case study extremely big problem. HELP SOMEBODY PLEASE....

somehow ive ended here after battling this injury for al most 6 months. im in my 40's . i had jelqed off and on and pumped for a month or 2. nothing serious. felt better, and hung better it seemed. no real serious gains expected. just wanted better bloodflow and quality.

one day, i jelqed a bit harder than i had been, but no pain, and jsut for a minute. next day i pumped and accidentally went more than i wanted. no pain. immediately released and red along the base of the shaft. within the day it was gone. several days later i woke up with a shrunken unit and slight numbess on the shaft. had all hard flaccid symptoms.

was scared, so continued making my self have sex,. after a month or so, it seemed it was subsiding. i still woke up in the morning with a chub. but everything shrank to nothing during the day.then it started seeming like if we had sex more than once a week, it would traumatize everything and destroy my libido and size again.

very sensitive glans with burning /cooling feeling. shrunk all day. no erections. no night erections. then it would come back a week later with her, and we'd have sex again. eventually i figured out we had to quit for awhile. 6 months later, here i am. we just went a month of nothing. i still walk around all day shrunk to nothing. we had sex 2 days ago and it was great, but now it seems to be overly sensitive again. only time i hang normally , is if i lay down in bed awhile. but soon after i get up, its all gone again.

sensitivity/nerve damage, seems likely, but not sure. nothing feels like me down there unless im hard. it doesnt seem like i did anything too hard/painful to cause this, but i obviously did. not sure if this will heal ever, but i cant take any more panic attacks and anxiety. its hard to make it to bedtime every day. its the only relief i get.

it feels like i have half what i did on a normal day now, with no arousal. ive also noticed a constant pressure moreso while shrunken, in my rectum /perenium area,that tightens when i flex my penis. i get decent morning/night erections sometimes, and sometimes not as much. but im sure my anxiety day to day is effecting that . i cannot masturbate to get hard since the 2nd month of this, due to it irritating the nerves it seems on the head. actual sex doesnt irritate it as much, but it still does.

i always have the numbness/sensitivity issue to some degree, but its super bad when its shriveled up and burns. im just not sure the nerves will heal, and i dont know what to do now. im mentally exhausted and depressed. i can barely force myself to work or do anything that involves moving. it lets me know every step of every day what ive lost.
 
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yeah.. .i get this feeling this is just what it is now. which means im totally useless from now on. sex, work, father, all of it. its absolutely devastating to end up this way. never should have happened. but unless a miracle happens, i cant seem to get anything going right when it all feels so foreign and unattached . urologists aint gonna work hard enough to make anything happen.not that they can make me feel what is gone anyway. i can already see that trend in all of them. ill just keep stretching and praying and deal with what it is i guess. nothign i can change now. i just wish i could forget that day i decided to try this.
Have you seen a doctor?
 
yeah.. .i get this feeling this is just what it is now. which means im totally useless from now on. sex, work, father, all of it. its absolutely devastating to end up this way. never should have happened. but unless a miracle happens, i cant seem to get anything going right when it all feels so foreign and unattached . urologists aint gonna work hard enough to make anything happen.not that they can make me feel what is gone anyway. i can already see that trend in all of them. ill just keep stretching and praying and deal with what it is i guess. nothign i can change now. i just wish i could forget that day i decided to try this.
Trust me you sound like me a few months ago. You can ask everyone here for this.
The solution is in your hands as it was mine.
The first solution is willpower and the second science.
Find the power to visit andrologist and urologist. Then go to a therapist for your soul and continue PE. With PE things only go better and never worst.
 
Trust me you sound like me a few months ago. You can ask everyone here for this.
The solution is in your hands as it was mine.
The first solution is willpower and the second science.
Find the power to visit andrologist and urologist. Then go to a therapist for your soul and continue PE. With PE things only go better and never worst.
PE has destroyed everything that was my entire life. how on earth is that gonna help bring back what its taken from me.

but what happened to you and what caused it? just trying to compare similarities if possible, cause this has killed my life in every way possible so far.
 
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PE has destroyed everything that was my entire life. how on earth is that gonna help bring back what its taken from me.

but what happened to you and what caused it? just trying to compare similarities if possible, cause this has killed my life in every way possible so far.

The symptoms you've described IN YOUR FIRST POST suggest a condition known as Peyronie's disease, which involves the development of fibrous scar tissue inside the penis that causes curved, painful erections. Peyronie's disease often results from repeated injury or trauma to the penis, such as what can occur with aggressive jelqing and pumping exercises.

The initial symptoms you experienced, such as redness along the base of the shaft and subsequent numbness and shrinkage, align with the acute phase of Peyronie's disease. Over time, as scar tissue forms and the condition progresses, it can lead to deformities in the penis, erectile dysfunction, and psychological distress, as you've described.

While it's essential to consult a healthcare professional for a definitive diagnosis and treatment plan, there are several options available for managing Peyronie's disease. These include oral medications, injections, traction therapy, shockwave therapy, and surgery in severe cases. Psychological support may also be beneficial in coping with the emotional impact of the condition.

