Might be getting a divorce!

Aimingforthetop;438058 said:

Just my 2 cents. My ex was romanian (kind of thhe same )

They usually think different when it comes to relationship.
And they usually expect the man to be in charge and take their place as a women with a honor and respect you can only love them for.

But if this is the case she walks around right now being pissed at you for not setting up something to do. She needs a alpha male and expects him to take care of her as a lady.

She has e role of a women your the role of a man. And the man allways leads the dance!!

Im just talking out of experience. And if you dont have feelings anymore and you just got sick of her. Then nvm.

But if your in doubt then try and work it out. I garantee you that if she in anyway wants you then making homemade pasta. With shrimps in tomato sauce and 2 glasses of red whine will kick up the interest.

Not saying your her clown from now on. But do show her that you can go out for a good time. And enjoy it

Perhaps it is just a misunderstanding? Do understand that taking this conclusion is fairly hard since i have like 5% of what is going on. But i think it is worth considering.

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We've had many misunderstandings that I can work around with her. I have the ability to get along with her, but I honestly don't WANT to put in the work. I no longer desire her as my lover, companion, or family member.

I will always have some shred of love for her in my heart, due to what we've been through together. But overall, I just want to be FREE!

I forgot to mention, my wife went traveling with the family she nanny's for, and will be gone until August 1st. That's a whole 4-5 weeks of singleness! I am psyched. Also, about a week ago we agreed to get a divorce in December of this year. I wanted to do it sooner but she said December, so I'll play along until then.

As soon as we made this agreement, she started acting super nice to me, and telling me she loves me and all this shit randomly, and I can see in her eyes she's sad, not depressed sad, but like, heartache sad. I treat her very formally, and I still say "luv ya" when necessary but I have a feeling this is the correct path for us. Why do women always want what they can't have? The absence of my love seems to be driving her to an early sainthood or something.

It really sucks that we aren't going to get her permanent papers after all the time and money she spent going through the process (and effort too on both our parts) but that's not the reason we should be staying together. Plus, I don't want to get a divorce right after she's permanent and then go to prison for looking like a fraud.

In general I feel overwhelming happiness to have the end goal in my sights. It's a combination of excitement and mild comfort knowing I am not stuck in this relationship for the rest of my life. I told myself I wouldn't fuck her, but I think that's a bit unrealistic because she wants me often enough, and I figured I may as well try to keep her happy so she doesn't try and of that girl bullshit on me, like getting pregnant to keep me around, but then again that's a perfect reason to NOT fuck her I guess.

I'll have to tighten my reigns a bit more now when she returns. Also, while she's gone I am setting up the guest bedroom, so I can sleep there instead of sharing a bed with her. Now to find a cheap bedset!

Women always want what they can't have! Men try so hard to get women when all they need to do is acknowledge them then ignore them.

doublelongdaddy;439356 said:

Women always want what they can't have! Men try so hard to get women when all they need to do is acknowledge them then ignore them.

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So very true.