The pressure on black guys is crazy

Women put on ridiculously high stardards for black males. When I was at high school and trying to flirt with girls, they would tell me their unrealistic expectations, that girls call guys with huge girth and medium size of "beer can dicks", but that she would like one as thick as a beer can with high lenght, like 9 or 10 inches. And I'm pretty sure that she was refering to what she expected from me.

Another case was when a girl made a "joke" modeling a dick with clay dough which looked enourmous, she told other girls that this was my dick and they started laughting.

I'm brazilian and I'm considered upper middle class in here, so the social circles that I lived in had very few blacks. As an example, I was the only black guy in my classroom(Brazil has a lot of inequality).

My dick is 7.5x5 and I know this is considered above average. I did not create this thread to show off or to get you guys to tell me my dick is a good size, I have a good notion of what the statistics say and I do believe in them. I made this thread to get this off my chest. I feel like even with my current size, girls will get disappointed by it, because they expect every black men to look like the ones they watch in ����. You're not as big as __________, Dredd and __________? Then I'm disapppointed.

I'm currently 20 and I never had sex, partly because of this insecurity.

Sorry for any English mistakes.

Thanks for sharing and I know this may be tough.

How about saving yourself until you meet the right woman you would like to marry? This way you can work on being the best version of yourself and you don't have to play mind games.

Nice input, and sorry for your experiences which are kinda sour.

I guess you might have women watching that ���� with __________, Dredd, Gomez, but surely not the norm.

That type of sex - interracial - seems to be portrayed rather one way depending on what side of the fence your on ... what do I mean? well, I like dark skinned women, and have looked around on such websites that show off the exotic sexiness of the black woman, and 9/10 times they are having sex with a white man, usually just over average or average size I would say, nothing massive.

The acting depicts them enjoying themselves as even the white girls on black men through blacked do, its all acting anyway, but the black ladies seem more at ease in the scenes, not trying so hard, not so desperate if that makes sense?

Anyway, yeah I went off topic some. But seriously, these women your on about are NOT typical, they are just being playful, naive, and immature.

I've not had sex in 10 years through my own spiritual choices, however I have had allot of pussy before, and most women were shocked by my size, and I'm nothing like __________, and some of these women loved black cock, yet they even said I was bigger then the blacks. So, in the end, some of those women contradicted themselves.

What it all means is that SOME of today's women, due to them on a whole being more open, and experimental about sex, feel good to have horse play about sex, and it sounds like they have been having banter with you, because black men are rumored to be massive in size, and all like stallions in the bedroom, which has been proven to be complete fabrication, apart from one Nigerian penis size study which showed the slightest larger flaccid in black men measured.

I think you have nothing to be insecure about, its just telling yourself this.

At the size you are, trust me, these girls who claim such size to you, will be shocked by what you have.

You must know that those who shout the loudest, and beat their chests have the most to hide, or are full of shit? in my culture in the UK this is what we know, and usually the lass who says she has a big one at the weekend, loves them massive, loves being stretched out, is just all talk ... like us men talk allot of shit about what we have, like fast cars, been with so many women, knew such a celebrity etc etc bragging, making stories, and not being modest.

Social validation in this age with all the technology, and the generations seemingly more and more dim, I urge you to be confident in what you have, because your a survivor, indeed being the only black kid and you were strong for not allowing any outside interference put you down, it means you can overcome this.

Dont take everything a women says as truth, not being disrespectful to women, but again to reiterate what I typed above, they like us men, talk shit.

If women are really sat watching blacked I will eat my hat its a niche fetish market, aimed more for men based on how the women look .. just look at the women, the size of them, appearances, all white, some VERY white its all to appeal for the audience, and if women did watch, they would be more aware of the female actress , and compare themselves to such.

If you require any assistance please do ask me.

...and your English is EXCELLENT

You have nothing to worry about. This is just the result of watching one-sided ���� with huge black cocks. There are more types of ���� available in which black dudes are just of normal length and have great sex. So you do not have to worry about anything.

You said you are black and have a 7.5x5 dick. Let me tell you something, YOU CAN HAVE A GREAT SEX LIFE. Not because of your already big penis, but because of the fact that penis size has nothing to do with great sex as long as you know how to control your penis (as long as you don't have sex with a "size queen". In that case it does matter). As long as you have 3.5"-4" long penis(erect), your sex life would be great. If not, you need to see a doctor. This is not your case so be happy.

