I'm scared!!!

Avglen61

Avglen61

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Long time ago.... I stared a thread in which I mentioned how I was afraid of cheating in general.......
Now.... those fears are comming back.....

Right now, it's 12:35am. Everybody is asleep except me. I just couldn't sleep with this thought in my mind......

I don't know why I really want a hug from somebody and tell me there is nothing to worry about......??
 
Avglen61 said:
Long time ago.... I stared a thread in which I mentioned how I was afraid of cheating in general.......
Now.... those fears are comming back.....

Right now, it's 12:35am. Everybody is asleep except me. I just couldn't sleep with this thought in my mind......

I don't know why I really want a hug from somebody and tell me there is nothing to worry about......??
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Here is a HUGE virtual hug from me! ❤️ If these fears are coming back again you’re doing the right thing by talking about it with the brotherhood. Keep in close contact with us during your moments of weakness and we will give you the strength needed to win the fight
 
Is that your partner cheating on you your scared of? If so been there especially when I am so worried about size, you always thi k they want better.

Chin up I'm sure you are OK and there's nothing to worry about, virtual hugs all around lol
 
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It is not that......
Infact, I do not even have a partner..... Nor did I had any.......

The thing is that I do not like people who takes advantage of other peoples trust........
I have heard numerous rumors about cheating and I kinda feels like I might get cheated on........

It is not the sex or penis size that I am worried about. Infact, I know techniques in which I do not even need to use a penis to make the woman cum........

The thing I really worry about these relationship is that if you want to be in a loving relationship, you have to risk being hurt.........
More precisely, I know techniques (plural) in which someone can cheat on their partner and their partner won't even know that they are being cheated on........... And I just cannot find anyone way to beat my own theory..........
If I can think of ways to cheat on someone, there is a chance that they can think of these techniques too........

This is why I am scared......
I do not have any contingency plan for my own evil.........
 
Yes this is all true however its one of life's things unfortunately, don't let it eat you up, the chances are it may never happen in particularly to you
 
I like to keep myself prepared for every outcome.......
Lets just say it is one of my necessary evils.......?
 
DLD said:
Here is a HUGE virtual hug from me! ❤ If these fears are coming back again you’re doing the right thing by talking about it with the brotherhood. Keep in close contact with us during your moments of weakness and we will give you the strength needed to win the fight
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Thanx man.....
Appreciate it.......
Now I need to get a physical one from someone........
 
How old are you?
It seems like you have little experience with women. Its called life. Yes, you will go through all those experiences in which you will feel like if its the end of the world. But over time you develop a steel core and your brain changes.

I was like that when I was a kid. Now, i open myself to a relationship. If she cheat, or I suspect, or she starts with game "fuck you, get out of here, have a nice life" and move on to the next one until finally one will click in the same chemistry, mindset etc. Thats how life is and is the same for everybody.

However most men are jealous, and in order to avoid these things they become controlling, demanding, machista, possessive, some even aggressive, but all those characteristics are directly related to insecurity and low self esteem.
 
Jackxxx said:
How old are you?
It seems like you have little experience with women. Its called life. Yes, you will go through all those experiences in which you will feel like if its the end of the world. But over time you develop a steel core and your brain changes.

I was like that when I was a kid. Now, i open myself to a relationship. If she cheat, or I suspect, or she starts with game "fuck you, get out of here, have a nice life" and move on to the next one until finally one will click in the same chemistry, mindset etc. Thats how life is and is the same for everybody.

However most men are jealous, and in order to avoid these things they become controlling, demanding, machista, possessive, some even aggressive, but all those characteristics are directly related to insecurity and low self esteem.
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I'm 21.....
And I agree with you.....
Life is all about trial and error.......

Seems like you have a lot of experience with these situations......
How am I supposed to deal with situations like these.....?

You also said that "if you suspect her". But what if you do not? What if she is just very smart and a good liar?
 
Avglen61 said:
I'm 21.....
And I agree with you.....
Life is all about trial and error.......

Seems like you have a lot of experience with these situations......
How am I supposed to deal with situations like these.....?

You also said that "if you suspect her". But what if you do not? What if she is just very smart and a good liar?
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How to deal with it? you grow some balls and suck it up, find another one.

If you do not suspect, no worries. You do your duty as a man. Be good, be loyal, give your 100%. If she fuck up, terminate the relationship and ignore her 100% for the rest of her life. You did your part, she didn't. She will have to live with it, not you.
 
We have one hell of a family here! I’m so proud of my brothers and how hard they work to help out their fellow brothers! ❤️
 
Thanks everyone.....
Especially you, @Jackxxx

What I gained from this thread is that relationship is something that requires the effort of both the parties.......

All this time I was trying to "save" a hypothetical relationship using logic and reasoning.....
That is why I did not find any solution as I was also thinking on her behalf........
 
Exacty it takes 2 to tango.
Just go with the flow and enjoy the ride. If you over think you will never find the answers.
Aren't you spring breaking?
 
Spring Break.
down here in FL Michigan state was here last week, this week is ohio, indiana, eastern michigan, SC, NC, and others. Absolutely gorgeous girls all over the place. Makes me wanna join ���� again to hit all those 20 year old.
 
Na man.....
Here in India, most of the is quarantined because of the corona virus......... LOL
 
Jackxxx said:
theres not even fcking TP or water here.
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Baby wipes are very available in water should be fine from your kitchen. People should have prepared when I told them 2 years ago! Guns, bullets, good, water, medications,etc. I have six months worth underground.BC0D6F93-3975-405B-842C-305BECAD14A4.jpeg
 
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