Hi guys. I am 29 years of age. I'm starting this program with a 4.7 inch. I also have a prematurely ejaculating problem as well. To be truly honest I'm tall and handsome but due to my insecurities down there I've never had a girlfriend in my entire life. I've contemplated suicide because I used to think both of my problems were uncurable. What kind of results should I expect given the fact that I'm a 110 % dedicated to this program?
Seeking a genuine advice.
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This is a common feeling among many men I would say even the majority think about it at least once. Some women, mostly the ones you don't want to meet anyways, think penis size is important. Most women aren't really going to care. That is the truth of matters.
P e is serious. I believe it's harder than actual exercising at a gym. But if you're dedicated, it becomes fun habitual. The sky is the limit as well with PE. There's countless examples in this brotherhood alone.
As for premature ejaculation, that's pretty common not terribly serious. You can practice kegel exercises. You can practice edging. Also, a lot of it is mindset.
Also keep in mind, with the newbie routine, you can easily get an inch in 4 to 6 months about. Again, PE is not easy but it can be fun with the proper mindset and dedication. With an extra inch, not that hard to get, you will be at 5.7 in. At that point you're bigger than most men in the world! But keep in mind my man, a bigger penis will not equate to satisfaction. The mindset is more important infinitely so than the size of our dicks.but the newbie routine is easy, doesn't take long to do it daily, and you could do it with just your hands!
P e is serious. I believe it's harder than actual exercising at a gym. But if you're dedicated, it becomes fun habitual. The sky is the limit as well with PE. There's countless examples in this brotherhood alone.
As for premature ejaculation, that's pretty common not terribly serious. You can practice kegel exercises. You can practice edging. Also, a lot of it is mindset.
Also keep in mind, with the newbie routine, you can easily get an inch in 4 to 6 months about. Again, PE is not easy but it can be fun with the proper mindset and dedication. With an extra inch, not that hard to get, you will be at 5.7 in. At that point you're bigger than most men in the world! But keep in mind my man, a bigger penis will not equate to satisfaction. The mindset is more important infinitely so than the size of our dicks.but the newbie routine is easy, doesn't take long to do it daily, and you could do it with just your hands!
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everything is possible in the brotherhood! I understand feeling suicidal as I’ve dealt with these things in my past but try to be more objectionable and scrutinize your thoughts and return counter thoughts that are positive. There are many ways Cure premature ejaculation and I’ll list a few of them down below. Also be sure to get yourKegels in.
Becoming in touch with your orgasm
There is a very fine line between cuming and about to cum. making this distinction is the first step in having more staying power.
Identify your brink of orgasm
You will want to identify the fine line that separates cuming from about to cum. During this period pay special attention to what brings you almost to orgasm. What are your thoughts? How long does it take to get there? Keep Track of this information for future reference. The goal here is to paint a mental picture of your orgasm and identify just what brings you to this brink and what you can do to stop it.
Breathing to Reduce Excitement
Simply taking a deep breath at the brink of orgasm is a very effective way to reduce your excitement level and reset your orgasm. It does not work for everyone but it is worth trying.
Breathing to Reset Orgasm
When you feel that you are getting too close to orgasm, just completely stop and take a deep breath. Give yourself a minute or two to reset your mental orgasm. Once you feel that you have reset this mental orgasm continue with the confidence that the physical orgasm is far off. You will find with practice this process will give you longer and longer periods of staying power. Eventually this mental reset will happen automatically with no pause.
The Squeeze Techniques
When you feel close to your orgasm completely stop, pull out, take a deep breath and apply one of these two squeezing methods. One method usually works better for men than the other so try them both.
BASE SQUEEZE: at the brink of orgasm stop, take a deep breath. Using the OK grip squeeze the base of your penis and squeeze until the urge has faded.
UP SQUEEZE: at the brink of orgasm stop, take a deep breath. Using the forefinger and thumb squeeze the top and bottom of your penis just below the glans until the urge to orgasm has faded.
