My gf won't give me head. Advise?

Guys I feel pathetic. My gf won't give me head. She has given head to alot of guys before and she had never dated any of them wasn't dating any of them and never did date any of them. And she maybe didn't even kno some of them very well. They would just hit her up when they wanted something sexual and she would do/ and or let them do whatever whenever. So I'm her first bf. The thing is is that I look way better than ALL of the other guys. I mean WTF right? And I mean she sucks me sometimes ( not very often) but even then she just does it for a max of no more than 2 min. And with those other guys she would suck them till they came let them cum in her mouth and swallow their cum while their dicks were still in her mouth. But she has never sucked me until I have came and that means that she has never let me cum in her mouth and swallow my cum while my dick is still in he mouth because she has never sucked me until I have cam. And I asked her if she would give me hea last night ( and I even offerd to give her head too) and she said no, and said why should I have to do that. And got mad. I mean I just don't kno why she doesn't want too. I felt like sayin.... At least I'm fucking dating you and actually talk to you when I don't just want sex or something an at least I'm not just using you you Worthless FUCKING SLUT!! I was so mad but I maintained self control. I just don't see why she did that great shit for those fuckers that don't even look half as good as me and that were just using her. But she won't do it for me. Someone who looks pretty good ( not to be too big headed) and that actually cares about her. I really felt like hanging myself last night. And it's not just oral sex. She doesn't even want to have vage sex with me. And again she would let the other 20+ guys that she has been with ( an mind you she ha never dated any of them wasn't dating any of them and never did date any of them. And some of them she had only knew for like 2 hours before they got a bj and sex) use her and fuck her and suck them up......but not me. Someone please help me I don't kno what to do and I care about her but I'm about to leave her. Look me up on facebook if you want a look at me. My name is Rick diesel I'll be the guy with a six pack lifting his shirt up in the profil pic. Thnx.

You sound pretty pathetic. Grow the fuck up & walk away; that's my advice.


QUOTE: "Worthless FUCKING SLUT!!"

So why worry?

Thnx for the advice. But I want too try and fix it. You would walk away?

Sounds like she has self-image issues and used head as an "escape."

I mean she use to look better before she with me when she was doin all that. It's almost like I'm the one that's not good enough. So I don't think it's her thinkin she doesn't look good enough. Cause she fucked too wasn't just bj's that she did.

Sounds to me like you need a new girl. Piss on that noise. She has screwed 20 guys and she wont screw you? To hell with that crap! Walk away....you can't polish a terd

dude... you are wasting your time on a very insecure girl. find someone else.

Have you tried talking to her?

Seems sili, to break up, you don't seem to have any clue what she's thinking which is fine but it's not anything to make descisions off. You should tell her how you feel and ask her about it.

If i were to make any form of guess as to what her motives are behind resisting giving you a bj is that she's grown bored of all the sex or she's allowed herself to become ashamed of it and she's after more than just sex, like an emotional connection, perhaps thats why she chose to make you her first bf rather than just sexing you. She probably wants to take things slower and be careful and connect with you before she gets herself into another physical relationship, quite the opposite of a "worthless fucking slut" and if that is the case then i respect her.

Edit: If you don't want to put the effort in then break up, she's not right for you.

you suck, you and your girlfriend.I wish I wouldnt have said that,but i cant believe this is even an issue.how do you think we can solve this problem?

don't know you or your girl, but it sounds like she just use to having sexed and being "used" by random guys and you come along and try to wife her, she don't know how to take that...she probably don't enjoy all that she use to do and probably a little ashamed...so yeah you probably won't get her to open up to you like she did with other guys that used her in the past...she sounds kind of damaged, not judging her but you probably won't get what you want out of her if you are going to treat her like your girl. sounds backwards but who knows what goes on in some peoples mind

@rebel she will have sex with me but doesn't want too. @ itsk. We have been together for a year. And in the begining when we first met she would have letme just use her but I asked her out because I didn't kno about all of that stuff. So no she didn't want to take it slow before getting physical. And no matter what a girl that does that shit is a "worthless fucking slut" I don't care if it's the fucking presidents wife! @vodka9tn49 yah I aparently do suck quite bad I can't even get my gf to suck me off. Lol and I thought maybe someone could help because I mean yalls gfs give y'all head right? I mean what do y'all say or do to get it? I'm just wondering what I'm doin wrong.. And as far as it being a prob. I'm not gunna be the only fucker that doesn't get that shit. Get ripped off. Fuck that no fuck that. I'm actually with her. I'm not gunna getripped off.

Sorry i'd assumed it was a recent relationship, but my advice still stands, talk to her.

people have a problem recognizing trolls. it's pretty obvious when he posts his facebook name

Your fine and thank you for the advise. I have tried to talk and she always gets pissed. Perhaps twins172_up is right and maybe i shouldn't treat her like my girl. Maybe she just does that to guys that she isn't dating and or barely knos. But again thnx for your advise.

@dmoney101 what are you tryin to call me. I posted that so people could look at me and give me an opinion. Because maybe the prob is that I'm busted. Idk. But that's why I put my name. And did you look or something and you think I'm busted? Because you called me a troll. And I happen to think trolls are quite ugly....

Get head from someone else... stop asking for it.... if she wants to keep u she will suck u off.... if not, at least u will find out..

Rickyg.

Your trying to flog a dead horse in hope that it gets up and runs man..!!

The reality is your wasting part of your life with this women, do you think that she will suddenly change..? personally I think she will never change mate..!! You say that she used to fuck around and let guys do whatever to her, and her do whatever to them..? If I was you mate, I could not trust her as far as I could throw her, do you trust her..? with her past, I think she would definitely do the dirty on you Ricky..!!

I have seen women like this in the past, that flock around the bad boys, dropping their knickers at the drop of a hat, later I see one of them in a relationship with a nice guy [ someone I know ] he will do anything for her, but all she will do is walk all over him, and treat him like a dick head..!!

Why..? because she prefers the bastards, and prefers to be used and treated like shit..!!! It's crazy Ricky, but this is the way some women are, you need to fuck her off, and get with a girl that has more respect for herself and the person she is with. The truth mite hurt Ricky, but you need to do this, further down the line, you will be glad that you did..!!!

MAXAMEYES;441854 said:

You sound pretty pathetic. Grow the fuck up & walk away; that's my advice.


QUOTE: "Worthless FUCKING SLUT!!"

So why worry?

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^ Listen to this man.

If she's been w 20 plus guys & ur her first bf dont walk away...RUN!!

Sprinkle gold on your penis.

Or sprinkle on some crack rock....just sayin