well I sort of understand. I don't know that I'd bring it up at dinner but if it was with people I feel confortable with and no little kids that would understand I'd be with DLD here and tell them just about everything. And open, honest relationship is best. heck if the ROP and Penis Enlargement work for me as well as some and I see increased errection strength, legth, and bigger loads I already have a couple male family members I will share the info with. heck one of them is actually losing it...it's shrinking (going up inside him) and both use viagra. I think it is important that we share this knowledge with those we love.