DLD Push
The DLD Push is a technique to prolong orgasm and remain erect after orgasm. This method involved a hard reverse kegel right at the brink of orgasm. It takes some practice but once it is mastered 4-5 orgasms are possible.
Reverse Psychology
A great technique that seems to work very well for me is the Reverse Psychology method. Previously to having sex I convince myself that I am going to have problems ejaculation.
To read more and get more information just click the link below.
Thank you for your sincere and wishful words Philevan. I really mean it
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Thinking about suicide because of your dick...... man, I remember being there for the first 30 years of my life but not anymore. I was born just a bit bigger than you at 5" erect NBP and I went through similar situations(hence the name Blueballs). After about 20months of PE I gained 1.5" in length and about 0.5 in girth and went from being a 2 pump champ to lasting 30-45mins per pop all due to PE and mos community. I'm about 6.6" now and still gaining.
After I got past 6" in length my confidence issue suddenly disappeared by itself because that's what's considered average or "normal" in my country.
You can see picture proof here: 10 months Extender progress pictures - Matters of Size | Male Enhancement, Body Modifications & Peyronies Forums
Regarding your size I think that realistically you can expect to get to 6" in length in 2 years max if you're a slow or hard gainer. everything past 6" will be a bonus. I'd recommend you start with a manual newbie routine and stay on that for 6months straight before you buy any equipment or try something new. After that conditioning period, you could get a bathmate and an extender and incorporate them into your routine.
For Premature Ejac I'd recommend to read everything you can find about edging and start practice it from day one along with your routine, that will def. make a huge impact on your stamina.
My road to stamina control went trough these 3 checkpoints:
1. Daily Edging practice for 20-30mins with ejac(only)every other day
2. Strong PC muscles, you need to get to the point where you can hold one 60s long super hard kegel in order to get to step 3
3. Mastering the dry orgasm. This is the most powerful thing I found to work and it completely changed my sensitivity levels to the point where I can have sex for almost as long as I want/
After I got past 6" in length my confidence issue suddenly disappeared by itself because that's what's considered average or "normal" in my country.
You can see picture proof here: 10 months Extender progress pictures - Matters of Size | Male Enhancement, Body Modifications & Peyronies Forums
Regarding your size I think that realistically you can expect to get to 6" in length in 2 years max if you're a slow or hard gainer. everything past 6" will be a bonus. I'd recommend you start with a manual newbie routine and stay on that for 6months straight before you buy any equipment or try something new. After that conditioning period, you could get a bathmate and an extender and incorporate them into your routine.
For Premature Ejac I'd recommend to read everything you can find about edging and start practice it from day one along with your routine, that will def. make a huge impact on your stamina.
My road to stamina control went trough these 3 checkpoints:
1. Daily Edging practice for 20-30mins with ejac(only)every other day
2. Strong PC muscles, you need to get to the point where you can hold one 60s long super hard kegel in order to get to step 3
3. Mastering the dry orgasm. This is the most powerful thing I found to work and it completely changed my sensitivity levels to the point where I can have sex for almost as long as I want/
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That’s awesome and I can’t wait to hear the good news! I have a lot of confidence in you so make me proud!
Thank you Blueballs for both the effort you took in compiling this message as well as giving me hope. A sincere gratitude Blueballs
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❤️ I know you will
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Wonder if he gained ?
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I wish we knew
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Indeed we should pray for every brother that has gone and wish them the best in their journey outside the brotherhood
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All the best, its a horrid place to be when you feel like that.
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Yep his story is stressful, dissatisfied etc because he claims he s a good looking guy etc whit a small penis n that feeling might be crazy a man knows his potential but you know there's something missing n is like fuck i have it all but there's something n that important part is down there n you know is not enough..i know that feeling..
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We don't deserve it that's why we here imo
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Not sure if you dont understand what I said, the angry face 
I understand him, been there myself
I understand him, been there myself
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Not sure if you dont understand what I said, the angry face
Yep actually the angry ? meant the the frustration you explained whit your words yeah but you have a massive cock red LOL you were right i remember years ago i had a even smaller dick,was so small.
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