Let me tell you something which I have learnt throughout these years. IF A WOMAN HAS THE RIGHT TO JUDGE A MAN BASED UPON HIS "SIZE", THAT MAN HAS ALL THE RIGHT TO JUDGE THAT SAME WOMAN BASED ON HER "SIZE". That's KARMA for her.

As long as sex is concerned, be honest with yourself and tell me something, do you really want to have sex with someone who is going to judge you on your size because she saw a bunch of black guys in ���� with huge dicks? Do you really want to have sex with a woman who is going to judge your size based on your ethnicity?

In this era of technology, ���� is easily available and people only see the things that ���� want them to see. Black guys(or guys of any ethnicity) are just a subset of an enormous community of male humans. Men in ���� do not speak for men like us who have a normal penises.

So be smart and do not fall into this mess. I am speaking from my own experience. I am an Indian and women do not have any expectations from my people which is funny because we people literally wrote Kamasutra. We(Indians) are supposed to be great in sex but we aren't because this is reality(also there is a lot less indian ���� available).

With that said, happy PE

PS: I am 21 and I've also never had sex. I don't think I am ready for such a drastic step in my life but I am preparing myself for it and I am in no hurry and neither should you.

I second what Redz and Haursen have said. While I went thru long periods of celebacy for spiritual reasons long before PE, I also smashed alot in my younger years. Back when I was 6x5. Now, Im not black, but I would agree the culture we have grown up in thanks to ���� has for sure tweaked everyones perception of sex. And more importantly relationships. My point is, while you may have a very real cultural expectation, use this time to better yourself. Pick your own reality, dont be fooled into accepting someone elses concept of you, or what they expect of you. And you will attract the people/women worthy of your respect. They are out there. I think of the women(sluts) that turned me off relationships, then the years spent celebate, building myself, then finally the woman I married that I am proud to call my wife. Hang in there. Become what you want to attract!

DLD said:

https://mattersofsize.com/topic/the-__________-complex.4927/

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Lots of good input here

Haursen said:

This post added to Are Black Men Bigger? Thread.

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It is a ver old but awesome article along the same line of thought.

Many people believe in the myth that black men have much larger cocks than other ethnicity. The sad part is this is that it is not true and the people that suffer with the most are black men because they feel as though they need to live up to a size that’s completely irrational.

I would says its about keeping men and women seperated (all races) and especially Men of all Races if i had to geuss.

nobias said:

I would says its about keeping men and women seperated (all races) and especially Men of all Races if i had to geuss.

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Excellent point

But why is it that only black men are considered/potrayed to have huge cocks....?
I mean, why not Asians, or whites or indians or any other race?

Avglen61 said:

But why is it that only black men are considered/potrayed to have huge cocks....?
I mean, why not Asians, or whites or indians or any other race?

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Good question

get stretching and get that 9 incher you are starting well above average I was 6 inches bone pressed when i started im now 8 inches bone pressed you could get an extra 2 inches giving you 9.5 in a years time best of luck

REDZULU2003 said:

...and your English is EXCELLENT

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You said you've not had sex for up to 10 years now. Do you masturbate?

FKP said:

Women put on ridiculously high standards for black males. When I was at high school and trying to flirt with girls, they would tell me their unrealistic expectations, that girls call guys with huge girth and medium size of "beer can dicks", but that she would like one as thick as a beer can with high lenght, like 9 or 10 inches. And I'm pretty sure that she was referirng to what she expected from me.

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There seems to always been some kind of stereotype with ethnic or racial groups...
...in my youth, there were ethnic Polish jokes. It may seem funny to me, but to Polish people it's racism. Just like this girl with her ridiculously high standards expecting all black men to have cocks the size of a toddler's arm is very racist. Just as expecting all Asians to be born mathematicians and know some form of martial arts.

I have talked openly with black women and dated several in my life. They all have said many times, "Not all black men have huge cocks, it's not true"

huge-girth said:

You said you've not had sex for up to 10 years now. Do you masturbate?

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Sometimes