Rough Sex Girlfriend

Hi Everyone!

This is my first post so I like to introduce myself. I am 21 years old and from Switzerland.

Now to the problem. I have a new girlfriend which likes to be fucked very hard, she said she likes S/M, bondage, sex with two men. I have no experience with rough sex because I like it soft. My problem is that I don't know how to make hard sex and where the barriers are. Can someone give me some tips how to make hard sex??? I love that girl and would like to try it, one time I told her she should show me what she mean by hard sex, but she said it must come out of myself and there is no manual to do that. But I have no idea how I should penetrate her....

Thank you for your help.
Joschka

P.S.: This is no fun post I am serious (I know the question sounds sili....)

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I am fucking disenchanted about how women feel, this girl changed my whole view non women..... oh shit I am sick and very sad. Have others experienced such feelings after a girl said what she likes ????

You are lucky that you have a girl that is open and willing to tell you what she likes alot of women are uptight about admitting what they like in the bedroom.

If she like to be penetrated hard then do that,if your in the missionary position start of normal and build up the intensity,start to thrust harder and deeper,and keep doing it harder and deeper,hold her shoulders to get better leverage and really give her a hard fucking,if you get to rough she will soon tell you.My wife loves to be fucked like that.

Same with doggy style really slam into her,try smacking her arse as you do it,pull her hair,put your hands around her throat,stick a finger up her arse while fucking her.

Experiment if you do something she doesn't like she will soon tell you.

joschka said:

I have a new girlfriend which likes to be fucked very hard

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:clap: That's cool.

she said she likes S/M, bondage

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:scratchch Not something I can relate to. Doesn't really do anything for me. I could see maybe a little slapping each other as a fantasy kind of thing, but I couldn't do that in a relationship. Hey, if it works for you roll with it.

sex with two men

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:shocking: You have no problem with sharing her with another guy or does that one present a challenge to get past?

As for the advice itself, if this is what you guys want, you need to find some ���� that has this kind of stuff in it and watch it together and figure out what you can do. There is a good scene with Melissa Lauren in Un-Natural Sex #12 that might give you some inspiration. I'm sure there is better ���� out there for this kind of thing, but this is the only thing in my collection.

prince Albert said:

If she like to be penetrated hard then do that,if your in the missionary position start of normal and build up the intensity,start to thrust harder and deeper,and keep doing it harder and deeper,hold her shoulders to get better leverage and really give her a hard fucking,if you get to rough she will soon tell you.My wife loves to be fucked like that.

Same with doggy style really slam into her,try smacking her arse as you do it,pull her hair,put your hands around her throat,stick a finger up her arse while fucking her.

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Well put.

Just let the whole thing gradually become harder. I'll sometimes start real slow and soft, but as she gets excited I'll add some roughness to it. Maybe start with some slight biting her (NEVER bite hard though), moderate force ass grabing, ass slaping, hold her head down to the matress while fucking her harder, maybe put a finger or two in her mouth, slightly slap her tits or VERY gently put your hands around her neck in a "choking" way (don't use any real force here unless she is really into it). All this for missionary.

If she's on top, slapping her ass and ocasionally pull her down to you with your arms on her sides and back, hands on her shoulders holding her works great. You can make some fast hard fucking by moving your hips while holding her down tight. This is great becouse it takes away the control she has while on top. In this position I'll sometimes kinda kiss her but tongue-fuck her mouth instead for a while. I think this -somewhat- gives the impression of being double penetrated. My girl really gets off on this.

For doggie, PA preety much covered it.

I can also reccomend this "japanese silk rope" cuffs and rope in you want to try some slight bondage. I bought these here http://nawtythings.com/funcuffs1a.html#silk and they are really soft and safe, so it's great for beginners. It's easy to get out of them without any help too.

She will probably enjoy some dirty talk too.

Good luck, and let us know how it goes!

joschka said:

she said it must come out of myself and there is no manual to do that.

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Just want to point out that this is the MOST important part.

It doesn't really matter if it "comes out of yourself" naturally the first time or not. By all means act like you know what you are doing, don't ask for permission for anything and don't ask if this or that feels ok to her. She will let you know if and when something is too much. Just make it gradual and you'll be fine.

Thanks guys for your posts. Really appreciate it!

If she likes it rough, and I mean honest-to-God-I-think-I-just-broke-something-intrnally hard then you have to give it to her with lust and vigor and no restraint whatsoever.

I had a gal that liked to be suBathmateissive in bed; she would literally come when I grabbed her by the hair and throat fucked her. She got off on having her nipples pinched HARD and gettin' smacked on the ass ass I slammed as hard as I could into her pussy.
There were times I thought my balls would fly off!

Keep talkin' up a stream of the filthiest shit you can think of; call her your little slut, tell her you're gonna fuck her throat and drown her with your come, make her play with her pussy while you pull out and shoot all over her face.
Pull your cock out of her pussy and just jam it in her ass and tell her to take it all like the hot little bitch she is.

A gal like that wants to give up all control and wants a man to take her over completely. If you get a little too "rough"...she'll let you know, but since you're at the softer end of the spectrum I don't think that'll be a problem.
Just remember that she'll get off on shit you might think is somewhat cruel and abusive, don't worry; she wants a man; a hard, tough, completely confident MAN, anything less and you'll probably kill her mood.

Remember; let HER tell YOU when to back down. Fuck the everlovin' shit outta her and she'll love you all the more for it.

MAXAMEYES said:

Pull your cock out of her pussy and just jam it in her ass and tell her to take it all like the hot little bitch she is.

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Whoa I wouldn't do this like that unless she's experienced on that one.

If you start licking and playing with your tongue on her asshole (make sure she's clean thoug) and you see she is into it, stick a finger or two first while talking dirty to her. If everything is good, then just go for it. I've been told that tongue play on asshole feels real good, and I think that's the best approach to getting anal in any case.

Like I said, though, "If she likes it really hard", that's a big IF and Joschka's judgement call. Also, when he wrote:

"I have a new girlfriend which likes to be fucked very hard, she said she likes S/M, bondage, sex with two men."

I figured that at least one of those guys had been there already, maybe even him.

Joschka, here's one small piece of unsolicited advice; if this gal isn't ready for anything more than a casual, sexual relationship you just gotta accept that. Don't let your emotions get all screwed up just because you two are going in two separate directions, just hang on for the ride and enjoy the hell out of it.
You can never change another person, and the best you could ever do for the both of you is to recognize a given situation for what it actually is, not what you'd wish it to be.

A whole shitload of people in the world, half or more of whom are women, don't have clue number one what they want out of life. And speaking as a guy who's been dealing with girls, and women, for over thirty years there are incredibly more women who could be your "One and Only" than you'd ever believe.