Preparing for a date using supplements, and minimizing performance anxiety. Help.

kushextender · Oct 10, 2007

Hi Everyone.

I figured this might be an important topic, since it may bring up similar thoughts to many others. In the past, I have cared about a girl highly, and than failed on the first attempt. On the other hand, girls I didn't really care for, I put the best performance on for.

I would like to know any ideas for improving chances of a rock hard boner, and possibly lasting longer. Another idea is to minimize the nervousness or similar feelings involved.

My thinking:
1.Take some Cialis beforehand. I have both liquid, and 10mg tablets. Question, how long to take it beforehand? Will a couple hours be okay? Is it better to eat before, or with it?

2. Have a beer or two. This has always gotten the jitters outta my system, but alcohol at too high of levels, definitely will kill any chance of an erection for me. I know other friends of mine, who have no problem having sex piss drink, but not me by any means. * This could be contradictory though, so id like your opinion on this beer idea.

3.Do a quick run around the block an hour or so, beforehand to get the blood pumping nicely.

Any other suggestions for me, and everyone who encounters similar issues please stop by and comment!

Thanks!
:Kush:

wesb · Oct 10, 2007

It may just be me, but when I take a pain med like hydrocodone or oxycodone, I still get horny and hard but I can go for a long time without cumming. Not much, a half of a Lortab 10 is fine for this. Add a bit of V or C and I'm a �� star

kushextender · Oct 10, 2007

Hahahah. Alright good to know wesb for future reference if I need to get into a punding session. Thanks!

MAXAMEYES · Oct 10, 2007

kushextender;281846 said:
Hi Everyone.

I figured this might be an important topic, since it may bring up similar thoughts to many others. In the past, I have cared about a girl highly, and than failed on the first attempt. On the other hand, girls I didn't really care for, I put the best performance on for.

I would like to know any ideas for improving chances of a rock hard boner, and possibly lasting longer. Another idea is to minimize the nervousness or similar feelings involved.

My thinking:
1.Take some Cialis beforehand. I have both liquid, and 10mg tablets. Question, how long to take it beforehand? Will a couple hours be okay? Is it better to eat before, or with it?

2. Have a beer or two. This has always gotten the jitters outta my system, but alcohol at too high of levels, definitely will kill any chance of an erection for me. I know other friends of mine, who have no problem having sex piss drink, but not me by any means. * This could be contradictory though, so id like your opinion on this beer idea.

3.Do a quick run around the block an hour or so, beforehand to get the blood pumping nicely.

Any other suggestions for me, and everyone who encounters similar issues please stop by and comment!

Thanks!
:Kush:

I'd suggest that you wait until you get at least into High School before you look at "girls" again. But maybe that's just me.

ithiel · Oct 11, 2007

damn you putting way too much into it. Relax and have fun.

remiii · Oct 11, 2007

"ultram" is the wonder drug , the doctor prescribes it to me cause its the safest pain killer there is ....... i can last a decent time when im on it , and i get mad horny to boot

booze weed and other pills are no good to me either

kushextender · Oct 11, 2007

ithiel your on pint with that idea. I put way too much thought into things lately, and im pretty sure its cause im taking a break on blazing ogkush. Going through that first week of crazy thoughts and shit.

On another note though, the night happened, and ended, without a closed deal. We were watching a movie at my place, which usually assures some action, but nope. Im really beating myself up, and thought it would for sure go down. Now im at work trippin. Oh wells.

Breidablik · Oct 11, 2007

kushextender;281965 said:
ithiel your on pint with that idea. I put way too much thought into things lately, and im pretty sure its cause im taking a break on blazing ogkush. Going through that first week of crazy thoughts and shit.

On another note though, the night happened, and ended, without a closed deal. We were watching a movie at my place, which usually assures some action, but nope. Im really beating myself up, and thought it would for sure go down. Now im at work trippin. Oh wells.

Did you make a move on her? Not much can happen with a woman if you dont take the bull by the horns.

Breidablik · Oct 11, 2007

remiii;281958 said:
"ultram" is the wonder drug , the doctor prescribes it to me cause its the safest pain killer there is ....... i can last a decent time when im on it , and i get mad horny to boot

booze weed and other pills are no good to me either

Could you tell us more about ultram?

remiii · Oct 11, 2007

Breidablik;281988 said:
Could you tell us more about ultram?