So, GET UP. Do what you should have ALREADY done in the first place. Go to the andrologist and fix this thing and start antidepressants. I TRULLY Understand you. I truly do. Furthermore, I am one of those guys that experience serious psychological problems and I try for myself too. Get UP and do it
 
The symptoms you've described IN YOUR FIRST POST suggest a condition known as Peyronie's disease, which involves the development of fibrous scar tissue inside the penis that causes curved, painful erections. Peyronie's disease often results from repeated injury or trauma to the penis, such as what can occur with aggressive jelqing and pumping exercises.

The initial symptoms you experienced, such as redness along the base of the shaft and subsequent numbness and shrinkage, align with the acute phase of Peyronie's disease. Over time, as scar tissue forms and the condition progresses, it can lead to deformities in the penis, erectile dysfunction, and psychological distress, as you've described.

While it's essential to consult a healthcare professional for a definitive diagnosis and treatment plan, there are several options available for managing Peyronie's disease. These include oral medications, injections, traction therapy, shockwave therapy, and surgery in severe cases. Psychological support may also be beneficial in coping with the emotional impact of the condition.

So, GET UP. Do what you should have ALREADY done in the first place. Go to the andrologist and fix this thing and start antidepressants. I TRULLY Understand you. I truly do. Furthermore, I am one of those guys that experience serious psychological problems and I try for myself too. Get UP and do it
Well said. PE, like any other exercises l, can cause the hidden issues to manifest. Just like weight lifting that cause the hidden buldged/herniated spinal disc to reveal itself, spinning the jump ropes around to get the blood pumping causes the aged rotator cuffs to tear or work out faster because of a hidden calcification or scarring from an old trauma, hip or knee joints displacement out of thr blue from too sudden of a vigor in the sudden strenuous tasks, and many more. PE is an exercise, and there are as many types of intensity and routine to the PE as there are to the other types of exercises for the body. When you suffer from one type of injury due to the exercises, you switch gears to a different one and keep going to maintain overall wellness.

The body will heal. As KrisKos said, pick yourself up, move forward, seek help, and do everything you can to push forward with an upbeat attitude. Every battle is a lesson learn, and use the learned lesson to your advantage. There are those around who suffered similar issues, and they will stand and walk with you. As I said in my older posts, I suffered similar issues, but lighter in degrees. I did not stop PE but find new alternative methods to cope and improve the approach. My body readapted and became stronger. In time, yours will as well. The medical world may not have all the answers, but adaptive solutions are there as you keep on searching for it.
 
The symptoms you've described IN YOUR FIRST POST suggest a condition known as Peyronie's disease, which involves the development of fibrous scar tissue inside the penis that causes curved, painful erections. Peyronie's disease often results from repeated injury or trauma to the penis, such as what can occur with aggressive jelqing and pumping exercises.

The initial symptoms you experienced, such as redness along the base of the shaft and subsequent numbness and shrinkage, align with the acute phase of Peyronie's disease. Over time, as scar tissue forms and the condition progresses, it can lead to deformities in the penis, erectile dysfunction, and psychological distress, as you've described.

While it's essential to consult a healthcare professional for a definitive diagnosis and treatment plan, there are several options available for managing Peyronie's disease. These include oral medications, injections, traction therapy, shockwave therapy, and surgery in severe cases. Psychological support may also be beneficial in coping with the emotional impact of the condition.

So, GET UP. Do what you should have ALREADY done in the first place. Go to the andrologist and fix this thing and start antidepressants. I TRULLY Understand you. I truly do. Furthermore, I am one of those guys that experience serious psychological problems and I try for myself too. Get UP and do it
Very good post
 
im not saying i dont have some sort of peyronies going on. but whats moreso bothering me is where im at again after my week ago trying sex/masturbating again. i just dont really seem to feel anything all day . nothing but a burn that is. i just feel a cold nub it seems. nothing feels sexual whatsoever , and theres no way to be interested in sex at all. i just dont know anymore. as far as peyronies. my erections are generally straight still. ive had 2 instances where i made it hard after a month or so of no arousal, and it did curve to the left until i made it all the way hard. then it went away . but that doesnt go along with any of the pains ive had thus far. they were more internal and in the glans. my bloodflow 90% of the day and libido is just absolutely gone. and right at this moment, its cold to the touch as well. my "plumpness" has completely left the building. and when i kegel, it feels like an internal wall that never reaches my penis, and very lightly pained. its like i have no connection to it anymore unless i manually get it going, which starts the whole chain reaction of everything going to hell again and burning,and more numb
 
Libido is definitely correlate to mental and emotional stresses due to an onset or a manifestation of the injury from going too hard. This is definitely a belated Peyronie's time bomb occuring when intense PE causes it to manifest. That is for certain.

The coldness or nub feeling is the disengagement of the dorsal nerve branch, this we determined. But it is healing.

The "plumpness" is definitely the lack of blood flow and the proper sensitivity feedback by the nerve. I'm more worried about the plumpness over the sensitivity. The older posts indicated the engorgement of the shaft but with lack of informed shape on one side. That is a definite blood vessel rupture or a scarring tissue blockage. On the last erection, forget the curve at the moment, what was the engorgement? Fully round along the shaft? Misshapen glans? Don't worry about the sensitivity for the glans at the moment. What is the "plumpness"? Give details.
 
