Thx brother. I did get extremely lucky with my wife. I'm definitely batting out of my league. To know and see her you'd never suspect she's a size queen. She's very conservative in the way she dresses, acts, talk, demeanor. Extremely loyal, committed and dedicated to her family. We've been together nearly 20 yrs.
So yes I was with her even through the webcam girl years. It was a job to her, initially I suggested it to her before we we're even together because I thought she was a stunner with killer curves.
Next thing I know shes asking me.if I could set it up for her. I did and shortly after we were an item. Turned into a lifetime together.
She told me later that she was extremely worried about our first on night together. We we're very good friends but her secret 'requirements' would determine how long we we're an item.
Now as for your question. I asked my wife, to her 10 is fine but only if you're not too thick. The two don't go together well and anything over 10 is always a no regardless of girth.
No I never did any kind of PE before. Played around with a pump a handful of times in my 20's but only out of curiosity for a minute or two at a time.
My wife told MW recently when I started looking.into this stuff that's she's said for years I was nothing short of packing but I always thought she and others before her were just being nice by saying what they think a guy wants to hear.