Well i suffer from prematare ejaculation , I mean really bad . I also have a bad back (3 herniated discs) so it was by luck or chance that i had sex while i was taking ultram

From what my doctor says there the safest pain killer, but i researched them AND alot of people get hooked on them , I take a couple when i visit a CL HOE

you need to get them from a doctor

For some strange reoson percosets or vicodin dont do anything for me , and there supposed to be way stronger than ultram's

Breidablik · Oct 12, 2007

remiii;282069 said:
Well i suffer from prematare ejaculation , I mean really bad . I also have a bad back (3 herniated discs) so it was by luck or chance that i had sex while i was taking ultram

From what my doctor says there the safest pain killer, but i researched them AND alot of people get hooked on them , I take a couple when i visit a CL HOE you need to get them from a doctor

For some strange reoson percosets or vicodin dont do anything for me , and there supposed to be way stronger than ultram's

And these things turns you into a pornstar?!

CrazyEight · Oct 12, 2007

The reason why you "performed" so well with girls you didn't care much for is that you were completely relaxed. Anxiety free. That's the place you need to be each and every time you have sex. Think about, does it make any fuckin' sense to have fear about sex!? One of the most fun and relaxing experiences that we have consistently in our lives. This shift of thinking doesn't have to happen for you overnight.

Remember, if you even have a thought of ejaculation. If you even think, "Don't ejaculate, Don't ejaculate!", you probably will. If you focus on that, you'll certainly get it. Now, start thinking about having extended pleasure for you and her. Get excited about going at it for long periods of time. Wipe out any thoughts of ejaculation. When you want to ejaculate you must do it with control and complete conscious awareness. You control it, it doesn't control you.

BillyMan · Oct 12, 2007

CrazyEight;282088 said:
The reason why you "performed" so well with girls you didn't care much for is that you were completely relaxed. Anxiety free. That's the place you need to be each and every time you have sex. Think about, does it make any fuckin' sense to have fear about sex!? One of the most fun and relaxing experiences that we have consistently in our lives. This shift of thinking doesn't have to happen for you overnight.

Remember, if you even have a thought of ejaculation. If you even think, "Don't ejaculate, Don't ejaculate!", you probably will. If you focus on that, you'll certainly get it. Now, start thinking about having extended pleasure for you and her. Get excited about going at it for long periods of time. Wipe out any thoughts of ejaculation. When you want to ejaculate you must do it with control and complete conscious awareness. You control it, it doesn't control you.

Look at what you did to the poor guy man. Now he is going to get down to it and start screaming in his head "DON'T THINK ABOUT THINKING ABOUT EJACULATING, DON'T THINK ABOUT THINKING ABOUT EJACULATING, DON'T THINK ABOUT THINKING ABOUT EJACULATING,"......................"aww shit, I came."

remiii · Oct 12, 2007

Breidablik;282077 said:
And these things turns you into a pornstar?!

Im not saying that , but like dude above me said, ULTRAM relaxes me , gives me that warm fuzzy feeling , and i feel great and last way longer than when im off it

Im not saying you need to turn to drugs , but its helped me ,im not gonna lie

10inchadvantage · Oct 12, 2007

Getting high on weed, but not blazed, does wonders for me in terms of lasting ability. Liquid cialis 2 hours before should get you right going.

kushextender · Oct 12, 2007

Thanks 10inch. That's actually what I was doing, the first two dates. It kinda got my hopes up, you know preparing and all, than coming back home "ready". I did a pump session instead muahahahaha! Betch.

BillyMan · Oct 12, 2007

kushextender;282099 said:
Thanks 10inch. That's actually what I was doing, the first two dates. It kinda got my hopes up, you know preparing and all, than coming back home "ready". I did a pump session instead muahahahaha! Betch.

So have you tapped that shit yet??

kushextender · Oct 12, 2007

Nope, haven't got to the third date yet. Sounds like were both into the games, so it's gonna be a tough one. Billyman, your making it even harder my friend, Im not patient at all. I'll for sure give the update when, and if it happens.

BillyMan · Oct 12, 2007

kushextender;282158 said:
Nope, haven't got to the third date yet. Sounds like were both into the games, so it's gonna be a tough one. Billyman, your making it even harder my friend, Im not patient at all. I'll for sure give the update when, and if it happens.

:s - Sorry man, but you can only play games so long before you cut to the chase. Why not make is sooner? lol.

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