Go to your doctor to see if there is anything you can do to correct this
 
ill probably be there soon to get an mri or ultrasound. everywhere i go is pretty clueless and just wants to say cialis or viagra. its a joke.
 
Libido is definitely correlate to mental and emotional stresses due to an onset or a manifestation of the injury from going too hard. This is definitely a belated Peyronie's time bomb occuring when intense PE causes it to manifest. That is for certain.

The coldness or nub feeling is the disengagement of the dorsal nerve branch, this we determined. But it is healing.

The "plumpness" is definitely the lack of blood flow and the proper sensitivity feedback by the nerve. I'm more worried about the plumpness over the sensitivity. The older posts indicated the engorgement of the shaft but with lack of informed shape on one side. That is a definite blood vessel rupture or a scarring tissue blockage. On the last erection, forget the curve at the moment, what was the engorgement? Fully round along the shaft? Misshapen glans? Don't worry about the sensitivity for the glans at the moment. What is the "plumpness"? Give details.
my erection is shaped normal currently and most days. fully round. glans normal shape. the plumbness i mean is how i used to be on a normal day. not aroused by any means, but just full and plump. thats fully gone, and what i have is short and the life is gone.just feels like loose skin 90% of the day. no real feeling to speak of . disconnected feeling of no penis really. its a hard way to go through the day. every day. but then to have an erection at 5 am. its quite weird and depressing. since as soon as that erection decides to go, everything goes with it.

but the coldness i mentioned today isnt a nerve feeling cold. its where i grab it or touch my leg with it, and my leg feels the cold. now back 6 months ago i did have the nerve coldness feeling. that part has passed i think..
 
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my erection is shaped normal currently and most days. fully round. glans normal shape. the plumbness i mean is how i used to be on a normal day. not aroused by any means, but just full and plump. thats fully gone, and what i have is short and the life is gone.just feels like loose skin 90% of the day. no real feeling to speak of . disconnected feeling of no penis really. its a hard way to go through the day. every day. but then to have an erection at 5 am. its quite weird and depressing. since as soon as that erection decides to go, everything goes with it.

but the coldness i mentioned today isnt a nerve feeling cold. its where i grab it or touch my leg with it, and my leg feels the cold. now back 6 months ago i did have the nerve coldness feeling. that part has passed i think..
An ultra sound is definitely a good follow up.

Looks like the coldness is due to the lack of blood flow to the penis. This also is the cause for shrivel feeling and the lack of plumpness. Nitric oxide level is the responsible factor to keep your blood flowing into the penis, and of course any unseen blockage, or even high restriction of the veins, can also be the anomaly causing the lack of blood flow. It's literally like a water hose kinking to get blood to flow in. The flowing out part via the arteries is not an issue. My colleagues also pointed out the the lack of of pelvic strength can also be a problem. However, I pointed out that you didn't have that issue until the accident trauma.
 
i swear i could get around most of it if i had any drive. but after that day, it just started sucking that out of me. no matter what i think about or try, i get absolutely no response down there during the day anymore. even if i mentally do. i dont get any of that nice warm rush i used to. and that just ruins it all, and makes it crap. i dont even really see women at gas stations anymore like i always did without even trying. its kinda pathetic really.
 
The funny thing my colleagues brought up was the Covid related penile thrombosis cases. I cracked up at first, and froze when I thought about it for a good few days. They brought me cases out of the blue about ultrasonic scanning and detection of relatively healthy males between 25 to 40 where sudden ED manifestation out of the blue. Nothing works, including injections and pills. However, PE routines were implemented, while a few elected for extreme measures to remove the blockages though invasive surgeries.

In your case, it's indeed unique. It's both physical and mental traumas. This is why I'm invested time with you and walk side by side with you to offer what knowledge I have.
 
aint i just lucky. i appreciate it. no matter what, i just have a hard time seeing this ever go back to my old normal self sadly. nothing feels right . sigh.
 
the more and more i deal with this and try to keepa journal of what triggers what,its kinda starting to seem like some sort of pudendal nerve entrapment or something. (which sounds glorious to deal with)that or a blockage combined with it or something. this horrible feeling of not feeling anything but a burning tip is enough to wipe anybody out.
 
Yep. Your acknowledgement from your own deductions was pointed out prior. This is why logs are essential for all that we do, be home budgeting or home health tracking.
 
also been dealing with weird constipation, and urinary problems. doesnt ever feel like im done with either. man this blows. not a care in the world in this area, and bam, ive got all kinds of issues for life . it would explain the weird pains that come and go. and sensory changes when i move a certain way sometimes. so confusing.
 
also been dealing with weird constipation, and urinary problems. doesnt ever feel like im done with either. man this blows. not a care in the world in this area, and bam, ive got all kinds of issues for life . it would explain the weird pains that come and go. and sensory changes when i move a certain way sometimes. so confusing.
I pray you get better soon just stay involved with the brotherhood...you will get through this
 
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