences, I started to fantasize about it. And then reality kicked in.

After I got over the fantasy, Mike's concerns hit me first. Shit!! God only knows what this guy and his swingin' wife have. How long have they been at this? Have they used protection? Blah, blah, blah.

And my Mrs.? Forget it!! She is not Gashking's wife. Shit!!! She's a hottie, but she's also the last person I can think of who would even consider it.

And the ultimate "nail in the swingin' coffin" hit me!! I'd fuckin' pound the shit out of any guy who even mentioned the IDEA of fuckin' my wife!!

Ninja77;278834 said:

See, the girl is also on birth control and in a couple of weeks once it's kicked in and started working, they want to have sex without condoms (they also suggested to my wife to get on BC).

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The risk among married couples is pretty low. Granted if you're talking widespread swinging, that is different, but if they haven't done this much before and are planning to keep it pretty exclusive, it'll be some of the safest unprotected sex you could have, though nothing is ever guaranteed.

I think possibly the best idea would be to get them tested EVERY time BEFORE we have sex (if they don't want to, then no go). Obviously, no matter how much my wife gets mad, there's absolutely nothing she can do if I refuse (which is the nice part about swinging) and I know for a fact that she would never cheat on me. I know that HIV is going around in our area, because a few years back I knew Eddie Moss (Michael Jackson look-alike who worked in our area and also played as Michael Jackson on Scary Movie III) we hung out a few times, after he did the Scary Movie III though, he started doing cocaine and having unprotected orgies with god knows who up here and all I know is that he ended up getting HIV from some girl that he slept with up here and not to mention that only God knows who else he gave aids to, because I believe that after he found out, he still continued to have unprotected orgies, but just didn't tell anybody. I believe he now lives in Las Vegas and was working on the TV show Nip Tuck playing as Michael Jackson.

Anyhow, with a 7 month old daughter to take care of, and mine and my wife's health to consider, it's definitely not a risk I'm willing to consider. Anyhow, like I said, I will keep everyone posted on how everything turns out.

Ninja77;278953 said:

I think possibly the best idea would be to get them tested EVERY time BEFORE we have sex (if they don't want to, then no go). Obviously, no matter how much my wife gets mad, there's absolutely nothing she can do if I refuse (which is the nice part about swinging) and I know for a fact that she would never cheat on me. I know that HIV is going around in our area, because a few years back I knew Eddie Moss (Michael Jackson look-alike who worked in our area and also played as Michael Jackson on Scary Movie III) we hung out a few times, after he did the Scary Movie III though, he started doing cocaine and having unprotected orgies with god knows who up here and all I know is that he ended up getting HIV from some girl that he slept with up here and not to mention that only God knows who else he gave aids to, because I believe that after he found out, he still continued to have unprotected orgies, but just didn't tell anybody. I believe he now lives in Las Vegas and was working on the TV show Nip Tuck playing as Michael Jackson.

Anyhow, with a 7 month old daughter to take care of, and mine and my wife's health to consider, it's definitely not a risk I'm willing to consider. Anyhow, like I said, I will keep everyone posted on how everything turns out.

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I respect your caution here, but do realize that even an AIDS screening is not bulletproof. It is possible to contract the disease and carry it for a period of time before test will read positive. There is no way to completely eliminate the risk and participate in this activity.

If you're both clean and they're being truthful about keeping the activity exclusive with you, the risk is virtually nothing. However, you would be trusting them to be straight with you about being only with you. The risk itself is small, but the potential consequences are huge.

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And my Mrs.? Forget it!! She is not Gashking's wife. Shit!!! She's a hottie, but she's also the last person I can think of who would even consider it.

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It's just my experience, pal and my take on things. Please don't take it personally. And no reflection on G's wife either. I'm sorry if I hurt your feelings. And you're absolutely right. We all have our life styles and there was no judgment on my part intended or implied.

Who am I to judge others? Judge not that ye be not judged.